Imelda Anderson , Abs Cafe DEADBEAT MOM !!! Vancouver Washington

You know Imelda that if you allowed Henry to see his daughter, and made some kind of attempt to assist in the support of your son, clothes, some
spending money etc, I am sure that we would have a different attitude.

We are aware of the current economy and the difficulties of being self employed, since we are all self employed in our family. Times are hard,
however, no attempt, not even a winter jacket, or a pair of jeans. Now we as a family have to pay an attorney to take you to court for visitation,
this is so wrong for your daughter, she loves her Dad, and to deny her time with him is hard to understand, and it is hard on our family since we
are the ones who have taken your financial obligation, and supported your son.

I suggest that when you recieve Mr. Barbers tax return, you pay at least half of this to the court, and show some attempt and making things
right. We are sure you will benefit from this. We do reap what we sow, but not always in the same season. You need to do what is right, you will be compensated in the long run.




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You know Imelda that if you allowed Henry to see his daughter, and made some kind of attempt to assist in the support of your son, clothes, some
spending money etc, I am sure that we would have a different attitude.

We are aware of the current economy and the difficulties of being self employed, since we are all self employed in our family. Times are hard,
however, no attempt, not even a winter jacket, or a pair of jeans. Now we as a family have to pay an attorney to take you to court for visitation,
this is so wrong for your daughter, she loves her Dad, and to deny her time with him is hard to understand, and it is hard on our family since we
are the ones who have taken your financial obligation, and supported your son.

I suggest that when you recieve Mr. Barbers tax return, you pay at least half of this to the court, and show some attempt and making things
right. We are sure you will benefit from this. We do reap what we sow, but not always in the same season. You need to do what is right, you will be compensated in the long run.




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You know Imelda that if you allowed Henry to see his daughter, and made some kind of attempt to assist in the support of your son, clothes, some
spending money etc, I am sure that we would have a different attitude.

We are aware of the current economy and the difficulties of being self employed, since we are all self employed in our family. Times are hard,
however, no attempt, not even a winter jacket, or a pair of jeans. Now we as a family have to pay an attorney to take you to court for visitation,
this is so wrong for your daughter, she loves her Dad, and to deny her time with him is hard to understand, and it is hard on our family since we
are the ones who have taken your financial obligation, and supported your son.

I suggest that when you recieve Mr. Barbers tax return, you pay at least half of this to the court, and show some attempt and making things
right. We are sure you will benefit from this. We do reap what we sow, but not always in the same season. You need to do what is right, you will be compensated in the long run.




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Well now, Mr. and Mrs. Anderson have denied visitation to Mr.
Barber, and now he cannot see his daughter. The visitation
is court ordered, however this is in violation again of the
agreement regarding visitation. So now Mrs. Anderson can
be hauled into court for not only violating a court order
for child support, she will be called back to court for
violation of visitation.

Will this never end? Why does not Imelda Anderson assume
the responsibility for providing for her son, and allow her
daughter to see her dying father?

And the beat goes on. Shameful.

Still can't or wont address the facts. Period

Either you are being lied to, or you are a liar!!, You figure it out.

The facts are simple Imelda does not provide basic support for her son, Period. She continues to tell the state she is not working and has no income.
As stated before support enforcement has referred the case to the Clark County prosecutors office to file charges.

As for the children grown up to be the kids they are today, I was the father who was there for them, Im the one who was there nightly to tuck them in, while their mother was out doing her own thing, running around with her niece and her friends, I, unlike you will not put those negative things out there for our children to see, however if you have the guts to know the truth, feel free to give me a call and I will get the medical and police records together to verify the truth. And in regards to your statement as to our sons surroundings, since he moved in with me approx. 10 months ago, he has gone from a D & F student to a A & B student, amazing huh, considering what a horrible person I am.

Yes I have made many mistakes, however about 1/10th of what you say in your statements is true and the rest are out and out lies and slander. Get your head out of the sand, quit praising yourself and face the truth, Imelda is a DEAD BEAT MOTHER. Period

There is a very simple solution to your problem. Imelda needs to pay her child
support! This was the most self serving, self absorbed response I have ever
read! While you are trying to provide the children with all these wonderful
experiences, we the family are providing the basic necesities in order for
Imelda Anderson's son to grow and thrive.

So lets get something clear, Henry's child support is current, less $100.00,
Imelda Anderson has not paid a dime in ten months. The facts are that
their son has only been to their home twice in ten months, as he does
not want to go, nor is he invited.

While the Andersons are working hard, we find it amazing that they could
actually take nine days, last month, to go on a trip! That is a lot
of time away from one's failing busineses. Two locations, and you cannot
pay $412.00 a month support for your child? None of your responses
make any sense, and there is not possible way you can justify you unwillingness
to support you child.

Yes, people are working together to support each other, at least our
family is. Your judgement and proclaimations speak volumes as to your
core beliefs. Your statements are outrageous.

Sadly you just don't get it. You are both to be pitied.

Our next step is that we will put fliers on every vehicle on Sunday morning
in every parking lot of every Kingdom Hall in you area.

The facts are that Henry Barber is several thousands of dollars behind on his support (this can be verified by calling the number Henry Barber provided in his previous corespondence) from before there son moved into his dad's,and prior to him quitting his job. When Henry found out he was going to have his checks garnished for back, payment he called us. At that time I informed him that we would continue to accept those checks until which time the back support was satisfied. From that point forward we would accept his garnishments and send him one for Henry's support making it a wash, as it should be. The back support has yet to be satisfied.

As far as Imelda taking care of her son. The decision to move was his to make, It broke Imeldas heart to see him go, and continues to hurt her, especially knowing the environment he would be surrounded by. She and I had purchased over $500.00 on clothes for her son just prior to him leaving....your welcome

As far as Linda's comments...You only know what your told, and everyone's being told something different...He just told Imelda today that he has 2 more treatments, and is doing well. He told the kids that his last test showed no cancer, On the medical side, if what he tells you is true, then I am sorry for your pain, I understand the love of a parent. However if you love your grandchildren you should be thankful that Imelda is the mother she is, rather then trying to slander her. Look at the lives of the majority of the kids in Henry and Imeldas family there age, and you can plainly see how they stick out from the crowd as great kids. You can thank Imelda for that.

This will be my last statement...I have more productive things to do then bicker with people that don't. My goal is to build people up not tear them down. Have a nice day :)

The truth is something Henry A Barber has lost all conception of, a code he unfortunetly teaches his children by his example. As far as him being caught-up on his support, he has omitted the thousands of dollars he is behind on support accrued while he was working. Claiming he couldnt afford it and yet he was spending a majority of his nights in the bars, and smoking 2 packs of cigarrettes a day of which instead of using that opportunity to teach his children the harms of his lifestyle, has convinced them that the drinking and smoking had nothing to do with his contracting cancer. Once again refusing to accept any responsibility for his own actions even at the expense of his children.

My financials are available for anyone to see. That's the benefit of being honest people, we have nothing to hide, something Henry Barber will never understand. Henry Barber states he is making an effort to pay his support, but the truth is the only reason he is paying the little he is, is because it is being garnished from him. After being notified of his slander by a business partner who googled The Abs Cafe, Imelda called to confront him, and his statement was "He sent this when he found out his taxes were garnished for his BACK support and he was angry about it"...not because it was his responsibility. And mind you this is still for back support accrued while both children were being supported by Imelda and I.

Anyone who has children knows how expensive it can be...I have gladly , personnelly spent well over $30,000.00 on the kids over the last 2 yrs. We sold items so that we could take them on a vacation that they would never forget. That vacation cost over $6,000.00 (which was paid for prior to my company dissolving) of which Henry provided $250.00, Imeldas brother contributed $100.00. You would think that instead of trying to sabotage our efforts to earn an income, he might show a little graditude for the efforts we go to, to provide his children not only with the things they need, but experiences he will never give them.

Henry talks about dancing at her wedding...a wedding I will end up paying for, and he will end up trying to take credit for....now thats sad!

Henry try's to play the poor victim, however I happen to have first hand experience with cancer. My mother died of cancer exactly 1 year ago. She was a 62 year old woman who worked and took care of her family up till 2 weeks before she died. Its people like Henry Barber that tax the system, and has put this country in the shape its in. People who are so full of self pity, and laziness, that they will use anything and anybody to justify there own actions and weaknesses...even there own children.

We are currently in a financial position that we could close our doors of which because of the economy and start-up costs has not made money. We could tuck our tales as Henry Barber has, and mooch off of the system, but instead we choose to make every effort to make it with hard work and persistance. Something Henry Barber could never understand.

To all of our clients, we apologize again for having to read through other peoples drama, and disfunction. This is a time when people should be working together to support one another rather then tear them down, Henry Barber did that to Imelda for 17 yrs and is obviously desperate to continue his disfunctional behavior.

We hope that this will not deter you from visiting our club and giving us the opportunity to help you with your nutritional needs, and give you the opportunity to earn an additional income that you can earn from home. This is a program for people who want to change, or improve there lives. Anyone who knows Imelda and I will tell you that we are honest hard working people who are passionate about our family, overall wellness and CANI (Constant And Never Ending Improvement). We would love the opportunity to help you with any goals you might have. We have two locations 1308 NE 134th St. Suite E, Vancouver (567-0851), and on Parkway in Battle ground (567-0851) Thank you, and we look forward to working with you.

When one has to resort to lies, character assasination, and half truths to defend the indefensible, it bears witness as to the
true character of that person. This feeble and pathetic attempt to justify not taking care of your responsbilites as a parent is abhorent.

The facts are clear and simple, in the ten months that Mr. Barber has had custody of his son, Mrs. Imelda Anderson has not contributed one dime for the support and well being of her child.

It was Mr. Barber's family who paid for school clothes, food and shelter, for her son. It is most difficult to support a teenager on $1154.00 a month.

What Mr. Barber stated is truthful and is an accurate account of the past ten months.

With regards to the state of Mr. Barbers health this was without a doubt the most vile and reprehensible statement one could make.

My son has terminal 4th stage Kidney cancer. He was fortunate to have obtained treatment, unforunately there is only a six to ten percent cure rate. He was advised on the 3rd of March, that the treatment was not working and would have to be terminated. Our family lives with
this everyday, twenty four hours a day. We love Mr. Barber and are heart broken. For a person to suggest that he is using this to gain pity is unconscionable.

While I could drag out all of the dirty laundry, I find this not revelant to the current situation.

The fact is Mrs. Imelda Anderson is a DEAD BEAT MOM, she did lie to the court as to her employment.

If Mr. Barber was such a terrible father, then why did she willingly give custody of her son, to a such a person?

This is all a weak and feeble attempt to justify not providing for your child.

Not once in all of his (Charles W. Anderson) gibberish does he address the truth and facts.

Imelda Anderson refuses to pay Court ordered support,
Case # 2063434 Mr. Rodger Belton (360)696-6100
She states she is not working,has no income and is suspected of currently hiding assets, and the case is currently in the Clark County Prosecutors office for Contemp of Court (360) 397-2261

In regards to my support for our daughter, Yes I did fall behind when I was on SSI supplemental ($661.00) per month, However will be within of $100.00 of being current within the next couple of weeks, due to her receiving my 08 tax return.

As Mr. Anderson states, yes they did finely took our son after the fact of us taking up a collection to pay for his ticket and I also sent him with spending money.

I have been diagnosed with terminal cancer and no Im not cured (wish and pray that someday I'll be able to say that)and in realization probably never will be and only trying to get more time to spend with my children and hope and pray to be able to see our daughter get married and to be able to dance at her wedding.

As far as Mr Anderson's statement of him and Imelda struggling to work three jobs to take care of there responsibilities , Imelda's support IS a responsibility that Imelda refuses to take seriously( by the way I will be forwarding that to the prosecutors office) and yes they are raising our daughter on $334.00 SSI and an add,l $184.00 out of my check.

Mr. Anderson address the facts, quite making excuses, and all the rest is completely irrelevant , The truth is the truth and the facts are what they are, and your slick tongue cannot change that.

First I would like to apologize to any of our clients, co workers, or friends, and especially his children for which he undoubtedly cares little about to write such slander and untruths about there mother. Anyone who knows Imelda will see right through this slander, this is for those who don't, and are only victims of a pitiful human being.

This comes from a man (a term I use lightly in his case) who left a pregnant wife and two young children at the age of 30 yrs old and seduced an 18 yr old girl still in high school to leave her home with money his Grandmother gave him, of which he continued to milk for many yrs to come, to be with him 19 yrs ago. After forcing her self to stay with him for 17 yrs because of a promise she made her father, Imelda left this man after yrs. of mental abuse, alchoholism, drugs, and an addiction to strip bars. I only mentioned these things so you might understand the character of this person, and what type of human he is.

When I met Imelda she had left Henry A Barber of Vancouver, WA due to the reasons listed above. He left her with a car he led her to beleive was insured and when she was hit by another uninsured vehicle found it was not insured and left her and her two children with no transportation, of which I provided for her. Henry Barber has never paid his full support and is to this day thousands of dollars behind.

Imelda Anderson is a good and loving mother. She is the only reason that there kids are not drunks, and drug addicts. This woman worked as a single mother at a grocery store, providing health coverage for her and them and he tried pressuring her to pay for his!! If you were to ask anyone that know Imelda and her children they would tell you what a good person she is and would do anything for her children. Henry's other children are in and out of jail for various reasons. Imelda has raised 2 very good kids who do not deserve being dragged through his mess. Instead he uses his disease to get them to feel sorry for him.

What Henry Barber has failed to mention is that there 17 yr old son has only recently moved in with his dad (10 mths ago) and there 15 yr old daughter lives with Imelda. He also failed to mention that the surgery, and the trip were paid for well before there son moved out of our home, at which time he was not paying support. (dead beat dad). He of course also forgot to mention that we took both kids with us on the trip. This is a man who has not paid a dime for his daughters braces of which his mother has paid her half in full, and now she cannot get them removed.

He would have you beleive that he is dying of cancer and cant work, but the truth is he has beat the cancer according to what he is telling his children and continues to milk the system so everyone will feel sorry for him. I for one do not!

Imelda and I struggle with three jobs to try and make ends meet, rather then find a way to milk the system. We have responsibilities that he would not understand like..car payments, house payments, utilities, groceries and raising a daughter. something he would not understand because he beleives we should all pay it for him.