Divorce Lawyers For Men Bighorse Law Mary Stearns I used them for my Divorce, They did more for my EX then they did for me. Tacoma Washington

I contacted Divorce Lawyers for Men to help with my Divorce. I was contacted by Mary Stearns of Bighorse Law. I told her my concerns and why I needed their services. I payed a $5,000 to Retain her as my Lawyer. I was led to believe my concerns would be easely taken care of, basically a $75,000 loan that my EX had taken out and used My home as colateral. She wasn't paying the $1,320 Monthly payment so I was forced to pay it to avoid having my house Forclosed on.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          For the first 6 months my EX had no Lawyer and this could have been taken care of easely in that time but Mary did nothing. Her Paralegal constantly ask me for Papers I had allready sent. I tried several times to contact Mary so I could talk to her about this and other issues but i eventually gave up after several weeks of being Blown off and given excuse after excuse from her Paralegal as to why she couldn't call.                                                                                                                                                       

By the time my EX got a Lawyer they had run through my Retainer and needed more. I payed another $2,000 Plus another $700 for a Mediator, In the end I was made responsible for the Loan. I had to pay another $1,461.15 after Mary filed an Attorney Lien on me.                                                                             

Calling Divorce Lawyers foe Men was a Terrible Mistake. I hope this helps Someone from making the same one. I would have been money ahead if I wouldn't have had a Lawyer at all.