q***r Country Club - Sophia Spallino Romance Scam con artist Lafayettte Louisiana

I’m writing this as a warning to anyone engaging with Sophia Spallino — especially q***r women who are lonely, vulnerable, or genuinely looking for love.

Sophia claims to be a q***r dating coach and spiritual guide, but what I experienced — and what others are now coming forward with — is far from empowering. It's manipulative, disturbing, and outright deceptive.

Here’s what you should know:

• She sends fake DMs that pretend to be personal outreach — flirty, warm, emotionally intimate messages — but they’re NOT from her. They’re outsourced, often sent by men from Africa pretending to be her. Let that sink in.

• She targets vulnerable lesbians under the guise of “coaching” and “healing” — but it’s a pipeline to extract money, devotion, or both. She weaponizes softness and queerness to reel people in.

• Behind the online love-and-light persona, Sophia is a troll, a predator, and a narcissist. When called out or questioned, she gaslights, blocks, mocks, and plays victim — while her followers are emotionally exploited.

• The brand is polished — but the behavior is dark. This is not a safe person. This is not a safe space.

If you’ve been pulled into her world, your not alone. Trust your gut. She is not what she claims to be — and the truth always cracks through the filter eventually.