Great Bay Kids Company Holly Davis, Chandra Noyes, Rebecca Becky Abbott, Wendy Monroe (Wendy Munroe) WARNING: DO NOT SEND YOUR CHILD TO THIS FACILITY! THEY CARE MORE ABOUT MONEY THAN YOUR CHILD! My special needs daughter suffered abuse and neglect at Great Bay Kids Company, workers refuse to call DCY Exeter, Newmarket, Portsmouth, Pease, New Hampshire

That was a lame rebuttal.  It wasn't even worthy of the time I spent reading it.   You no longer amuse me.  Unless you can come back with something better this will be my last posting.  You were somewhat entertaining before, but alas, that has ended.  Your "angry" posts show that you are clearly not in a better place.  (although one might say that your belief that you are "a good person" is a step in the right direction of healing your psychological issues). 

I never threatened you (although you did threaten to have your "man" assault me though), and I did not bully you.  I did make fun of you, but only because you deserved it.  GBK is a great institution.  I know hundreds of children (really, not making it up like you do) that had a wonderful experience there.  Although there was a day that a special needs child stuck her finger in her diaper and rubbed poop on another child.. that was not a wonderful experience. 

Still not sure why you insist on using "alleged" when it comes to me having children or having friends.  It makes you seem a little more "dumb".  Now granted I would propably have so many more friends if I were a famous spokesperson, living a fabulous life, but I'm quite pleased with the friends I have.  We find the same things funny (and of course we find you funny in a pathetic way).   

The event of which you spoke of on July 26th(from the Exeter PD log .. 1551 Disturbance on School St.) never resulted in an arrest.. not even a "stern talking too".  Your claims are without merit.  You most likely do not have custody of your child (which based on your anger issues is probably a good thing).  You know I kind of feel sorry for you. 

(BTW, I do this while I eat my lunch..) 

So as I state in my opening, unless you can come up with a decent response, this will be good bye.

mr reality clearly you are an internet troll if you keep coming back and posting on this site.

you clearly arre hiding behind a computer screen and the only way to feel better about your  own  shortcomings is fighting with a stranger online.

you  must not have a very interesting life if you must amuse your so called friends with internet postings instead of actual daily life.

you mock taught and name drop. you have offered no proof you are who you claim you are.

i wont reveal my name because i do not need you stalking me in real life in addition to online.

all this because you are fired up about a year and half old complaint about a daycare..

show this audience you can man up and stop posting nonsense.

and honey this site isnt for discussion of parenting skills its for complaints about companies.

so why dont you stop trolling on company time if you allegedly have a business to run.

i dont care what a perfect stranger and his alleged friends think of me... another perfect stranger.

again get your head out of your behind and back into the real world where it belongs mr internet mockery..... the only mockery you are making is one of yourself.

idiot.

Alright you silly girl..  First off I do not troll, not was I trolling, I happended to come across your complaint by accident looking for an address.  I am on the computer pretty much all day, and decided to respond to your accusation of misstreatment of your daughter because you are, well an idiot.  Anyone with even basic intelligence could see that you were lashing out and blaming whomever you could.  Maybe you ex husband was a drunk, maybe he wasn't. (remember, you are the one that had a relationship with him and an intimate one at that if you made a baby with him) We get it, you don't like him anymore.. I am guessing he doesn't like you anymore either, and probably with good reason.  *see earlier statement about you being bats*** crazy.

I will make an assuption as to why you never saw a response from anyone you accused.  It is because they are better than that.  If it were my company or employees being accused, I would not authorize a response and terminate any employee doing so.  (I am a mean boss) 

I am not hiding behind a computer screen.  I am sitting right in front of it for the world to see.  No matter how hard I try, the screen is simply not large enough to hide behind.  (yes I am mocking you)  BTW, I don't see your name here either.

Twice now you have used the term "alleged" in referencing my children.  They are mine.  I even claimed them on my taxes. (I haven't done my taxes this year which is why I used the past tense of claim) 

A person interviewed by the police does not make them guilty.  It's what they do when a complaint is filed.  If there was no arrest, then there was nothing there.  "she lied"  Gee, is that all you need to do to get one over on the Exeter Police Department?  "were you speeding".. "no" ... "okay, have a nice day"  C'mon.. do you really think that the officer would have left a child in danger?  You should give them more credit than that. (once again, is it a conspiracy or was no crime commited?.. FYI, dirty clothes, messed up hair, and a sweaty child are expected when a child is playing outside in July and no, they are not expected to bathe your child). 

You know the Police Chief personally?  You served him coffee and maybe......a donut or muffin, (yup, mocking you)  The young ladies at DD know me too, but would never claim to know me personally.   But you are correct Chief Kane is a really great guy and you should have never dragged him into this.  (especially since your "relationship" with him is over since you no longer serve him his coffee)

Your comment about "gay pornography"  What??  Why would you even go there?  That is kind of messed up that such a "well respected spokesperson with a well respected agency" would even conjure up such an image.  A nice looking steak is still just a piece of meat, and a spokesperson is just a piece of meat used to relay a message. If you still don't get it just pretend I didn't say it.  (Yes, I am mocking you again).  If you feel at anypoint that I am demeaning.. you are right.

Let's face it, we most likely do not travel in the same circles.  You are not the type of person I would want to associate with. Although, I must admit, your responses have been very entertaining.  I have shared them with my friends.  (yes I have friends, and you wouldn't like them or hang out with them either as they think you are an idiot too).  So back to your "fabulous" life as a spokesperson and you limo rides.. 

One more question..  Did you end up with primary custody of your daughter?  I haven't heard a word about you being a fabulous mother... just sayin' 

wrong mr. reality. i dont know where you came up with any conspiracy.

i came forward due to a problem with this company. which is exactly what this website is for.... to file complaints.

the police questioned holly davison regarding the neglect of my daughter and she lied to their faces.

how is that a conspiracy against me involving the police. they were on my side.

i have no issues with the police in exeter as i am not a criminal and i know the chief personally from working at a coffee shop some time ago. he was a regular customer and a very nice man.

if my complaint was false dont you think holly davison chandra noyes rebecca abbott and wendy munroe would have came on here and presented their side of the story

its been over a year and they have never written a rebuttal. my issue with them is one hundred percent true.

anyways moving on here. i have better things to do than scour the internet looking for fights.

and i am all set with impressing an internet troll.

if i could just ask. you refer to pieces of meat do you advertise gay pornography

im a well respected spokesperson and i enjoy my job with a well respected agency.

so moving on here why dont you get your head out of your behind stop posting nonsense and go take care of those two children you allegedly have.

or better yet post your legal name and correct email address.... you like to talk the talk but you cant walk the walk. 

i get that you are and internet tough guy and prefer to hide behind a computer screen.

if anyone is batshit crazy its you the internet troll with nothing better to do with you time.

not like my life or relationship are any of your business lastly i want to mention the new man in my life is not held hostage he can exit if he chooses to.

he enjoys my company and wishes to remain by my side.

anyhow i must get back to my wonderful fabulous life....yet again.

have a nice day.... thanks. dont mind if i do.

So let me get this right, not only are your husband, the teachers and adminstrators of GBK against you, but so is the Exeter Police Department? I hadn't realized that I had stumbled upon such a conspiracy.  I read your rebuttal to my rebuttal and have decided that you're really not all that together are you?  I hope you new man has an exit plan.  I am fairly sure that you were under the delusion that telling me you are some kind of a spokesperson might impress me.  Well being that I worked in the advertising industry for years, I can tell you first hand that you are just hired as meat to help them sell their product.  You don't even have to be good looking, you just have to be willing to work for what they are willing to pay.  The limo comment?? seriously?

Regardless, sorry you had such a horrible experience (real or imagined).  Hopefully you have received the help that you need. (yes, I think you are batshit crazy). 

Have a nice day.

this response is for the man calling himself mr. reality.

sir, id love to see things from your sunshine lollipop and rainbows point of view but i just cant get my head that far up my a**.

it takes are real tough guy to come out making rediculous claims about a stranger and hiding behind a computer screen. hahaha.

yes its been over a year since this report was posted. everything i wrote in it was one hundred percent true. i will not disclose how the matter was settled as its not your business.

clearly wendy munroe chandra noyes and rebecca becky abbott needed a job more than they needed to be honest. holly davis committed a federal crime of lying to police.

i wouldnt place my child in the care of liars nor should any parent.

why dont you show the world how tough you really are by posting your legal name and a correct email address for private correspondence?

you comments regarding my state of mind and your opinion of a marriage between two people you have no clue about is not the actions of a fit person or parent.

if you were my father i would beg to be placed in foster care.

fyi i have the iq of a genius and am the spokeswoman in several advertising campaigns.

no one would hire someone unfit in any manner to pitch a product or service.

and my ex husband had issues with alcohol long before i came into his life.

excuse me for giving him the benefit of the doubt. i was relief from his hard life not the cause of it.

the current man in my life knows my immense value and would slap your teeth out for making such closed minded comments about a perfect good and upright woman.

i am sorry your life doesnt provide enough stimulus and you need to sit in front of a computer screen making comments about successful strangers. how about you go take care of those two children you allegedly have instead??

anyways i am posting this from a mobile device and for some reason cannot access capitalization and punctuation but nonetheless i think my message is clear.

time for you to put those big boy panties on quit that b******* and get a d*** life.... but please not mine.

anyhow i have a fabulous life to get back to but lastly want to sincerely thank you for the laugh.

its quite cute when a perfect stranger pulls nonsense out of their rear end while hiding behind the safety and sanctuary of a computer screen.

mr reality its time for you to get your head out of your behind and back into the real world where it belongs.

see you later. my limo is waiting.

 I happened to come across your complaint and to be frank I was surprised to see a complaint against GBK.

After reading your full complaint it is obvious that you and your ex-husband (the man that you liked enough to have a child with) no longer see eye to eye.  Why in the world you would bring GBK into this is beyond stupid.  My first child went through GBK 16 years ago.  He entered 1st grade more prepared than most of his classmates and I would love to say it was because of me, but it really had more to do with the staff there.  (many of whom are still there).  The teachers there taught the children so much and were always fair to all the children there. Over the years I would see some of his teachers and they would still ask about him. I would see some of his former teachers in town and they would always ask about my son. 

Let's fast forward a few years... I was blessed with a second child.  Guess what daycare we selected?? GBK.  Still a top notch daycare.  Still teaching the kids, still caring for the kids as if they were their own.  The people you speak of in your rant are not just good people, they are great people. 

Your problem is with your ex-husband...It is as if you are reading from the book of dirty divorce tactics.  You are trying to claim that he is mistreating your daughter and that GBK is "in on it"  Seriously, do you really think that these people you accused of mistreating your child would have such a stellar record?  You ma'm are the one that has special needs.  It is apparent that you are "clueless".  Those horrible pictures that you posted are not horrible at all.  Now even if your husband is an alcoholic (which would most likely have been caused by being married to you). You offered no proof of his mistreatment or proof of mistreatment by the staff at GBK.  

Your complaint is 1 1/2 years old.  Since that time I am sure that you may have actually found out how wrong you were.  You should retract your complaint and set the record straight.  You have said things about some wonderful people that are the furthest from the truth.  I would invite any of the staff members into my home.  You on the other hand would not be welcome. 

To the original poster: you are correct in that daycare providers, like healthcare workers, have a duty to report if and when they suspect child abuse.  But you must understand that such a suspicion is generally based on the exercise of reasonable judgment, and rarely on black and white evidence.  That said, I am a father of two children that attend Great Bay Kids (GBK), one of whom was one of the very first kids at their Portsmouth location. I am 100% confident that the  teachers and staff at GBK care deeply for the childrent they supervise, and that they absolutely would report a suspected case of child abuse if the evidence clearly supported it.  In your case, it does not appear that the facts support the conclusion you came to, at least not from the perspect of GBK's staff.  Simply put, the mere fact that a child arrived unbathed, unkempt, and without certain resources on one day does not amount to child abuse!  If it did, I would be guilty of child abuse on multiple occassions, as my children often arive at GBK in that state (e.g., tangled hair, sleepy eyed, and occassionally without shoes because their father is forgetful in the morning).

I understand that you care for your child very deeply, that there are a lot of of issues between you and your ex husband, and that you felt that GBK under-reacted. But from the facts reported and my long history with GBK's center, it appears to me that the staff simply decided to exercise their judgment and give your ex husband the benefit of the doubt on the fateful day in question.  To call someone a child abuser is a very serious accusation, one that should not be made based on evidence that is at best questionable.  If anything, my opinion is that they should have called YOU before they called the state!  

In sum - I am sorry that you had a bad experience with GBK, and I wish you and your child the best.  But your reported experience is completely opposite to the experience I have had with GBK over the past 4 years and, I suspect, the experience of most of GBK's other parents as well.  

Dear Mom,

I understand your frustration. Sounds like you have had a hard time with the "Ex" and with the "System".  My children go to GBKC, too. Yes, I believe they are understaffed and could use some additional help with children of needs. BUT, I have to tell you, my kids have been a handful. GBKC has been very helpful and patient. Their hands are tied in certain situations and it is often hard to assess something when you do not see it happen. Example: my kids are bathed, teeth brushed, hair brushed, etc.,but, by the time they walk through the doors of GBKC, they are often a mess. They have the ability to destroy all my hard work in getting them ready.

Granted, your "Ex" my not be very good at morning detail....washing, dressing, etc. Many Dads aren't.  That doesn't mean he is abusive. Holly and the other teachers might have a very difficult time stating that he is abusive, as a fact, and not an assumption. To make a statement without actual proof of abuse, could open them up for a lawsuit. They would have to see your "Ex" actually abusing her.

I feel bad for you. You sound as though you have been through the ringer. I can recommend a good lawyer who deals with these types of cases, very successfully. I know this, personally. Her name is Lynn Aaby. She is in Stratham.  Another good one is Keri Marshall.

I would, also, recommend that you take a deep breath. I know you are panicked and angry, and very concerned for your child, but, as you have witnessed, the authorities and all interested parties are going to blackball you unless you are cool, calm, and collected. Sit back, quietly, and take notes, pictures, document all conversations, try to say and do as little as possible when interacting with others. Make sure that everyone, including your "Ex" views you are the more stable of the two of you. Get your lawyer to direct you. She will tell you what to say and what to do. And for heavens sake get a good female lawyer.

Another piece of advice....do not post any thing online...not here, not on facebook, etc. Your "Ex" can use these posts and your facebook rants as proof of instablity and hostility...all works in his favor.

When you deal with him, try not to, but, if you must, be the sweetest and most reasonable person alive. Do not confront him. Let the lawyer do that. A good female lawyer will understand and will be in your corner. If not, then, change lawyers. Initial consultations are usually free. Doesn't hurt to check out what's out there. Plus, whoever you consult with, he can not use as a lawyer. That is a trick a lot of saavy women use when getting a divorce...consult with all the best lawyers, leaving him a few duds.

Holly and GBKC were not the enemy. They just weren't able to do what you wanted them to do.

As you review your situation, ask yourself, what am I doing wrong and why isn't anyone listening to me?

When I ask myself these questions, I can eventually come up with the answer of why I am not being productive in my task.

Good luck.

If you want great care for your child you can either stay home with them full time or you can hire a high-priced nanny.  If you really are blessed, maybe your saintly mother will stay home and care for your children.  Your kids will be shamed, humiliated, threatened, put-down, picked-on, pushed-around, smacked, pinched, whooped, beat, or they'll be stuck in time-out in some dark closet if you put your child in center-based care.  They have cameras in the classrooms, but they're never on or they never look at the digital footage or DVD recordings.

The centers will erase the digital recordings so their is no evidence.  You won't find a daycare where the staffers truly believe in non-violent, authoritative teaching methods. The daycare centers like to hire the control-freak mean women since they know how to "keep the kids in line".  They'll say stuff like, "You gonna have a date with Mr. Whoopin' stick if you don't settle down!!!"  Then they'll show them the three rulers they've duct-taped together to make a nice whoopin' stick. They like to use the ruller that can be clipped into binders. Those are the ones that have the holes in them so they stick better and hurt more. 

The women "spank hands" alot so they can blame the redness on the kid getting their hand stepped on or they got it caught in the door of the little toy refrigerator in the play kitchen.  Daycare is awful in this day and age and in this terrible economy.  The kids are getting messed up in their minds when they're stuck in daycare all day long five days a week.  Another favorite thing for daycare workers is they have the kids fight each other.  Seriously!!! If they see a toddler hit another toddler, they'll say quietly, "Go over there and hit her back.

You go now." And they'll praise the little kid for popping the perpetrator in the head.  It's like watching fighting game cocks going at it. The workers really enjoy watching the kids "get 'em back good" out on the playground.  They fight them like chickens starting at around 22 months of age.  No wonder the kids are fighting so much in preschool and beyond!  They learned how to fight from their s0-called "teachers" in daycare!  Do yourself a favor; use birth contol and don't have any more kids.  You don't want the daycare to turn them into little mixed up thugs.

To the last person who posted: you have NO IDEA of the true severity of the situation. There WAS a set up, there IS a cover up and my child is the victim. I have been subjected to false reports and statements as well as gross exaggerations.

I am very glad your child or children were happy with the facility, however, I do not have the same view of this place based on my experience.

The persons in this report know what they did and deserved every single bit of this and any future attention on this matter.
I would not waste my time letting the public know what happened to me and my child if it were not true, why put myself in more trouble? I have a right to stand up for what I saw and experienced.

Obviously this proves that even if you tell someone whats going on, it doesn't mean they are listening. Great Bay Kids Company assisted in deliberately framing and innocent mother. That is unacceptable.

Oh, Miss, the next time you see my kid on the playground, why don't you notice how unhappy she looks.... She plays by herself and frequently has a blank expression on her face.... The other kids are running around happy, they have mothers to go home to.

Great Bay Kids Company made gross, horrific statements about me that were not true and as a result, my child has been without her mother for almost a month now.

Awfully nice opinion you have there,.... too bad it's wrong. :-)

My child has attended Great Bay for a year now and loves it! The staff is great and keeps me well informed of my childs daily activities, and any issues or concerns that may arise. I recieve my childs progress evaluations every 6 months and am very happy with my childs improvement since starting at Great Bay!

The only problem I've had with Great Bay is a few payment mistakes here and there, however they have always been fixed immediately. I was even behind at one point because of financial difficulty and they were more than willing to work with me on it!

I am very disturbed by the pictures that were posted. I am apalled that a parent would post so much information on their child on a public website. You have given perfect strangers the name and address of your daughters school, along with her teachers names. The pictures do no justice in keeping your child anonymous. I see her on the playground and in the classroom almost everytime I pick up my child, I recognize her thanks to your pictures and information. This makes me very nervous!

She looks the same way as when I pick up my child right after they play outside. It's July, it's hot, kids playing outside will get sweaty and hopefully they'll get dirty! That's what kids are supposed to do! It just shows how much fun they had out there! I do not see any rips or tears in her clothing either. You convieniently forgot to mention that the entire building is air conditioning, they are given water as soon as they get in and then sit for story time, or something quiet to do to relax and cool off. The staff only takes them outside when there is enough shade outside and they are out there for 15 - 20 minutes. If it is an extremely hot day the staff plans activities inside instead.

I'm sorry but it's very hard to believe this report. It is very back and forth and you seem to care more about how you were treated instead of your child, especially in your comment. Now you've changed your view again and it is all a set up? Really? The police and Great Bay have nothing better to do than set up an innocent mother? Sounds a little off to me.

As for me, I will continue sending my child to Great Bay. I am very impressed with all of the staff and what they have done for my child!

There's a cover up going on here.... Regardless of your ADHD son's experience, the daycare set an innocent woman up. I have the papers to prove everything I am writing here is true and I will happily post the documents once I scan them. These allegations are 100% fair and real.

Holly Davis treated me horribly and NEVER addressed my complains because I wasn't the one who gave her a check each week.
Sorry the truth hurts. This daycare hurt my child and my good name..... and the truth about them will be exposed. I know what I saw. I was there, you weren't.

I have been sending my child to Great Bay for 4 years. The staff has been nothing but helpful and wonderful with my child. He has severe A.D.H.D. and some major learning disabilities and with their help he started speaking sentences without jargon and was able to take direction with more than a single step. These are only a few examples of the help he has received.

I'm not saying I have never had an issue at the school because I have, but every time there was an issue I brought it to their attention and the problem was solve very quickly, usually within a day. I believe a lot of these allegations are unfair to the school.

It is the middle of July and it is hot. The playground has sand, and wood chips. When its hot and the children are playing in sand and wood chips they are going to sweat and the dirt is going to stick to them. Yes, they can wipe her down but nothing short of a bath is going to fix a sweaty, dirty kid. Her clothes are a little dirty, as to be expected from playing outside, but they dont look bad or ripped up. Maybe I just can't see it.

The police in Exeter are not going to leave a child in harms way. I don't believe they would leave a child in a place that is treating them the way this Ripoff Report claims. And the women that are being named in this report have always been very caring and helpful to myself and my son. In my opinion parts are being left out and we are only getting a portion of the story.