Michael J. Harvey and Debbie Baldwin of Tacoma Washington Shacking Up Together Tacoma Washington

I am the son of Theresa named in this report. I must say that I am a little thrown back by the fact that you can name my mother (first and last name) and the town that she lived in, even though you were wrong.

A: My mother (whom died August 21st 2002) didn't know at the time that my father was married to anyone.

B: She was happy to know that she was pregnant and was also a victim of my father's lies. I understand that you are upset Mandy by the fact that your husband would lie and cheat on you for so many years.

I ask though, why did you stay with him through all of the affairs? You knew about them. Why let yourself stay in that situation? I am nothing like my father. I am now married for 4 years and have two beautiful children and have nothing but the utmost respect for someone that can "stick it out" being put through those circumstances. My mother was left to take care of me after she found out that she was pregnant, to raise by herself with no help from my father.

I understand that you were hurt by him and have every right to be angry with him when you wrote this report. Did you have to put my mother's name and address on for everyone to see. Knowing that she had died of Cancer. Don't deny that you knew.

I can't and wont apologize for my father or mother but I will say that I am sorry that you had to go through what you did, but my mother was put through it also. I didn't have a father because he didn't feel the need to be around and by the way my mother didn't meet him online. She met him on post when he was in the military and she was also.

I would appreciate it if you had any information on my father as I would like to let him know that I have actually made something of my life and haven't gone down the road he chose to take and put other people through.

My mother was a wonderful woman when she was alive and I don't appreciate someone slandering her name, after she died and without truthful information. Again I am sorry for your part in this role that has been played.

(((Redacted)))is my email, please feel free to email me if you would like to give me some information. It would be greatly appreciated.

Thank you again,

James

Mandy from Tupper Lake

I know the person you referred to in your rebuttal. I would like more info on her is possible.

I have a question reguarding Debbie Baldwin. I would like to know if she is the same Debbie Balbwin that was born and raised in Tupper Lake, New York. If so, boy have I got a story for you.

Once again to Michael's Wife: Your husband has some serious problems. Could it be possible that he has some kind of sexual addiction? From reading your post, it seems evident to me that he has done this more than once. Are you attempting to get him to come back to you after all his cheating? I'm not trying to be mean, I'm just curious to find out. Many women, or men for that matter, who've had spouses cheat on them numerous times, have left their cheating spouses. While some, on the other hand chose to stick it out, with the stipulation that both they and their cheating spouses went to counseling to see if their marriage could be saved. Did you and your husband attempt to get counseiling the first time he cheated? I hope everything works out for you and your children. I've never faced what you're currently facing, I really can't say anything, it's just too horrific!

This comment is to Michaels Wife: I really am truly sorry for what your husband has put you through. I glad you're not blaming anyone but your husband. I'm especially sorry that he gave up on 23 years of marriage, in which the vows clearly state: TILL DEATH DO WE PART! Not divorce or adultery!

As for the woman who claims to be religious, she may be religious. But from what you say about her dealing with angels and spiritual thing, you didn't mention Jesus Christ. If she had a true relationship with Christ, she would think twice about shacking up with someone else's spouce. I'm not talking about someone who says they're a Christian, but one who's living by the Bible. Judging from her actions, she hasn't read that Book to clearly. Thou shalt not commit adultrery.
Your husband's girlfriend is a phoney balaoney!

This comment is to Michaels Wife: I really am truly sorry for what your husband has put you through. I glad you're not blaming anyone but your husband. I'm especially sorry that he gave up on 23 years of marriage, in which the vows clearly state: TILL DEATH DO WE PART! Not divorce or adultery!

As for the woman who claims to be religious, she may be religious. But from what you say about her dealing with angels and spiritual thing, you didn't mention Jesus Christ. If she had a true relationship with Christ, she would think twice about shacking up with someone else's spouce. I'm not talking about someone who says they're a Christian, but one who's living by the Bible. Judging from her actions, she hasn't read that Book to clearly. Thou shalt not commit adultrery.
Your husband's girlfriend is a phoney balaoney!