SFC Brad Lee Bonnell Deadbeat dad and I want the world to know!!!! Doesn't care about his children! Ft. Belvoir Virginia

This is his ex wife. None of this surprises me at all. He is an a*s who does not care about anything other than himself!..his family is the same way. It is the "Bonnell" name that they are concerned with...well, I really think you screwed up your families reputation now Brad. You are a coward!!!!

I am his first wife...we have a daughter (he adopted) and a son. He has a son from a previous girlfriend as well. One he lied to me about as well and said he was in the field shortly after we started dating and years later after we married I found out he was not in the field he was in the hospital having a baby with Maria. Similar lies exactly like the stories I just read from the girls who wrote...I am sorry...so sad and I am embarrassed I was ever married to him!

He has also remarried (Jennifer) and has 2 children with her as well...he told me she could not have children. She did so ladies...that is 5 total. The first child, before me Brad has never even had a relationship with! The Bonnell family has turned their backs on all of the children and no one has spoke to my children in about 12 years. No Birthday cards, Christmas cards...no presents....nothing! NO FATHER at all.

He did send letters to my children in 2004 claiming the had college money and bank accounts set up for them when the graduated from High school or were ready to enter college. We recently found out nothing had been done for them...except 5000 for college after I pushed him to do it....I dont even know if he did it. (What would that even do???) My children were relying on this for many many years only to find out nothing is there for them!  He lied to them just as he lied to everyone else...and this is his flesh and blood.

Both Brad and his family have bad mouthed me since I divorced him...they are just mad. The best thing Brad EVER had...left his a*s and chose not to be with him. I wonder why??? His father flew back here twice to try and convince me to stay with him but I wouldn't! Brad and all of them will die very lonely and with many regrets! I have two beautiful, smart, wonderful children that I have raised by my self....and I am very proud of them. One day Brad...they will come knocking on your door and want to know why. You cant avoid it then...so good luck. One is an adult now and the other is 16 and the day is coming...I'll pray for you.

I met SFC Bonnell in April of 2001 through the internet.  I was recently seperated from my husbad and began dating Brad Bonnell.  He informed me that he was a sniper instructor at a base located in Dahlonega Ga.  I was then informed that he had never been married nor had any children but wanted some as soon as he retired from Army sometime late in his 30's at retirement/service ended stage. He was one of many sons who were Army and his father was also Retired Army. 

He wanted to start a life with me, have children and wanted to know if I was willing to understand that his job required high amounts of secrecy and could I wait.

On many occasions phone calls would come in around 3-4 am were he would dress in his small running shorts that he so admired and head out on a "secret mission".   Our relationship lasted for almost a year but he informed me that he was being sent to Ontario for jump instructing and he would be there for a year.

Many women may remember the special spot in Dahlonega Ga right off base with a blanket, river and wines with strawberries.

As of a year ago he once again contacted me via email and stated how special I was and wished that things were different.  He would soon be back in GA for a special class at Benning. 

Tonight in a search on Facebook I came to realize the Pathological Liar he really is and he has jet another wife named Jennifer who is proud of him.  Jennifer your husband still wants to sweat with me beside the river.

The list of army email adress or rather long and does Hoffman ring a bell?

I dont know why Im writing this now, but I believe Brad is a sociopath who probably needs some much needed therapy. I knew him from 2002-2004 and contact him as late as 2006, basically all he wanted was pictures of me. I met Brad on the internet in late 2002. We met, hit it off, and became friends. We deployed together as well. He was serving with the 101st at the time. I knew he was married...but so was I.

I knew nothing of him having children. He did say he was married once before, but only after I saw mail from a Becky Bonnell sitting on his desk and heard a phone coversation of his prior to our deployment. He claimed he was currently in a bad relationship and would likely end it upon our return home. I had the same agenda, so it didnt really bother me much.

For over a year and a half, we were together (while married). He lived with me briefly after coming home from Iraq, but then I caught on to the fact that he was much more concerned with himself than anything and then I found out he had kids. I never figured out how many he had, in fact, if memory serves he said he had 2 sons with Rebecca and she had a daughter from a previous relationship and that was where all his money went. I was a bit beside myself, how could someone carry on a secret so long without telling the person he was with over the past year? I still have no idea how many kids this guy has.

In the end, I left. He said he was going to have to stay with his wife while she had cancer. He moved her up to Ft. Campbell without telling me, then dropped that little gem on me. He couldn't leave her because she had cancer. Came to find out, it wasnt cancer, he - I think - knocked her up while basically staying with me. SO, yeah...not sure how many kids he's got. Im sure there's a lot I dont know and never will. He also claimed he was being court martialed due to me calling his supervisors and reporting his behavior. Im sure that was all false as well. Dont really care, but in the end this guy was luring women off the internet, lying about himself, and really messed me up as I was having a relationship with a total stranger. I hope he's got some things sorted out, but something tells me he hasnt. Good luck getting whatever it is you want from him, but most likely he'll have a reason where you wont.

All I know is he really didnt want anyone finding out about the me and him thing. His current wife did know, but the ex didnt since we live close to one another and our falling out came about around the time her case did. Its sad to know he ditched someone he supposedly cared for under false pretenses, but then, nothing surprised me after finding out this guy really had some serious issues and is most likely a sociopath.

It is sad that this website is not being used for it's orginal intent - to protect consumers.  The only reason I am filing this rebuttal is to defend SFC B. Bonnell's honor - for he is an upstanding member of our nation's military who has served multiple times in both the Gulf War and Operation Enduring Freedom.  I have known him for over a decade and can vouch for his character - and his family's character.  His father and his brothers at one time have all served our country, and none of them deserve this form of faceless and cowardly harassment.

The Facts:

1. SFC B. Bonnell and family have always paid child support payments as ordered by our nation's court system.  They pay the MAXIMUM percentage allowed to Rebecca Bonnell (the woman who filed this false complaint). SFC Bonnell has his own family to support, and must retain SOME of his paycheck for that purpose.  Again, the courts have set a fair amount, and per public record, he has always paid in full and on time.

2. Rebecca Bonnell has used child support money meant for her children on cosmetic surgery (breast implants, etc).  Throughout the 10 years since their divorce, Rebecca Bonnell has either been unable to maintain a job, or has simply been unemployed and lived with her biological mother.  After her mother passed away, she received a sizeable inheritance, all of which 2 years later - none is left.  

3. Per eyewitness accounts - she throws away all mailed communication from SFC B. Bonnell and family before the children are aware of it.  She does not give the children phone messages.  SFC B. Bonnell and his parents have offered multiple times to purchase plane fare for the children to come visit, but they have not been allowed to take advantage of that opportunity.  

4. SFC B. Bonnell's supervisors do not pay attention to Rebecca Bonnell's phone calls, because it has been deemed both untrue and malicious harassment.

Our nation's heroes should be able to focus their time and energy on their jobs, their responsibilities, and their families - all of which SFC B. Bonnell has always done in the 10 years that I've known him.