Kattie Katya Bondar Professional Dating Scammer Internet

I posted on another thread about Katya. I met her twice and was was with her on her birthday in April 2015. Of course after blowing money on her and her family and then coming to this site a few months later I cut things off.

In July 2016 I was in Zaporozhye to meet another woman. She asked me about this woman I had met before. I showed her a photo. It turns out the lady knew Katya because she was friends with Katya's boyfriend. According to my date Katya has been with this man for at least 5 years. That might explain why I never was invited to Katya's home. I showed the lady a sample of the things written about Katya which shocked her. 

I also met katya this year in zaphorizhia, Ukraine, her hometown.

and the same story like other guys: expensive personal driver transportation from Dnipropetrovsk, overpriced restaurant 

and flat in cash,  and also lavish gifts for her and her family. and I also met her family. So I will not repeat the details.

I have read all the thread and i want to point out a few things.

1. she is 20 years old, not 25.

2. She is a go go dancer(They called PJ in Ukraine, don't know what PJ stands for), not a teacher, but it seems that she doesn't work as a dancer these days and earn money by scamming.

3. She said she studied psychology in university, but I doubt it because she is 20 years old, she still must be a student.

4. about her sister: some guys say her sister is good at English. But as far as I know, her sister can't speak English at all. Then, who is the so-called sister good at English? another person?  I want to compare this. So I appreciate if someone briefly describe her good-English sister: age or appearance.

I communicate with Katya with messenger, but sometimes she is not contactable for 3-4 days: I have read the Aussie guy visited her and met her family from 22 July 2015 to 25 July 2015 and druing this period, I can't connect with her. Her excuse was that she was sick. LOL. So i regard the uncontactable period with her as her meeting with other guys.

 And finally, you guys think she does this independently?(ripping off and split money with taxi driver, restaurant  and flat owner) or she belongs to some scamming agency?

I must admit I made a mistake to comment here. It was in the heat of the moment. To me she did nothing and was only mad about the communication. She didn't ask anything. I can't delete my previous comment so I try to fix this. Every coin has two sides. And I wrote without hearing the one of them. My mistake. I am sorry for any inconvenience I did and of course to the person involved and can't answer here Katya I must say sorry for my action.

I just want to THANK YOU ALL for making these reports and saving me a LOT MORE of my time and money. I was one of the ones that was lead to belive that Katya was available and had strong feelings for me. Although early in my communications with her I did a search on the net and didn't find anyting bad, I was still a bit more cautious than some of you and took my time to buy tickets and take a flight to see her but just before doing so and after feeling funny about things I did another search on the net on her name and thankfully found this thread. Disapointedly It seams she is very much a Typical Eastern European girl most of whom focus completely on $$$$ and rarely anything more. She claims only to want to be loved by sommeone who will not cheat on her but hipocrytically leads many men on, uses them all for $$$$, obivously cheats on all of them in one way or another and has far too much to learn about life to ever really know anything about love.

THANK YOU ALL FOR SAVING ME FROM THE SAME FATE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sincerely,

Disapointed but Relieved!

The new name Jekaterina Aleksandrovna is not a new surname. Aleksandrovna is the fathers name. The full name in Russia or in the Ukraine contains given name - fathers name - surname! So it is possible that her full name ist Jekaterina Aleksandrovna Bondar and the given name of her father is Aleksandr! So: have any of her victims heard the name of her father?

If there are other surnames used by her, please post them.

Reposted due to weird formatting:

To the Gentleman from Germany that posted stating Katya has started using a different surname - please include it here.

The more aliases we have, the more people will be able to Google her and find out the truth.

On that score she has set up a new VK page and name - she's now Ekaterina Alexandrovna.

http://m.vk.com/id317778957

And as the poster from Canada pointed out - you are fortunate you didn't visit her and get further sucked in to her vortex of despair. She is a parasite - nothing more.

To the Gentleman from Germany that posted stating Katya has started using a different surname - please include it here. The more aliases we have, the more people will be able to Google her and find out the truth.

On that score she has set up a new VK page and name - she's now Ekaterina Alexandrovna - full first name and middle name.

http://m.vk.com/id317778957

And as the poster from Canada pointed out - you are fortunate you didn't visit her or get sucked further into her vortex of despair. She is a parasite - nothing more.

Welcome to the world of hurt, my friend! Consider yourself fortunate that you found this before you went to see her and before you fell more for her because it is not fun!

As for me, I am just recently out of 1 and half years of her torture and I would say this horrible investment cost me to the tune of 6-$7000 and a whole lot of pain a heartache and time. I think most would agree, it's really not so much about the money as it is the personal betrayal of trust. 

For every ounce of joy there will be 10 pounds of pain, and I am sure you already a sensation of this with the lack of communication, always wondering what is going on, and all of the internal battles that surround her.

Advice for you: Do not waste another ounce of emotion on this person. You may have the desire to seek answers, try and talk with her to understand… but let me tell you that she will lie to you until the bitter end and never truly admit to wrong doing, only shift blame and try to manipulate you.

The main rule of a scammer is to never give up the game. In this regards she is a professional, in all other regards she is a poor scammer and really a poor person – soulfully speaking. 

I believe her sister plays the role of "good cop" too. She was supportive in some ways and tried to help, but also made excuses, covered up lies, and hid details and truth as well. I would not trust any of them. Who knows if they are even sisters. It seems she has so many men on the go, that she could be part of a syndicate or something - who knows....

She has no regard for people’s feelings. You are nothing but a target to her. Her conscience is seared and I believe she is addicted to this. Even after she was exposed and I had lost all of my time and money, I was still willing to forgive her and befriend her, just so I could understand who she really was at the core, but she had no regard for that. She still kept playing the game to the bitter end 

I could tell you stories of her disregard for me as a supposed “love”, “friend”, and person that would make your draw drop. Completely unnecessary to inflict so much upon me and could have shown compassion in many areas, but in the end she chose her own selfish and dirty desires over the slightest care for the pain she was inflicting. Of course all this became much clearer to see for what it was, once all was verified and she was revealed as a scammer and BIG TIME manipulator and liar, that she is.

It’s really sad, but it’s also a known risk in online dating. I had awareness of this, have always had a lot of street smarts, but I still allowed myself to believe in something that wasn’t there. Of course eventually all the suspicions caught up to her as we are all here, but as I said, consider yourself lucky you did not give her any more “benefit of the doubt”, like the rest of us.

Tell her fake last name so her game can continue to be exposed. She may try and use a different name but it will be hard to use a different face with her pictures all over the internet.

Evil deeds will produce bad fruit in ones life and she will experience the repercussions of her choices I am sure. It’s really all too bad.

So I am also talking with Katya for long time now(almost 6 months). The same here no time to talk not answering on Viper phone and Skype only a few times. I must say I did some research long time ago but didn't find anything. Today I tried again and fund this and a forum also saying about Katya. She told me a different last name and not Bondar. She told me also to meet there and to go to the Dnepropetrovsk airport she will pick me and rent an apartment. Told her I will do that myself. Don't know what to say but can't believe also all this. I had my concerns about all the communication and that she has no time. I also am a very busy man but then again you talk with this women seriously and you normal need to find the time. Can't believe also that she talks with many guys all together. I like that she was engaged with 2 guys and don't want to know how many have "seen" Katya in person. Of course she says she really cares about you. 

Hello:

Here I'm delivering the fifth and last installment in the series about this lady called "Katya Bondar". Prior to the delivery of this installment, I consider of utmost importance to point out that, the rebuttal posted by miss Bondar, is completely fabricated and misleading, at least as far as I'm concerned. Having said that, here it goes:

As I mentioned in previous installments, I met this "lady" on November 9th, 2014, after arriving at the Dnipropetrovsk airport. A couple of weeks earlier, I had been discussing with her by email the possibility of taking a flight directly from Kiev to the Zaporizhia airport, to what she refused forthright. At that moment, she explained to me that it was an unsafe airport, and even suggested that I wanted to do it that way because I was planning to meet other girls! She played the victim card at that moment, trying to make me look like a "player" :-). Afterwards, I realized that she didn't want me to arrive at that airport, only to justify the ride by car from the Dnipropetrovsk airport to the center of Zaporizhia that she was going to arrange for me. She clearly didn't want to lose that "opportunity" to perpetrate her scam.

Just for the record, an average ride by car from the Dnipropetrovsk airport to the center of Zaporizhia shouldn't cost more than 800 hrivnas...I ended up paying double that amount (1,600 hrivnas). That was her first ripoff.

That same day, around 1:30 pm, we went to the Blue Fish restaurant to have lunch. At the end of the lunch when the bill arrived, I ended up paying 1,600 hrivnas just for a regular meal for 2 persons, and of course with cash!. She told me a bogus story about the citizens and foreigners not being able to pay with credit cards in Ukraine! :-) But for her disgrace, a couple of months later, I could find out the price range of the dishes served in that same restaurant, and to my surprise, I realized that I should have paid around 30 dollars in total for the dishes that we were served that day. I ended up paying almost four times that amount (around 110 dollars). That was her second ripoff.

Then, it was the time to be accommodated in the apartment she rented for me. She told me that the rental for 8 days, was 480 dollares in total. At that moment, I didn't know the average prices of apartment rentals in her city, that's why that I didn't suspect anything about the amount I had to pay for it. Besides that, she made me sign a bogus contract, written in russian, for the rental of that apartment. Everything was "made up" by her to make it look like "legit", but later on I discovered that the average prices were at least half the amount I ended up paying. That was her third ripoff.

At that point, I was completely sure that she was a scammer, and that I had to detach myself from her as soon as possible. She even had the "gall" to take her sister to my apartment that night, with the intention of going to the karaoke. I refused going out that night, because I had a stomachache, and she showed herself very disappointed for that, and even her sister tried to shame me because of my refusal of going out with them. Pretty funny! :-) That's why the next morning we had a heated discussion about all the "events" that had occurred the previous day. That was the last day I saw her. I literally told her that I didn't trust her. Period.

Going back to her rebuttal, I wanted to delve into it a little bit further: Plain and simple, her rebuttal is riddled with childish and nonsensical rhetoric. It's worth mentioning that she makes use of some shaming tactics and ad hominems in her discourse, being the most salient ones the following:

Quote: "You are a f**king rapist who tried get me by force in the corridor of the apartment and you used photoshop on your photos so much that I didn't even recognize you in the airport.": The first part of her argument was utterly manufactured by her in an attempt to victimized herself before the eyes of the audience of this website. It's worth mentioning that she calls "rape" any unwanted interaction with a man. In my case, I was the one who called her on her bull****, and because she felt discovered, now she calls me a rapist. Really laughable! :-) The second part of her argument falls into the bias called "Charge of Unattractiveness". In this kind of shaming tactic, the person is accused of having no romantic potential as far as women are concerned. This can also be described as "circumstantial ad hominem". But going back to real facts, I have to point out that, based on her positive body language, showed towards me since the beginning, the situation was completely the other way around, and I can even go as far as saying that she truly liked me, because she literally told me that she liked "how I looked and how I talked" :-).

Quote: "You are a real monster in reality and no woman would ever want anything with you, of course if you do not take her by force.": This argument falls into the bias called "Threat of Withheld Affection". In this kind of shaming tactic, the person is admonished that his viewpoints or behavior will cause women to reject him as a mate. But going back to real facts, I have to point out that, based on further emails and text messages that she sent me some days "after our split", she literally told me that "she wanted to have family with me and that she felt miserable and so sad because of the outcome of our split". 

In conclusion, I have to say that this lady has contrived all this drivel, with the sole intention of bettering her public image and being able to victimize herself in order to avoid any sort of accountability for her actions. She is clearly butthurt, because I decided to dismiss her as a potential partner, based on her behavior. Period.

Finally, and as I mentioned in my last comment, there are a couple of "news" that I wanted you to know about this lady:

First news: She is not a teacher as she says, She studied Psychology at school, but she works as a PJ dancer in local clubs and bars. Also, she does some part-time modelling and that's it :-). Just for the record, I have a video that back up my words about this.

Second news: She is not 25 years old. She is just 20 years old. In other words, she wasn't born in April 16th, 1990. Instead, she was born in April 16th, 1995. As you see, she is even a liar in who she truly is as a person. Having said that, did anyone of you think that you could marry this "lady", or that she wanted to marry anyone of us? Get your own conclusions, fellow men! :-)

I don't have anything more to add up to this discussion. Thanks for your time.

Best regards!

Good afternoon:

Continuing with the chapters of "Miss Bondar"series, here you have the 4th installment of this thrilling story. Just a short note before proceeding with it: This story will be comprised of 5 installments in total. I promise you that I have a "nice surprise" reserved for the final chapter in this series. Keep your eyes glued for that next and last installment of this exciting soap opera. I promise that you won't be disappointed about it (at least I hope so) :-)

Here it goes: As I mentioned in previous comments, and offering a summary of the events at the same time, I met this "lady" on November 9th, 2014 at the Dnipropetrovsk airport, after a 1-hour flight from Kiev to Dnipropetrovsk that same day. I arrived at such airport at noon, and of course she was waiting for me there. After the check-out from the airport, we greeted each other and then she introduced me to her "private chauffer", who was also the chauffer of her entire family (at least that's what she told me) and we departed to our destination (Zaporizhye). The ride lasted around one hour, and we spent that time talking to each other and trying to get to know us a little bit more on a personal level.

At around 1:15 pm, we finally arrived to Zaporizhye, and because of the time, she told me to go to have lunch, to what I agreed. She decided to have lunch at the Blue Fish Zaporizhia. At that moment, I didn't know what type of restaurant was that, and everything seemed OK. But before coming into said restaurant, she decided to do something unexpected: She told me that we needed to pay for the consumption in that restaurant "in cash", and to justify that, she told me a really laughable story about the government not allowing the citizens and/or foreigners to pay with credit cards in Ukraine, and that every payment should be made with cash in hand. I knew that Ukraine was an impoverished country, and even though I didn't swallow her BS story entirely at that moment, I decided to give some credit to what she was saying, and we finally bought some Dollars and some Hrivnas, in exchange of my Euros.

Then, we arrived at said restaurant, and the next weird thing I noticed, is that she didn't let me see the menu, even though I asked for it. She told me that the menus in that restaurant were only written in Ukrainian, and they didn't have a menu written in English for that matter. She asked me what kind of meal I wanted to eat, and I mentioned her some traditional Ukrainian dishes. Next, after finishing our respective dishes, the waitress handed me the bill. To my surprise, it was an outrageously expensive bill (around 1,600 hrivnas) just for a regular, non fancy lunch for 2 people. At that moment, I realized something was definitely going wrong. Of course, she told me that that was the regular prices in Ukraine, but I knew it was complete bollocks and pure nonsense.

After that event, we got on the car and she left me in the apartment she rented for me, but prior to that, she told me to give her another 1,600 hrivnas for the ride from the Dnipropetrovsk airport to Zaporizhye, and an additional sum of 480 dollars for the apartment rental. At that moment I knew, deep down, that all those prices were inflated, something that I could corroborate later on that same day.

Finally, when I was in the apartment, and before she left, I told her to give me the keys, to what she told me that it would be better if she kept the keys with herself, because she wanted to "take care of me". I insist her to give me the keys, and finally I told her to give me at least a duplicate of those keys.

In addition, she told me to go out on that night, to what I said that I would let her know about it. But the thing is, she appeared at the apartment at around 7:30 pm, with her sister, even though she never mentioned that she was going to bring her sister that night. Then, she told me again, that I had to pay "only" 1,800 hrivnas for the disco and all the consumption there, and it was when "the s**t hit the fan" so to speak. I was utterly convinced at that very moment, that she had been pulling my leg since the beginning, and that everything was a filthy scam. Of course, I didn't let her know about my finding, but I was sure as hell that everything was amiss from the get go. I chose not to go out with her that night, and in revenge, this "lady" told me to give her another 800 hrivnas just because I had made her come into the apartment that night, without the intention of going out with her and her sister. In other words, she was "punishing" me for deciding not to go out with them that night. Pretty ridiculous, don't you think?

I was firmly decided at that moment to abandon her, and for that same reason, I gave her those miserable 800 hrivnas which she was so desperated for. She showed me her "true colors" at that moment. She is a "money hungry" after all.

Just to finish this chapter, I have to say that the next morning, she appeared in the apartment again, and I was sleeping at the moment she arrived. When I woke up, she was already there, looking at me, as I was lying on the bed. Only God knows how much time she had been staring at me, while I was sleeping, Pretty crazy girl in my honest opinion.

We had a heated discussion that morning, primarily because of the keys, and addiitonally for everything that had happened the previous day. She finally gave me the keys and left the apartment clearly upset. I was upset about the whole situation too. That was the last day I saw her. 

In conclusion, I travelled to Zaporizhia for one week, with the intention of meeting a beautiful and interesting girl for a potential future serious relationship, and I ended up staying with a miserable scammer for just 1 day. 

I have to say that, that journey gave me some teachings, but the most important of them all is, that is always better to think with your Big Head, instead of thinking with your Little Head! :-)

Regards!

PS: I promised that the next and final chapter will be very telling :-) Stay tuned!

Hello:

Having read the extremely hilarious response of the "Bondar woman", I'm going to address each one of her points referring to me accordingly lines below. I'm sorry to burst your bubble "dear lady", but as I said, I'm going to deconstruct, point by point, the staggering amount of nonsense that you spouted in your last coment. Here it goes:

Quote: "You are a f**king rapist who tried get me by force in the corridor of the apartment"

My response: Little brat, I didn't even touch one single hair of yours, literally. In the short span of time that we were together (less than 1 day, because I realized right off the bat that you were a scammer), you behaved like a self-absorbed and materialistic person. Next, the apartment wherein I stay, didn't even have a corridor!. It was just a simpleton small room, vastly overpriced for sure, which to top it all off, had no WiFi connection, no air conditioning and the couple of windows in it were blocked with a fence from the outside. It seemed more like a jail than an apartment, so to speak!. Even more, I found 3 pairs of sandals on the floor close to the bathroom of that miserable room. Only God knows to whom those sandals belonged! :-)

Calling me a "rapist", given the fact that the only physical contact between you and me was the "kiss on the cheek" I gave you when we met for the first time at the airport ??? After that, there was no other physical contact between you and me whatsoever: no hugs, no holding hands, not even walking in close proximity to each other, nothing, zilch, nada... and do you have the "nerve" to claim that I tried to get you by force or rape you? Look little brat, this is just a desperate move of yours to try to clean your deteriorated reputation at this point, and nothing more than that. You are a joke!

 Quote: "and you used photoshop on your photos so much that I didn't even recognize you in the airport"

My response: Just a lame attempt to deflect the attention from the original argument, which is recognizing the fact that you are a proven scammer. Besides that, I've never utilized photoshop in any of my photos, and I don't need to. Perhaps is you who utilizes it to look prettier? I don't know... then, just for the record, I have an email from you in which you clearly tell me the following: "Hey, I like the way you look and the way you talk", and all this based on the fact that there were a couple of Skype video calls between us, prior to that email of yours! :-)

Being this the case, I have to say that you are a hypocritical person, or a contradictory one at the very least. Finally, summarizing this point, if you think that utilizing shaming language against my looks or physical appearance is going to cause dent in me, you are flat wrong little brat! :-) I know who I am and no amount of childish comments are going to change that. I'm sorry but that's the true :-)

 Quote: "You are a real monster in reality and no woman would ever want anything with you, of course if you do not take her by force"

My response: Again, more of the same. Lame attempts to try to better your messed up reputation. Besides that, I have to say that you are a compulsive liar and a delusional person. And of course, you have been playing the "victim card" from the get go. That doesn't speak well about you, don't you think? There's no need for further explanation about this point from my part.

 Quote: "But you have a mental disease still writing me sick letters some examples I will attach here".

 30 июля, 17:57

"Тайное мировое правительство, иллюминаты и сионисты охотятся за моими личными данными. Я ухожу в подполье."

 July 30, 17:57

"The Secret World Government, the Illuminati and the Zionists are after my personal data. I'm going into hiding."

My response: That russian text displayed lines above, was written by you, not by me. I just simply translated your nonsensical text into English. That's all. Then, the sick letter is coming from you, not from me :-) But I think it's worth mentioning that, you wrote that text on July 21st, prior to any comment made on this website. What a coincidence, don't you think?

 Quote: "Hello little w****:

Lines above, there's an interesting quote of yours, but I think you are delusional; the only ones looking for you is the FBI, even though there's an additional organization that looking for you too: The NSA (which stands for National Surveillance Agency)

I'm watching you little Kattie (AKA little w****). I've realized about your scam record quite recently, and you are "a pearl among the rocks" (sarcastically speaking) :-)

Well, that's all for now, but there's more coming, little b**** :-)"

My response: I'm just trolling you, little brat. I told you many times that there's no FBI involved in this. But I think it's worth mentioning, that my trolling is based on your delusional premise (written in russian lines above), stated in the previous quote. That's it.

 Quote: "I hope you realized that you are a f***** up person, to say the least. You don't deserve anything good from anybody."

My response: Well, I consider that my statement is pretty much self-explanatory, to say the least. You clearly don't deserve anything good from anybody, because all this time you have been playing with the expectations and dreams of many men who had you in high regard, before knowing your true intentions. It's fair to say that you were neither serious nor sincere with all these men, including me. Personally, you showed me your "true colors" since the beginning of our real interaction, little Kattie, and for your disgrace, I was able to spot them from the get go and leave you after that first and only day of meeting between us. That's all I have to say.

Good bye little brat!

Hello Guys!

Big Hello to J. and N., will use capirtal letters of your names not toopen your names forthe public. And big special hello to Mr. Canada! I stopped writing you 5 months ago so it had sense but your blind love really amazed me. Thanks for it but I am not the one who can respiond you same way.

But you are not right. I am not going name you gossipers or use some dirty names. As I really have warmth in my heart for you. These three people. Not others for sure.

Well to begin with J. We could be married already but some intuition told me I should not hurry and now I see the proof of all this. You are a good guy but something like this would happen between us if we are together in future. Your report I mean. I have many nice memories about you and in fact I was cghoosing between you and N.You know when I registered on that site many very many men started writing me, and proposed to meet. And I decided give chance to most of them, who were polite and nice in their letters, and looked good, so that every of them was a potential husband for me. But I stopped my choice on you J. and after I met N. In fact I didn't think he was that serious and till last moment I didn't believe he would propose as you are completely different guys. But he did and I was actually going to choose between you two. Sorry for breaking your hearts but I do not know what you do in your countres and what women you met, where you go and what you do. You can tell for sure you are fathful to me but I also told I met only one as it is in the people's nature and even on the site they say meet as many as you can to make right decision.Well but it has no sense now. You have completely different qualities and I was attracted to both of you and my mind was in mess so In  could not make final decision. Anyway I was ready to make final decision and one of you would be my man forever but all of you showed your real men's qualities. Sorry but real man would not care... as I am for only one and he would not listen to all this and will try build our future no matter whom I met before wedding.

But going back to real men! Mr Dave smth SHUT UP! You are a (((REDACTED))) who tried get me by force in the corridor of the apartment and you used photoshop on your photos so much that I didn't even recognize you in the airport. You are a real monster in reality and no woman would ever want anything with you, of course if you do not take her by force.But you have a mental disease still writing me sick letters some examples I will attach here.

 30 июля, 17:57

"Тайное мировое правительство, иллюминаты и сионисты охотятся за моими личными данными. Я ухожу в подполье."

 July 30, 17:57

"The Secret World Government, the Illuminati and the Zionists are after my personal data. I'm going into hiding."

Hello little w****:

Lines above, there's an interesting quote of yours, but I think you are delusional; the only ones looking for you is the FBI, even though there's an additional organization that looking for you too: The NSA (which stands for National Surveillance Agency)

 I'm watching you little Kattie (AKA little w****). I've realized about your scam record quite recently, and you are "a pearl among the rocks" (sarcastically speaking) :-)

 Well, that's all for now, but there's more coming, little b**** :-)

 I hope you realized that you are a f***** up person, to say the least. You don't deserve anything good from anybody.

 Bye for now.

 About another guy really have nothing to say Mr. Spain. I do not need greedy man beside me, if you are going to live by money of a woman that is not here. Thanks for nice time.

 Again thank you J. and N. that you were in my life. I am a victim in this as I made decision but lost both. Not possible sit on two chairs but anyway that is in teh past now. I wish you only the best. I ask God to forgive me that I broke your hearts and I ask Him give you twice more than I took from you. 

To the Author - yes I know your name, but I was going to PM you through another post you have made elsewhere, but it seems to have gone now. If you are still registered on that site I will try and make contact. I have just booked a flight to Japan in December (rather than go back to Zaporozhye and meet Miss Bondar). Co-incidently the flights are return Business Class flying QANTAS to Tokyo all done on points accrued visiting the Bondar woman. Thanks Kattie! My point being I might swing by the Land of the Free and the Home of the Brave on the way back to Oz to pay you a visit, oh fellow ex-Fiance! Maybe we can have a beer and a laugh at the ignominy of this whole situation. By the way, a woman married to two men is called a Polyandrist. Word of the Day, methinks.

To the Canadian still talking with Miss Bondar. Well, my friend, I guess you have 3 choices:

• Don't go. Your losses are stopped at $3,000. But you've built up all the expectation and anticipation of a holiday! What a downer, huh?
• Go and meet Katya. Your losses will baloon to $10,000 (or worse). And you'll have fun for the first half-day, then you'll feel like a walking cash machine thereafter. The best part of your holiday will be over very quickly.
• Or go to Ukraine, and don't meet Katya. If your flying into Dnepropetrovsk, stay there. Have a look around. The weather is great there now. Go to some bars or clubs and meet some people. I have found the people of Ukraine to be very warm and accomodating. Don't let mendicants like Bondar taint your view of a nation. Ukraine is a beautiful country full of wonderful people. In fact my last night in Kiev I did just that (this was in January). I went to a nice looking bar near my Hotel, walked in and saw a group of people that looked friendly. I walked up to them and asked if they spoke English. Luckily they did. I asked if I could buy them and drink and if they would let me join their conversation, as it was my last night in Ukraine. Well I got home at 7 am after one of the best nights in my life! I love Ukraine. Once you are free of the clutches of Katya, the world is yours! And Ukraine is relatively cheap, even Kiev. It's Katya that makes it expensive.

It's your money, your holiday. Take yourself out of your comfort zone and make it a holiday to remember. Don't make it about her. It's all about you. Remember - she's an Internet dating scammer!

And I couldn't care less if Katya reads these posts. She is entitled to. God bless free speech, eh?

On that note, I'm surprised at how quickly I am recovering from the sadness and disappointment of being scammed. I'm developing a real joie de vivre that has been lacking since I met Katya. I was always full of angst, always full of doubt and never knew what was really going on. Something always gnawed at me. I never felt settled. Now, I know she's gone and the future financial burden that would be life with her is no more. I can do what I want and I'm free - finally - to meet someone genuine; someone who wants to love me and be loved by me. I never felt any love or real affection towards Katya. Yes, she's a fun girl and boy did we laugh sometimes, but deep down, something was always lacking. I think her life must be deeply unfulfilling. I mean, think about it from her point of view. You meet a nice guy and spend every day with him, doing fun things and having a good time. But you know you can't fall in love with him, because you're scamming him! You know one day it will be over, he will realise he's been scammed (eventually), you will hurt him deeply and then he will move on and you'll never see him again - and he will absolutely detest you. What a miserable existence....

Maybe she couldn't care less. Who knows. She's not my problem now anyway!

Finally - to the Canadian (again). If you want to make contact, I don't think this site will allow personal emails. Maybe Google the Bondar woman's name and you'll see posts on other websites. Perhaps register and post something yourself and then we can PM each other. Other than that I'm not sure of options. I was planning a hunting trip to New Zealand in March of next year, but maybe you can show me around your part of Canada instead? I'm always up for meeting new people and doing new things. At least it's one place where the Aussie Dollar is still worth something!

Hello:

This is my third installment about the chapters of "Katya Bondar" soap opera. Here it goes: Prior to travelling to Zaporozhye on November 2014, I told her in one of my emails that I was going to travel to Kiev first, and then I was going to catch a flight to Zaporizhia the next day to meet her in person, to what she replied with a bogus story about the Zaporizhia airport being an unsafe one, and that airplanes often crashed in that airport. Complete baloney and nonsensical stuff!. But my fault was, that at that moment I believed her. And as she suggested me, I finally changed my flight to the Dnipropetrovsk airport. She was going to meet me there according to her response. 1ST WARNING SIGN OR RED FLAG

In another email that I sent her prior to my trip, I told her that I was going to rent a car (paying via online) to get around the city of Zaporizhye and take her wherever we wanted to go during my stay, to what she told me if I was "serious" for doing and/or suggesting that. Then she justified that telling me that her city was unsafe for a foreign man like me, and that she wanted to take care of me during my stay. That's why she told me to better leave that matter in her hands, to what I agreed. Again, it was my fault for not following my "gut feeling" at that moment. 2ND WARNING SIGN OR RED FLAG

To sum it all up, she told me all this nonsensical stuff just with the aim of perpetrating her scam in advance. 

All of this could have been avoided if I had been smarter at that moment. These "warning signs" were there, since the beginning, but I "turned a blind eye", so to speak, perhaps because I was thinking with my balls, instead of thinking with my head.

All in all, I learned my lesson...

Regards!

hey i wrote a comment a couple days ago and wanted to follow up with another...

how ow do we PM each other? I'd like to talk to the 2 fiance's (lol)...

yes we all agree she is a lovely person that we all really enjoyed spending time with but her moral compass is seriously misguided and she makes excuses, denial, and blames others for her poor decisions...

After finding all of this out I am still talking to her and she is still telling me to come visit her In 1 week like I had planned... Sadly I have wasted 3000$ on plane tickets now but I feel like she could care less about this! as she does not consider other people's feeling or really care for them. She may not even realize this herself and remains under her own delusion of what "love" "care" and "friendship" means.

oh be sure she is following these posts as well and will be quick to blame us the victims for gossiping, meanwhile she fleeces all of us for gifts, money, but most of all our hearts, sincerity, and time without regard for the damage left in her wake.

I find it particularly sickening how she shuffles us in and out like cattle, making us all feel like part of the family while they all partake in the game. There is nothing special about this... Meanwhile I have devoted the sincerity of all thoughts, love and energy to her s no her alone, under the impression that I was also held in high regard.

I cannot express how sad and disappointing this is because really I believe we all truly care for her and saw how easy it is to fall for her as she represents much of what we look for...unfortuantely there is a dark underbelly that exists that I hope she can confront and learn and become a better person...

I am curious now to see how many other men will come forward and expose her nasty deeds Now as already all of us in only 1 week.

Again, let's PM each other (tell me how) so we can get all questions answered so we can move on with our lives and hopefully these posts will prevent any more individuals from being taken advantage of and hearts broken. 

Keep posting, good information here.  To the man that just got engaged while we were engaged, I'm sorry for you.  If you know my name then contact me and I'd be happy to discuss things with you.  I'm pretty easy to find.

To everyone else I welcome your experiences.

Hello:

Regarding this "lady" called Katya Bondar, one thing I noticed about her, which is worth mentioning here, is that she is a "control freak" type of person. I remember when I travelled to her hometown (Zaporizhye) on November 2014, I stayed in an overpriced apartment that she rented for me; but the peculiar thing about it was, that she was the one who wanted to keep the keys of the apartment with herself; she didn't give me the keys of that apartment from the very first moment. I noticed that right out of the gate, but she told me that it was going to be better for me in that way (keeping the keys of the apartment with herself, instead of giving them to me).

That was really weird, to say the least. That incident happened since the very first day I stayed in that apartment. The next morning, when she came back to the apartment to see me again, we had a heated discussion about that matter. I told her that that was absurd. I had the right to have the keys of the apartment to manage myself as I see fit. 

It gave me the impression that she thought she was dealing with a child, who needed to be kept locked inside an apartment, in order to be taken care of. That definitely was a childish attitude of hers. We had a very heated discussion because of this, and it definitely was the "spark" that made me abandon her that very same day. That was the last day I saw her.

Although I was going to be stay there with her for 7 seven days, I ended up staying there only for 2 days, because of this "bizarre" incident. 

Just for the record, what I paid for that apartment, was at least double the amount I should have paid for it.

Regards.

I visited Katya 3 times in the last 12 months, culminating in a marriage proposal on the 20th of July 2015 (yes, 2 weeks ago) to which she gleefully accepted (along with the beautiful engagement ring I provided). To the Author - I had absolutely no idea she had been and/or was engaged to you when I proposed. She failed to mention that small detail to me at the time. Must have slipped her mind....

I did see the Author's first post while I was in Zaporozhye (only after I had proposed and given her the ring, d**n it!) and confronted the Bondar woman. She stated categorically that she was not engaged with the Author at the time. She had been, but was not when I proposed. Like others have stated, she professed her unwavering love for me and her want to be married and come to my country as soon as possible. But she wanted a trip somewhere overseas first, because she had been told by a travel agent or somesuch in Ukraine she needed such an overseas trip for her Visa application to my country. This is complete bollocks (I employed the services of the best Immigration Lawyer I could find so know exactly what was required for Visas to my country), but I think some poor soul did pay for her and her Sister to go to Prague (the Author, perhaps)? I know your name, but I won't say it here. I hope you didn't end up paying for that trip to Spain as well!

Her MO was the same as those outlined in previous posts - overpriced apartment (more than the equivalent stay at the Four Points Sheraton in Zaporozhye), paid seemingly inflated prices for everything, plus gifts for the family and lavish presents for Katya. She was certainly not shy in asking for luxury items, no matter the price. While there she tried to hit me up for some expensive diamond earrings - to go with her engagement ring! I graciously declined her request.

I also visited the Grandparents (3 times) - whom I really liked - and went to Kirillovka (the Sea of Azov) with the family and driver from the 22nd to the 25th of July 2015. To the Author (again); by the looks of things, this was only a couple of weeks after you were there with said family and Miss Bondar. With regard to the Grandparents - I found them extremely generous even though they did not have much money. To me that was very humbling and I hold them in the highest esteem.

Like others I was sucked in by Katya's vivacious and charming ways and to be honest, I really did enjoy her company, but it is clear to me she has no intention of marrying anyone and is simply using men looking for love as a means of funding her lifestyle and probably supporting her family (or at the very least all of them having a good time at our expense). She is masterful at justifying her actions as well and has an excuse for everything. Make no mistake she is a smart, cunning individual. It is a pity because she really has some wonderful qualities and I'm sure she makes an outstanding friend. Just an abhorrent marriage prospect.

My advice to anyone considering visiting Katya - Caveat Emptor. She has no interest in you - just your money and what she can buy with it. For those of us already fleeced by this Bondar woman - let's move on with our lives. Being married to a person with such a mis-aligned moral compass would be pure misery. Our lives are richer - literally - without her.

Notwithstanding that fact, something should be done to ensure she does not ruin the lives of other innocent people. I have spent a considerable sum of money on someone who, I thought, loved me and wanted to start a family with me. But the money is not the real issue (for me anyway); it is the complete disregard for the impact her behaviour has on the life of another person that is of concern to me. She also kept accusing me of having other women back in my home country. For the record - I am Catholic and have never cheated and will never cheat on anyone. Perhaps such thinking helped her justify her actions.

Please feel free to PM me if you want to. Comparing stories might be a worthwhile thing to do.

 hi guys, I am glad that these reports are filed as I have planned to visit her for the second time in only one week from now! I first visited her in August of 2014. I can share many of the same stories as the ones listed here... Met sister and mom, paid for everything all the time... This is very sad to learn that she is in fact a scammer as she appears such a lovable and kind person... I have many emails of similar nature. Glad to finally know the truth and can move on with my life... Anyone else who wants to contact me and compare notes, please feel free to do so. I am especially interested in speaking to the man she was engaged to... This is a sad day to learn this but I am thankful.

I've been following this case, since its inception, and I've realized about your contradiction. Up until July 26th, you labeled this woman as a scammer, and then on July 28th, you said that everything was a mistake, because of your anger towards that woman, and that you now want her to forgive you. Please don't get me wrong, this woman is a scammer, that's for sure. I'm just pointing out the change in your narrative, which is nonsensical. And why do I say this woman is a scammer? Because I also was a victim of her. It was on November 2014, when I travelled to her hometown (Zaporizhia) to meet her in person, but right out of the gate, she let me know that I couldn't pay for anything using credit cards, and that I had to pay everything with cash. Just for you to know, everything that she made me pay was vastly overpriced: The private transportation, the rent, the food, and everything in between. Just to give you an idea, for everything I am mentioning, I ended up paying 3-4 times more than what I should have paid. But the thing is, I realized very quickly about her true intentions towards me. It just took me a couple of hours on that first day of meeting to realize about what was going on. What I did from that point onwards, was dumping her at the flip of a coin, because a misleading person like her, didn't deserve my attention, nor my time, nor my money. In summary, I travelled to Zaporizhia on November 2014, with the intention of meeting a beautiful and worthwhile woman, but at the end of the day, I ended up meeting a poor scammer. who was a complete waste of time in my opinion. In conclusion, my stay with her in her hometown was going to last 1 week, but it ended up lasting only 1 day, due to everything I explained to you lines above. PS: You are flat out wrong about your last rebuttal, I certainly don't know your motives for changing your mind about that "lady", but you are definitely in the wrong, my friend. She is a scammer, not a trustworthy person.

Regards!

Quite right that she's a pro-dater.  I changed my tune as I thought there was a chance I was wrong.  But now that other people have been writing verifying my original story I see that she is not an honest person.  I look forward to more updates.

Please post what she's written, especially about the part offering to visit you and any pictures of you and her/the family. Need to get this all cleared up.

I also met Katya and her family personally last summer in her city and I've been messaging her until a few weeks ago.

I don't want to imagine how many guys have visited her so far and are still writing to her... what is really painful because apparently she has been telling all of us that she loves us and wanted to be with us Forever.

I just hope her business is over after  this report and anyone who is contacting her is aware of the kind of person she is.

You should not regret anything you wrote and you should not ask for her forgiveness because in any case she should ask us to forgive her.

it is true that she is lovely, gentle, kind.... but only as far as you pay for everything she asks for.

Poor the man who will eventually be with her, he will be anything but lucky considering how easy is to lie for her and to say everyone "I love you". She doesn't deserve anyone of us no matter how beautiful she is.

I visited her only once and like in your case she charged extra for everything, I see she uses always the same excuses and strategies to get her goals. Since my first visit I suspected that she was just a pro dater and a scammer. However, my time with her was very nice and that was the reason why I gave her a chance to demonstrate the contrary and the reason why I didn't stop writing her until now.

I decided that I only would meet her in my country since she offered me to come to visit me in my city. Then she asked me for money to finance her international passport and afterwards she was just making excuses (like in your case)  not to come yet arguing that she could not leave as long as her brother and father are fighting in the Donbas area.

it is funny to see in the mails you attached that she says you could not visit her on the second half of July because she had a seminar since she was proposing me to go to visit her in zaporozhye on the 28th of july, luckily I rejected that and now all the truth came out, what is really a relief for me.

Even more funny is to see that she asks you to finance her an English course when her sister speaks English perfectly and could teach her easily.

by the way, I totally agree that her family is part of the scam, specially her sister.

Anyway, I hope this helps anyone who is still in contact with her to see the type of woman she is.

I don't know you and maybe it is not my business but I know Katya and her family and my advice in case you are still writing to her is that she does not deserve you nor any of us. She and her family are untrustworthy people and trust and honesty are basic in any relationship, specially in something as serious as marriage.

I could attach some of her mails and photos if necessary.

I am the author of this original report and I wanted to say that I wrongly posted this in a moment Anger.  If there is anyway I could undo this report or delete it, I would do so unconditionally.  As the site will not allow me to do that I wanted to write this post for anyone reading it.  

I know Katya and her family personally.  I love her Mother, sister, grandparents and nephew and they really have been nothing but kind and welcoming to me.

IF YOU'RE READING THIS KNOW THAT KATYA BONDAR IS A KIND, GENTLE AND LOVING PERSON.  She's worthy of everyone's respect.  She's a wonderful teacher and will be a fantastic mother one day.  She goes out of her way to make the people around feel loved in return.  She will make a wonderful wife and I really want nothing but the very best happiness for her.

I do not normally do stupid things like this and it is a moment I will regret for a long time.  I have never been in love or been as vulnerable with anyone as much as I have been with Katya. I hope she has a very happy and wonderful life whether it is with me (if I am lucky enough to have her forgive me) or with another man who is worthy of her. 

Just wanted to add her name in Russian, it's ÐšÐ°Ñ‚я Бондар

She has used her father as an excuse to continually postpone the wedding date.  She says he's military and stationed in Donetsk.  But I conducted a Background check and discovered he is no longer around.  The rest of her family is part of the scam.

Here is a letter she sent me in May 2015:

Summer Trips
Катя Кати <katenok_kattie> Sun, May 24, 2015 at 1:43 PM
Reply­To: Катя Кати <katenok_kattie3>
To:

Pressed button by mistake and sent not full letter...

I really miss you baby. After you left me all my thoughts are about you. Sorry I didn't write you earlier but that is
because I was busy with work and I had to work even yesterday. That is my life here after you left me((
I am thinking of you all the tiem and how nice that would be for us live together.

I want this miracle come true,
just need my father be with us and after our dream will not be only a dream, it will turn to reality.

baby that is nice you will come in July but really it can not be on the dates you are speaking about. We have two
week seminar in the end of July like from 18th of July to 31. Can you come before? That will be really nice if you
can do that. Please can you check the dates before July 18th? I want see you so much and I will be extremely
happy if you can come to me as soon as it is possible. First I read June instead of July and even said to sister
you will come in June, but now I see that was my fault.

Oh baby I r eally want be your wife. I am happy that you understand what a person I am and that you are patient
and can wait. I really appreciate this and just imagine how nice all will be when we are married))

I am so happy I met you and I wish we were always together my love. I will try write you more often and I hope
now we won't have misunderstanding. We will try go to agency tomorrow and get to know everything about trips.

I love you!
Your Kattie

And here is correspondence she was sending another man (Photos attached.)

Re: Katya <katenok_kattie3> Reply #5 - 09. Jun 2015 at 13:13

Hello xxx! How are you? That is very nice to have the letter from youa nd I am sorry that I did not write you on weekends but that is because internet connection where I am was bad and we needed to wait for people to fix it. Now all is good so we can continue our correspondence. You know yesterday I had a very busy day at work and in fact that was the last day like this till September. I like my work at aschool but sometimes it is rather depressive as you need to do very big work in a very short term and you were not informed before you need do that(( That was like that yesterday. I came home late and fell asleep almost at once. But my weekends were very nice. I spent them beside the pool in the entertainment centre in my city trying to get some tan. Still my skin is light and shoulders hurt little bit)) Can you tan easily or it takes you long time? I would like to talk in skype with you one day but still writing emails is romantic to my mind and if all works for us we can save them as memory and will read in like ten years remembering how all started. I am like one month on this site but I was very busy to have correspondence with someone. I was born on the 16th of April. Do not forget this date)) Later today i have to go to work for some hours so I will get ready right now. I wish you a nice day and I hope to hear from you soon. Katya PS: here is my skype kattyakat1604 but I can not be there very often so we need find the day and organize our talk.

Another one Where she says she's not engaged:

And a letter where she is asking for money:

Катя Кати <katenok_kattie3>
Wed, Jun 10, 2015 at 5:05 PM
Reply­To: Катя Кати <katenok_kattie3>
To:

Hello my love!

I am so glad to hear from you. Little bit upset that mom can not come this tieme but hopefully she would come soon and we would finally be on big family.

What about Tyler is he coming? Well that will be nice if you can cme on the 4th of July. Can you my love? Mom will have vacation and we can go to the seaside together again. I really miss you and I want meet you soon. Hopefully on the 4th))

As for the trip to Prague I can not change the dates. Also I forgot to tell you the girl in the agency booked tickets to Kiev in two ways for us already and an apartment for one night as we have to stay one night in Kiev so it will be like 500$. I need pay soon better this week as she paid her own money to do that.

I have one new attraction for you when you come. I hope we will have fun together and you will like it. What if we try find a girl for Tyler?)) Say hello to your mom and say I am sad she can not come but i hope to meet her soon.

Your girl... 

And another letter where she asks for money again:

miss my man
Катя Кати <katenok_kattie3>
Sun, Jul 19, 2015 at 3:33 PM
Reply­To: Катя Кати <katenok_kattie3>
To: 

Hello my love!

Your girl is missing you and thinking about you all the time. Really when you left my life stopped... Why I didn't write? Well that is because I came to see my grandparents right after you left and stayed there for four days. Now I am back home and write you at once.

I am glad that you came home safe. I hope you liked your staying here and Tyler also enjoyed his first time in Ukraine. Oh I forgot and in Europe.... I will try look for a girl for him. Hmm the one Sveta sent you pics he didn't like or what? That could be a good variant by the way. But just say me baby...

I got to know about the school to learn English. Well it will be 500$ for month. After these courses I will talk very very nice)) You will be really surprised. Mom says big hello to you. Today I was talking with dad by phone and he asked to tell hello to you as well.

Really I want that time we spent together to be back. Hmmm what doeees your brother thinks about me? hahaha probably he thinks I am a spoilt girl? Or he also likes me? That was fun with him and I am sorry again that I made him drunk when we went to see grandparents.

Well I stay at home, bored and sad as there is no my man beside me... How great that would be to stay with you honey. Really so so much and I would be extremely happy again like when you are together with me. I wish you good start of the week. Say hello to all your family.

I miss you baby.

Your Kattie

PS: tomorrow will go find out about the trip to Spain. ­­

Катя Кати

I forgot to mention that she lives in Zaporozhye Ukraine, was born on April 16, 1990 (is an Aires) and says she is a school teacher.  She does some part time modeling and attends clubs for pay.