Sonya Green - Sonya Woods - Sonya Mitchell Ripoff Fraudulent Parent Alienator Mentally Physically Abusive Brainwashed Children Child Kidnapper Attempted Kidnapper Stole Money From Elderly Father Huntington Beach California

Sonya and I were divorced on September 12, 1995. Custody of the children was as follows: Joint Legal and the Respondent(Sonya) had Primary Physical custody. Visitation was the set per the guidelines.

Initially, visitation with my two children was every other weekend and mutually agreed upon Holidays. Visitation became an issue once I started dating. Sonya immediately made our children unavailable on my scheduled visitation. My telephone calls were ignored and Sonya would plan events that would prevent me from seeing our children. In 1994, Sonya refused to allow me any contact(telephone or in person) for a period of six months, because I would not allow her to meet the woman I was dating.

After Sonya dividual remarried in 1997, my visitation with my children was limited. My phone calls were not accepted. I left numerous messages for my children to call me and my calls would not be returned. After several weeks, months of this, I contacted Sonya at her place of employment and asked why my phone calls are not being returned and was told she never received my messages.

When I would speak to the children they told me that their mother told them not to call me because she was too busy with her business for them to call me. From January to October of 1998, telephone contact with my children was rare. The voice mail on continuously. When I was able to make contact with her regarding my scheduled visitation, I was constantly denied visits. She would plan events with the children during my scheduled visitation.

In October 1998, I relocated to Texas due to employment. In January of 1999, I contacted her to discuss visitation for the upcoming summer. She stated that she would not allow my children to visit me in Texas and when I asked her why she said she didn't know. In February of that same year, I received correspondence from her attorney, declining my request for visitation due to my son's asthma condition. She further stated that if I tried to pursue visitation that she would take me to court.

On March 17, 1999, I submitted an Order To Show Cause Motion for visitation. We had a court appearance on May 26, 1999. (Order attached) The court ordered that the existing Custody/Visitation would remain in full force, with the exception that I would be allowed two weeks of visitation for the Summer of 1999. Because my son's asthma was very severe at that time, I spoke to her on June 26, 1999, and told her I decided to postpone visitation until the Summer of 2000.

In May, 2000 I contacted her, and informed her that I would like to have my visitation with the children in June, 2000. I informed her that I had a Asthma Specialist that would be able to look after Dominique while he was here. The Respondent said that she would not allow the visit to Texas.

She filed an OSC on May 30, 2000 requesting that my visitation with the children be denied because she felt that the children's safety would be at risk. She requested, at that time, that the court order a parenting plan for myself. The request was denied pending another hearing date. The hearing date was scheduled for June 16, 2000(attached).

Prior to the June 16, 2000 court date, I had several conversations with the children about coming to visit. They informed me that they did not want to come because they feared for their safety. My daughter, told me that she had never come to visit me even when we lived in California. I reminded her that she would come and spend the weekend with me at my apartment in California and she told me that she didn't. She said that her mother would ask me to come pick them up for visits but that actual visits never occurred. I could tell that the children were upset and I did not want to force the issue. It became clear to me that their mother was being dishonest with the things she was saying to the children. I chose not to force them to come visit out of fear that she would retaliate against them. I did not attend the hearing and her request was granted.

On September 16, 2000, I had to take an unplanned trip to California due to a death in the family. I contacted her and asked if I could see my children. She indicated that per the current court order, I had to give her a 30 day notice if I wanted to see the children. I explained to her that my uncle had died unexpectedly and I was unable to give her such a notice. She indicated that my uncle's death was a personal problem' and not her problem. She told me that per the court order, I have to give her 30 day written notice if I wanted to see my children. She then asked me what time would I like to see the children and I told her I would call her back once I was able to obtain transportation to come visit since I was only there for a few days. When I called back to let her know the time I would be able to come visit, she did not answer the phone and I was unable to see my children.

I have never been able to convince my children to come visit me in Texas. From 1998 to the present, the response I have received is the same. I was told by the children that they did not want to visit, they had plans,they would be visiting a family friend, or that they would have to ask their mother. I should not have had to go through this to see my children. This has been the pattern since our separation/divorce. I have been completely alienated from my children since 1993.

I provide medical insurance for both my children and have for years. After she was married, she changed my children's name to Green her husband's last name. When I asked her to change their names on all school records as well as medical records, she said that the reason she changed their name was so they could be added to her husband's insurance. I spoke to Mr. Green and told him that I have insurance for my children and there was no need for him to carry them on his insurance. I was told by him that their names have not been changed legally and that it's not a big deal. This is clearly a violation of the divorce decree. It clearly states that Consent of both parents will be required in all issues involving the care, custody and control of the minor children. The decree further states that Neither parent in acting alone shall do any act to deprive the other parent of physical custody or visitation pursuant to the visitation rights.

In 2002, my children and I would communicate via email. This went on from about January 2002 until the Summer of 2002. The emails all of a sudden stopped and when I asked the children why they stopped sending me emails, they told me because their mother did not want them on-line sending emails.

She contacted me in 2002 asking me if I knew the steps she would need to take in order to become someone's legal guardian. She told me that our daughter, has a friend named Sebrina who lives with a adopted mother who mistreats her and lives in a hotel. I told her that she might want to think about it because I did not think it was a good idea. I am not sure how, but Sebrina now lives with them.

In June of 2005, I was contacted by a mutual friend of Sonya and myself, who lives in another state and she shared with me that her son had been living with Sonya since 2000. She told me that her son was living with Sonya so that he could attend school. She told me that Sonya had contacted her in July, 2004 very upset and told her the her son and our daughter had been involved in a inappropriate relationship that may have been sexual in nature over a period of time. She told me that in the conversation she had with Sonya, that the incidents had happened in the previous year.

She told me that Sonya told said that the one of the other children, told her about the incident and that apparently it had been going on for some time. One of the other children also told Sonya that the other children knew about it as well. She also informed me that she told Sonya, she would make arrangements to come get her son. She was told by Sonya that she would take care of the situation. She told me that Sonya told said had planned to take the children to see a psychologist. I was also told that Sonya stated our daughter was the one that initiated the inappropriate act.

I contacted Child Protective Services and requested an investigation into the allegations. I had to call 4-5 times before they would act on my request. I was told by Ms. Maritta Otten that she had talked to the Respondent and advised her what her responsibilities were as a parent. Ms. Otten also told me that she talked to the children and was told that nothing happened.

I sent Sonya a letter on April 14, 2006, letting her know the two weeks I would like to exercise my visitation this summer. She responded on the original letter that she was cool with the visit.

I called Sonya's residence on April 16, 2006 to speak to my children and the phone rolled to voicemail. I was not able to speak to them until Monday, April 17, 2006 and my son answered the phone and immediately told me he had to go and would not speak to me.

I called on Tuesday, April 18, 2006 and my daughter answered the phone and told me she couldn't talk. I asked her why they are refusing to talk to me and she said because she was busy and hung up. I contacted Sonya at her place of employment and asked her why she has turned my kids against me? She hung up in my face. A few minutes later, my daughter called me back on my cell phone and asked that I not contact them or their mother again. My daughter told me that her step dad is her father and they do not want to talk to me. My daughter told me that she would not be coming to visit me in Texas and to stay out of their lives.

This unwarranted behavior has been on going for over 10 years. Sonya has been successful at alienating me from my children completely. Sonya has also succeeded at turning my children against me. I feel the bond between my children and myself has been permanently damaged. Sonya has done everything in her power to independently and without due process of the law terminate my parental rights through corruption, coercion, alienation and brainwashing our children. Sonya has made it very clear through her words and actions that she has held a grudge and has had a personal vendetta against me. My ex-wife has successfully used our children as pawns in an effort to make me pay for leaving her. The children have been alienated from all family members including her own.


Chuckster
Oak Cliff, Texas
U.S.A.