carbon poker whats with all the bad beats Nationwide

whats with all the bad beats ive been playing poker for awhile now and trying to find somewhre to play since i now have 2 kids and cant go to the casino as much. ive tried carbon and im very discouraged by the results.  1st off the play is bad and when the play is so bad luck is alot more involved and thats not good for people who are not looking to get lucky and play with skill but when ur flopping the nuts and still losing setting  people up its deflating. i understand there is some luck involved but this is somewhat absurd now im more of a live player but ive got a certain way i play live and have never been apart of this many bad beats im talking real bad beats for example ive got ace 8 of spades min raise in the big blind flop the nuts k j 9 of spades all in and a call in front of me of course i call ive flop the nuts both have kj turn  a jack on the turn this type of beat rarely happens live but and ive encounterd this maybe 3 x in 14 years of playing at the casino ive encountered this type of beat numerous times on this site almost like there laughing going ha couldnt fold that 1 could you.  i feel like im a pretty solid player made money on sites such as pacific and ftp and ive also made a good sum live and did it for living for 4 1/2 years for living before i had kids and needed insurance.  but thats besides the point also ive never seen people flop quads as much as they do on this site ive seen it at least 8 times in a 2 month span which is absurd i thinik ive seen this twice in 14 years live.  also the actual type of games they have suck if you wanna play a sit n go be prepared to wait 30 45  minutes for 1 to fill up if you wanna do a large tourney they dont have any that dont have any tourney that dont have at least 1 hour of re entries and some that have up to 3 hours are you serious they should have some tourneys with no rebuys cause the play is absurd people going all in with 2 4 and winning and its like that the whole time trying to get more money out us if you dont have 3 hours to play dont bother.  i could keep going on and on but ive said enough thanks.