Innocent Children Foundation ICF, Amanda K. Parisi, Amanda Parisi ICF (Innocent Children Foundation) by Amanda Parisi is a SCAM and FRAUD! Elk Grove Village, Illinois

I guess I may be bored and stumbled upon this old report about a charity that must have been fraudulent! 

After what? 3 years, the website for ICF was shut down and the sole proprietor, Amanda K. Parisi, has virtually vanished from Illinois and maybe the face of the Earth?! Lol I find it pretty funny that Amanda, who was so adamant that her charity was 'legit' proved to be a phony. Had her charity been 'legit', it would still be in operation right?? Well, it looks to me like it isn't. Amanda's little 'business-adventure' dodn't take off the way she wanted it to and was shut down completely. 

It would be intersting to know what she is doing now? Looks to me like she's in the "Where are they now file"

Serves her right. After making false accusations against me as well as another gentleman named Daniel, the truth FINALLY came out and she was exposed for what she really was, a FRAUD. Not to mention an alcoholic and user. 

I am glad to see that her so-called "charity" is long gone, as it was only fabricated for her own monetary gain.

Frauds don't last forever, nor did the "Innocent Children Foundation. ---> GOOD RIDDANCE!! Lmao!!!

Just wondering what ever happened to the owner of this so-called charity that bilked many, innocent people out of hard-earned money that they thought was going to a good cause, when in reality, it funded the 'owners' drinking habits and her penchant for expensive Coach purses and designer shoes worth several hundred dollars a pair. 

I think it is comical that she was 'run out of Elk Grove Village Illinois after the people that were suckered into being her friend FINALLY figured out her game and FINALLY figured out that she was abusing the monies that were given to her 'charity' in good faith. We have still yet to see any documentation on where those monies went and to whom thos monies helped. I tend to believe that NO ONE benefitted from the thousands of dollars donated, NO ONE except Amanda K. Parisi. When she found that she couldn't find a job, or hold on to one for that matter, she concocted a 'plan' to start a 'charity'. One that would make her a "ton of money". When, beig the very well educated person I am, started to question the validity of this 'charity' I was accused of doing things that never happened, thus I had to pay the ultimate price for such accusations. 

I'm hoping that Ms. Parisi has found some kind of religion and I hope that she has admitted her sins, most of which are STEALING MONEY FROM INNOCENT PEOPLE that had the wool pulled over their eyes by an evil-doer that had the gift of manipulation. When her "friends" filanny figured that all out, those said 'friends' dropped her like a bad-habit. 

I'm hoping that there are no more victims from this 'charity' and that the said 'charity' has closed it's fraudulent doors for good.

Have a nice day! :-)

I have not been on here in over a year. Why people continue to slander and disrespect others is a mystery to me. Amanda is not in Illinois anymore. I wish her well wherever she is! I have not been the one to talk s**t about Kim Marmitt either. I'm sorry Kim if you thought it was me, but it wasn't. It is disturbing to see the comments made about Kim as obviously whomever wrote those things has a personal vendetta against her. I can assure you, it is NOT me! Kim is right, we have been friends for a long time and why that status has changed is beyond my control. I'm not looking to lose any friendships no matter how minimal they are. I wish you well Kim and good health. Hope your feeling better kid!! :-)

I have heard that Amanda stirred up a lot of s**t in the pot whilst she was here in Illinois in her final days here.

People saying she took the last charity events monies for her plane ticket to Florida. If that is true, shame on Amanda for doing that. I just wanted to clear my name from this petty ridiculousness!

Again, I have no ill feelings towards anyone mentioned here, thus my rebuttal.
Have a nice day/evening folks!! Peace. :-)

Daniel F. Eppolito

Go f yourself Kim. You know you are nothing but a thief.

Did I do coke? Yes. Do I have 5 DUI s? ...NO. do I drive now? Yes. How about you? Let me answer that. NO YOU DONT. BECAUSE YOU ARE A BROKE a*s LOSER. You have talked s**t about everyone in your life. Gee....so weird that YOUR WHOLE FAMILY CUT YOU OFF! I haven't done coke for over 10 years. I've changed....have you??? NOPE! YOU STILL USE EVERYONE AROUND YOU! YOU DESERVE EVERY BAD THING THAT HAS AND IS HAPPENING TO YOU.

I didn't write your name on here. I don't even know anyone else but myself who has made comments on this site. The others who have made comments didn't post their real name so I have no clue as to who they really are. Sorry to be sure a disappointment to you, but I really have no idea.

As for threatening anyone for slander or defamation of character, if you read the policy and disclosure when you signed up to this site, it states you CAN NOT file law suit charges against anyone for any comment since this is a public forum and 1st Amendment Rights are in full force. Just stating what this site has in print.

On the other hand, I can not remove any comment personally. It all has to be sent as a written request to the web host of this site and they normally will not remove anything, no matter how bad it is. Sorry again, but rules are rules.

So please don't accuse me of slander or defamation of character since you just now stated you don't know who I am. Best of luck to you and hope Amanda K. Parisi didn't screw you up to bad by taking most of your money that should have been part of a fund raiser for a reason and NOT her fat butt pocket. She has stolen many things from adults and the children she was SUPPOSED to help, but never did. She is a fraud and she knows it. That is why she put her tail between her diaper and legs and fled the state. The heat was getting to hot for her and she couldn't handle the truth among everyone she was in contact with.

Well, where do we start. I would like to say that I have no idea how my name was brought into this pile of bull s**t that all of you have slandered me on. For the record, I am not a drug user nor do I drink my life and money away. Second, I have 2 children from the SAME FATHER. How f*ckin dare all of you slandering my name here and accusing me of being a whistle blower. If it is any consolation, I had no part of Amanda's so called foundation nor was I ever very close friends with her. Yes there was a charity fund raiser held for me a while back ago, and that money was not blown on drugs or alcohol but to help me and my children stay in our home. And for all of you who have any doubts about my illness, which is truly an illness and I have all 4 years worth of records from the hospitals and doctors to prove it and I am still sick and have lots of surgeries to go through. I am not saying this to receive any kind of sympathy from any of you but only stating the hard core facts as many of you have taken it out of content. I am enraged, especially when I have not slandered anyone here or mentioned names on facebook or any other site. You all should be ashamed of yourselves you pieces of s**t. Eppilito we were friends for a very long time and I cannot believe you would make such harsh comments about me. If there is something you want to say, be a man and say it to my face. And Dan Graiber, who are you and why are you even mentioning my name here on this site?? All of this is between you guys and Amanda and I have no idea how and why my name was ever brought up. Also, the fund raiser that was held for me was completely run by someone none of you know nor will ever have the pleasure of knowing because they are classy, not trashy like all of you.

As for the comment that was made by "Mike". I only have one thing to say to you Warchal......Get a f*ckin life you drug addict just got out of prison loser a*s for cocaine and 5 DUI's. Really? At least I have never done any jail time.

Lastly, if my name is ever tossed around here on this site and slandered, I will take the next step and it will not be pretty for any of you. Not a threat, but this is a promise I can assure you.

This is not aimed towards Amanda at all, but towards the pathetic, fat jobless loser Kim Marmitt. I know the disgusting beast will see this, that's why I'm writing this. Kim is just as much to be blamed for ripping people off. That stupid charity event that was held for her...well the money raised for her, all she did was smoke it, and drink it. She hasn't worked in years, she is VERY well capable of working...for the past few years! Instead, she uses her stupid root canal bullshit as an excuse for everything . She gets people to pay her bills, and asks for sympathy on Facebook. She is nothing but a trash talking user. She will use anyone and everyone for whatever she can. She is nothing but a thief. For whatever idiot guy that ends up with this loser, bring a razor. You'll need it to shave her disgusting fat hairy a*s cheeks. I hope she suffers in He**l

Amanda was arrested several times in Illinois on her way to fleeing to Florida. She has since been bailed out and fled to Florida where she hides out with her tail between her legs. What does she do for money in Florida? She scams MORE people in Florida cause Amanda K. Parisi thinks she can take advantage of them much easier there. I guess Illinois people were getting the heat put on her and she got scared.

So the mystery still remains... Where is our money? The money was spent, from the July 2011 charity(scam) event at Wild Fire Harley Davidson in Villa Park, IL., so Amanda could move to Florida and still have money left over to live on. She stays in other people's homes, eats ALL their food, runs up their phone bills, leaves her dirty poop filled diapers laying around their home and then acts like the kids or dog did it. Amanda K. Parisi has OVER welcomed her stay on this planet. She is a disgrace to non-profit charities and sending out a bad message about how good hearted people she be aware of scammers and con-artists like Amanda K. Parisi and her Innocent Children foundation.

On another note, Amanda STILL hasn't paid for the logo she proclaims that is hers. That foundation logo belongs to the creator who designed it on the pretense that she would get paid for her work. Amanda scammed her way into claiming it is hers. She WILL be prosecuted for forgery and theft of a trademark that is registered to the actual design owner since creation. Amanda OWNS NO rights or privileges to the photos on her website or brochures, she OWNS NO rights to any logos or trademarks that she uses in person/on her website/or uses as her FALSE charity.

Amanda should be found, put in jail where she belongs, and be prosecuted for a life sentence. This way she can't scam and STEAL from the public again.  

I too, know 1st hand that Amanda K. Parisi is a self-righteous, greedy alcoholic that has let a LOT of people down after those people invested their time, effort, and yes, money to Amanda and her fraudulent organization. I did research work for her at the initial birth of her "charity" and was never compensated. I was working full-time and expressed to her that I could only work on it after my job. After said project was completed and mailed to her. I was cursed and ridiculed for not having it done sooner. Subsequently, several months would go by and Amanda's ruse and game was slowly found out by some astute individuals that were concerned that innocent people were being taken advantage for the monetary gain of an unemployed Amanda K. Parisi. If some of the previous posts seem like "rants", they are. They are "rants" by an individual that was pushed over the edge by this evil-doer, thus causing him/her to react in an excited manner. I don't blame them fro their frustrations..

They are just one of many people that have been pushed too far by Amanda K. Parisi.

I hope that karma and due-diligence takes effect and the proper authorities can do their research and bring down this scam-artist by the name of Amanda K. Parisi.

God Bless.

The fact the Amanda K. Parisi is STILL drinking alcohol and advertises that she KILLED someone while drinking and driving is right up Amanda's alley. She likes to convince people that she did no wrong, but she was the driver and was DRUNK. Way over the legal alcohol limit. She KILLED her friend. Amanda claims she lives everyday in that memory of her friend. Then why continue to drink? Why have a fraud fund raiser where people ARE drinking alcohol and driving? Real good role model Rachel has to look up to. Pretty mush a complete disappointment Amanda has turned out to be.

As far as my mental disturbance, you seem to be the only one who thinks that way. Everyone else that you WERE associated with, the REAL people who seen you first hand take the funds and scam people, and the people who believed you had a good charity and cause to purse but realized it was ALL a lie just to get money from "SUCKERS"; those people associate with me and we communicate all the time now. After I told them what was really going on and how much of a LIAR and FRAUD you are, they have seen it for themselves earlier this year, 2011.

So why doesn't Amanda Parisi have any friends helping her anymore? Cause they witnessed her fraud, her lies, her theft. Amanda claims she has remorse for the MURDER she had done. She hasn't remorsed anything. The only thing she does is drink, crap in her adult diaper cause she is to fat and lazy to get her fat butt up off the potato chip infested sofa to get to the bathroom. She figures why should I when cleaned up my own kids butt and raised her, she can wipe my butt halfway through my life before I actually need DIAPERS. Lazy piece of wasted flesh on this planet. I don't know who is worse: Amanda K. Parisi or OBama? They both love to take other peoples money, they both screw the public, they both wear diapers, they both lie about everything in their life just to play the pity game, and they don't care what happens to anyone's child in ANY situation. Amanda has shown that time and time again. What is the main purpose of Amanda's fake charity? To make the public aware of child rapists are out there seeking children. Um, don't we know that already? Doesn't the news inform us about that? Doesn't the local library and police department have all the information you would need? So what is the purpose of Amanda telling the public the same stuff that we already know? She also claims to be helping children and their families. She does what for them? Talk their head off to the point they kill themselves or let Amanda do it. She enjoys killing people while drunk. She can get off the crime and play the pity card all she wants.

Amanda K. Parisi has NO TALENTS or education. If you think being a con-artist, scammer, thief, liar, and fat lazy waste of life are hidden talents of hers, then I guess she should stick with something she is good at; ROBBING and KILLING PEOPLE!

As for a letter from Amanda stating that I can't go to ANY function that she has is completely outrageous just like she is. Threatening someone doesn't mean they can't go someplace. The only thing that can prevent anyone from going anywhere is a restraining order issued by the court judge. Or did you forget that Amanda? Probably did cause you are to drunk to understand what 2+2 is. 2 Bud Lights plus 2 Bud Lights equals a good start to everyday of Amanda's life.

Hey Amanda, how's Florida treating you? How's your parent's house? Amanda loves to run when she gets into trouble. She hides in peoples homes, sleeps in her car, picks through garbage cans for food, and has several warrants out for her arrest for 36 counts of FRAUD and Illegal use of company name's and trademarks. So turn yourself in Amanda and enjoy your life in jail.

There is nothing you can say or do that will make others think differently about you and what you have done to other people. You have lied to them all, stolen from them all, cheated them all, and made them all SICK of you and your drunken, diaper wearing, no class, waste of space and air, stupider than dirt crack addict.

I hope you are rid of this planet as soon as possible. You are a sick person that help couldn't cure.

Amanda refuses to visit this page but she released a statement and allowed me to post on her behalf:

First and foremost, I am not a murderer. I was involved in an accident with my best friend in 1993 and Graiber nor his small army of two who wrote on this page know the details on where we were, why we were out or where we were headed when we crashed.  I never hid my story; in fact, I spoke often about my accident to inspire others so the same not happen to them.  
 
Despite the fact he denied it, Graiber WAS BANNED FROM EVENTS by me via a letter he was emailed, a letter I know he received because he altered it and posted that altered letter on FaceBook. Additionally, Graiber never saw me, nor did anyone else ever see me, steal from my organization and to suggest as much is utterly preposterous. The accounting books are legitimate and I have the backup for it all.
 
If you have questions or concerns you may contact me directly at: amanda@icfillinois.us. Being that this offer has been extended for months now and nobody has contacted me to date; I assume the few people who read this were able to see this nonsense for what it really is; the ranting of a mentally disturbed person who is out of touch with reality.
 
I appreciate the continued support as Innocent Children Foundation expands into additional states and despite Graibers attempts to scare me, I confidently defend that Innocent Children Foundation will be maintaining our presence in Illinois.

You just read from Jamie Young. Let's all give her a swift kick in the rear for being so blind about Amanda K. Parisi. Since YOU have known Amanda from her MURDER, to her own rape, to her daughter's rape, to current Amanda... YOU have NO IDEA what you are talking about. As far as having certain people not allowed to be at her functions... sorry you are wrong. I was there, I witnessed her robbing, myself and many others have first hand knowledge of her thievery from her so-called FRAUD of a charity. SO SHUT YOUR PIE HOLE!
As for YOU trying to discredit myself or anyone else, besides Amanda, you have NO IDEA who we are and I bet you have NEVER met any of us. So again, SHUT YOUR DIRTY PIE HOLE! Were you lied to? Did you contribute to the FRAUD charity? Were you at the fund raising events? Since you can't answer any of these as a "YES", SHUT YOUR TRAP!
When you have been lied to, stolen from, seen with your own eyes the thievery and antics that Amanda has done to giving people that wanted to help, then back your mouth up and plant it. You have NO IDEA what all of US have gone through and had to deal with.

And yes Amanda has moved to Florida or shall I say, THE COURT HAS HER. She is busted and has to show PROOF, which she doesn't have, that she is legit. We have copies of the REAL records and the REAL books. She has the fake ones. The ones that she claims are the ones she shows the government. Those are fake. She has been caught red handed with using company names and logos WITHOUT permission just to make her events seem like BIG things. NONE of those companies gave permission for her to use their name or logo for her FRAUD charity. Since you claim to still talk to Amanda, did she tell you that she has 2 dozen law suits against her for FRAUD, Illegal use of company name and trademarks? Lying about who she is and what other places she is working with to help children? NO? Well news flash... she is a BIG FAT LIAR!
Go find her can let her rest her crying head on your shoulder cause all she will see for the next 25-30 years is the inside of a jail cell.

AMANDA K. PARISI IS A MURDERER, THIEF, FRAUD, CHEAT, CON-ARTIST, and most of all a LIAR!

Go see her in the Cook County Jail and console her teary eyes. Her time is up and WE are ALL glad she will get what is coming to her.

I have known Amanda since she was 14 and I also personally knew Natalie. The one thing I can say about the both of them, first and foremost, is that they were the very best of friends. To discredit their friendship would not only greatly offend Natalie but it goes to show that only someone who NEVER KNEW THEM could (and would) talk this way because those who know them both and knew their friendship know otherwise. They were like sisters, the best of the BEST OF FRIENDS and to suggest otherwise is very wrong. Amanda would give the shirt off her back for her friends and also to strangers. She is one of the MOST GIVING persons I have ever known. I talked to Amanda many times over the years as I watched her cry and I held her hand as she told me how much she missed her and would give everything to swap places and while she let her feelings flow I told her she had to stop torturing herself because I know Natalie would not want this for her.  I was also the first person that Amanda told that she was molested as a child and I talked to her for weeks and told her to tell her family only when she did, they denounced her abuse and said it never happened. Imagine how difficult it is to say you were sexually abused and your own family responds by saying that you are lying. Amanda only wanted to be loved and cared for and the sick person who DID INDEED MOLEST AND RAPE HER DAUGHTER has since laughed and lied about what he had done to a child. Amanda would not hurt her daughter and he made her believe that he wouldn't BUT HE DID. That person she trusted her life and her daughter with, a child she NEVER EVER allowed to meet men, molested her daughter and from her own sexual abuse and then her daughter's she created an amazing charity to help kids through their pain. The fact someone would spend their time trying to discredit her and her actions is absolutely disgusting but this site allows people to post WHATEVER THEY WANT despite having no proof of wrong doing. Amanda is a very giving person. She helps her friends in need AND babysits their kids when they need it and she never asks to be paid in fact she always says to them "friends help friends don't even try to pay me." 
I know her better than anyone else and what you are reading on this page is nothing more than rantings from a deranged lunatic who had nothing better to do than obsess over her when she banned him from events for his erratic and inappropriate behavior. You decide who you will listen to but I know Amanda well enough to know that if you EVER have a question or a concern you can reach out to her personally and she WILL answer ANY AND EVERY SINGLE QUESTION HONESTLY and be available for you. PS she did not move to Florida on August 31st, yet another wild accusation from a sociopath. 

Amanda is fleeing to Florida as of now. SUCKERS to all who donated to this fraud charity and to a thief as Amanda K. Parisi. She took your money and ran south with it. HA! She is a lost cause and thank GOD she will now be Florida's problem.

            As of today, August 23, 2011, many people have requested certain items to be removed from the Innocent Children Foundation website hosted by GoDaddy.com and Amanda sends out a fake email stating she is on vacation or she sends an email out saying she is not doing anything or removing any content on her website. The website developer has quit working for Amanda because of her high demands, unlawful postings, crunch deadlines, unruling and control ways. He has quit and requested his name be removed from the site and Amanda K. Parisi refuses to do so. After numerous requests he has sent to Amanda, she finally stated to him that he can sue her.
           On another note, the logo she 'claims' is hers is actually designed and owned by someone else. No contract was signed, no document was released for Amanda to use and claim ownership rights of the logo, and payment was NOT exchanged for the logo and design of the fraud charity. There have been numerous requests to remove and cease use of the logo and trademark, but Amanda sends out auto replies stating she is on vacation or not available. Some actually come back as she refuses to do so without a court order.
             Amanda K. Parisi is currently being sued by over a dozen companies for illegal use of their company name and company logo trademark without permission to post on her website as a "Corporate Sponsor". The fact is, Amanda didn't have any sponsors for the charity fund raising bike event she put together on July 31, 2011 at Wild Fire Harley Davidson. She falsely claimed the "Miller Lite Girls" were going to be there. They were just girls wearing a Miller Lite T-shirt and NOT the real Miller Lite Girls as claimed. Miller Lite, which is owned by Coors Brewing Company, stated they did NOT authorize there company name and logo to be used on any charity site and the Miller Lite Girls are NOT authorized or going to be at the charity event. So another lie by Amanda Parisi.
            Amanda claims a lot and has nothing to show for it. She uses people to her advantage and gives nothing in return, except lying and cheating people. The Children's Place in Hoffman Estates,IL stated they are NOT doing any work with Amanda and her fraud charity and they will NOT be conducting any business with her or the so-called charity.
           As for Amanda and her Florida move.... that has yet to be seen. If she doesn't have any money, how can she afford to move? Simple, she uses the charity money that people donated to the charity and she uses that for relocation fees. She steals from her own fraud charity. Then she will claim on her receipts that the Amanda Parisi Foundation donated funds for the move or vise verse.
          Amanda K. Parisi doesn't have any friends that trust her. Everyone in Illinois that she knew is against her and caught on to her fraud and scamming. Most of them were used and abused by her. Now they are sticking up for themselves and filing reports with the proper authorities. Amanda has yet to be caught because she is NOT where she says she is and refuses to turn herself in to those authorities.

So now we have requests to removed names and logos which don't belong to her, she refuses to remove content that is NOT hers, authorities want her to turn herself in, misuse of funds from a charity for personal use and gain, lying to the IRS, fraud to the Illinois Department of Employment Security, lying to the public, lying and cheating to her friends (but are not her friends anymore), most of all.. lying to herself and daughter.

If you see or hear of Amanda K. Parisi or Innocent Children Foundation... stay clear of her. Report her to the authorities and have her captured. The Government will love you for it.

As of today, 7-31-2011, Innocent Children Foundation website has been shut down. I guess someone SCREWED with to many people and put up company names and trademarks without their permissions.

On www.innocentchildrenfoundation.us it states, for the 2011 Reason to Ride-Promising Rachel "CORPORATE SPONSORS" which are actually "Refusal To Sponsor, but I will put them up anyways just to piss people off". They include: Miller Lite Girls; Chicago's Wild Fire Harley Davidson in Villa Park, IL; Target; TopLine Towing; Diamond Lil's; Bentley's Corner Bakery; Starbucks Coffee; Country Donuts; Hull's Pub; The Patio Restaurants; Mary Kay; Uncle Julio's Fine Mexican Food; Maggiano's Little Italy; Lou Malnati's Pizzeria; Ala Carte Entertainment; Christy's Restaurant Pancake House; Lynfred Winery; Rosebud Old World Italian; Jarosch Bakery; Pivit Point Academy; Claddagh Irish pub; Red Apple Restaurant; Peapod Chinese Food; Filling Station Pub & Grill; Office Depot; The Beehive Tavern & Grille; Abt Electronics; California Pizza Kitchen; Thai Zie Noodles & Bar; Tranquility Salon & Spa; PRP; ZaZa's; Olive Garden Italian Restaurant; Twinkles The Clown; Village Tavern & Grill; Scentsy; Bed, Bath & Beyond; Aveda; Redken 5th Avenue NYC; Avalanche Pub; Ruffners; La Bella Salon Inc; Elk Grove Bowl; Omega Restaurant & Bakery; Rosie O'Hare's; Bahama Breeze; Language Stars; The Salon Professional Academy; American Laser Skincare; Kane County Cougars; Rx Cafe; Bentley's Pancake House; Tapalpa Mexican Restaurant; L.A.Tan; Rose Garden Cafe; Skin Chic.

All of which NEVER gave permission to use, list or publicly announce to Amanda K. Parisi or Innocent Children Foundation to use their company name or trademark. None of the listed sponsored or gave any corporate funding to Amanda K. Parisi or Innocent Children Foundation for the 2011 Reason to Ride- Promising Rachel Event. As a matter of FACT, Amanda K. Parisi NEVER had any sponsors for this event even two weeks prior to this event. She NEVER had sponsors for the rally event from 2010 Reason to Ride either. She made up each and every sponsor in hopes it would make a much bigger turn out if people saw BIG companies on the sponsor list. Little does Amanda know, on Friday July 29, 2011, 5 BIG companies filed Illegal Use of company name and trademark in the court. They also filed a counter claim for FRAUD against Amanda K. Parisi for defamation of a companies character. All which will put her behind bars where she rightfully belongs.

Amanda K. Parisi can be reached at:
1906 Pebblecreek Court
DeKalb, IL 60115
312-545-2211

Her PO Boxes are only there to get mail when she feels like it. GoDaddy.com is her web domain server.
If anyone wants copies of the "Corporate Sponsors" that were listed as they were on Amanda K. Parisi's FRAUD website, please contact me at: dangraiber@gmail.com  I will honor companies requests as well FREE of charge. As for requests from Amanda, I will have to charge for processing, shipping and handling at the Court rates.

If you know any of these places listed, please let them know that you, your family and friends are deeply disappointed in who they chose to sponsor. I have and that is how they started the law suits.

As you state on your so-called website, people need to send in their applications so YOU can review them and then if YOU decided YOU could help them, YOU will let them know within 30 days. What happen to YOU don't pick who you help? Another lie straight from your site.

http://menssibiconsciarecti.wordpress.com/

"We had moved a lot in her years of growing up and it had always been
just she and I. I started to make rationalizations for our relationship.
New city, again, new school, again and living with her moms boyfriend,
a totally new experience." Yeah, hoping from town to town is a GREAT way to raise a child. Never know where to call "HOME". Then moving in with a boyfriend on top of it to Redmond, WA. Great call Amanda.

"My parents did not devote the time needed to raise me." Maybe because you were just a bad seed.

"I pretty much raised myself so, I ran into some trouble in my life." Oh yes you did. You needed mental help more than anything.

"My boyfriend Michael, myself and my daughter moved into the house on September 3rd, 2005 outside of Seattle Washington." In Redmond, WA.

"I noticed within the first 2 weeks that things were different." Duh, moving from place to place is always going to be different. What did you think, that the place where you were crashing would follow you? Dumb is dumb.

"I asked my daughter to go to the grocery store like we always did and she refused." Maybe cause she didn't want to be around you since you took up another zip code. The words he chose and the way he said it had me believe him. I pulled back and looked him in the eye and looked at my daughter. I was searching for my daughter to tell me with her eyes what that was. She just looked at me, knowing her as well as I had, I could not get a read on her. " Oh now you are a mind reader. Should be a good circus act you put on. Can you read my mind and what I am thinking right now? Probably not cause you are NOT a freaking mind reader!

"For the first few months in Redmond, I had no friends, only Michael and my daughter." Holy Cow Batman! You were there for a few months and didn't have any friends? You must have known your neighbors or other people in the area. Oh wait, you didn't bother to look for work cause you wanted to be lazy and live off Michael's money. Gold Digger!

" So, when he and I were home alone I asked him, You would never hurt my daughter would you? Before he had a chance to respond I answered for him by saying out loud, No you wouldnt." Since you are a mind reader, you had to ask? You could have used your super powers and read his mind. But you had to open your mouth and then didn't even let him answer for himself. Selfish, self-centered, back stabbing, fist jamming carpet muncher.

"My daughter was avoiding any and all opportunities to be around me. Tuesday had always been game night and Friday night was always popcorn and a movie. All of this was a thing of the past because in Redmond, we hardly talked or looked at each other despite my attempts to bond with
her. Our deep conversations were now superficial and meaningless." All because you felt abandoned by Michael and now your daughter didn't even want to be around you. Making up  stories and jumping to conclusions all over again. You should be ashamed of yourself.

"I would sit by myself analyzing it at night, we had moved a lot in her years of growing up and it had always been just she and I. I started to make rationalizations for our relationship." With a Bud Light in hand and a joint in the other. Way to go! Let the solo party begin. Someone really needs mental help and fast.

"Michael was always nice and respectful to my daughter when I was around." Finally a good comment from the witch herself.

"He gave me Tylenol PMs and lay in bed with me until I fell asleep.  At the time I thought he was taking care of me, but he was doing just the opposite, with me passed out on Tylenol PMs, it provided him the perfect opportunity to abuse her in the next room and I never heard a sound. It didnt matter if I wasnt home, because he was doing it when I was there too." Tylenol PM's wouldn't knock out anyone unless it was at high dose. For you to be passed out on Tylenol PM's the fact is it would take 4 of them to do so. At that point your liver and kidneys would be in major trouble. And for as many times as you claim Michael did this, you would be some serious medical trouble. You are only speculating that this was happening with NO proven facts.
With that being said, after taking Tylenol PM for a period of more than a week, your body gets used to it and develops a tolerance to over the counter pills. After taking Tylenol PM the first few times, an increase of dosage for it to work must be increased. It's a KNOWN fact! After waking up from your dose of Tylenol PM, your body is STILL tired because sleep aids don't rest your body or mind. It inhibits your nervous system. So when you wake up, you are still tired. Think of another claim and sue Tylenol PM then. Stupid is stupid.

"Knowing what I know now, my daughter was trying to tell me, without directly telling me. " Again with the mind reading side show act.

"How would your mother feel if she knew we were together? If your Mom finds out, she will be mad at us. If your Mom finds out you were with me, it would kill her." Um, this isn't rape phrasing. This is NOT grooming either. Grooming is like cutting hair, trimming nails, polishing nails, applying makeup, etc. Seems as you like twisting words around to make everyone else sound like the bad person. If someone doesn't want to be with you or around you, you get jealous.

"My daughter refused to come near me. We used to snuggle on the couch and watch movies and now she wouldnt even shake my hand much less hug me. When I tried to initiate activities for us to do, she always said no. She became a total recluse. When he left for work (he worked nights at the Port of Tacoma) she would go to her room and shut the door. I would go in and try to talk to her, but she showed no interest." If Michael worked at the Port of Tacoma, don't you think he had enough fish smell for one day's of work? I know I would. If your daughter didn't want anything to do with you or even talk to you, maybe there was something else she was involved with. You point fingers at people and jump to your own conclusions when there isn't anything to jump to. NOW you have a job? What did you do? How was it with? Oh wait, it was at the street corners and didn't bring any money home. I guess Michael gave you money just so you could hit the crack houses in Washington. PLUS, if he worked nights, when would he give you Tylenol PM? He worked nights and you worked during the day. Your story doesn't match any events.

"I would retreat to the living room where I would, as always, sit alone and cry. She always cared about her education and suddenly her grades were slipping. Was it because she was in another new school and trying to fit in? Were the schools tougher in Seattle than they were anywhere else we had lived?" Seattle, WA area has a high crime rate and the education standards are lower. So do the math and then press the equal button. Maybe she was trying to get her studies up since she was told she was dropping down in grades. After moving from place to place so often as you have stated, why would she want to keep her grades up when she wouldn't know if she was moving again and again? Makes sense to me.

"I decided to go back to writing in my journal. I could not sort out my thoughts anymore; I needed some help processing everything. We all said at one point or another that we were having trouble adjusting to life in Seattle so I suggested that we all keep a journal." When did all this journal writing happen? Since "everyone had a hard time adjusting in Seattle".. maybe that is why your daughter's grades were slipping. Maybe Seattle didn't want you like Illinois doesn't want you.

"I looked at my journal about 2 years ago (2008); this particular entry was written 2 months before we moved to Redmond. It was simple and to the point and only 2 lines. It said: He never wants to watch TV with me; all he wants to do is watch TV with my daughter and hang out with her all the time." Maybe he was just spending time with your daughter so the move to Seattle would be easier. Knowing she was going to move away from what ever friends she did make where she was living would soon be gone. The only two people she would know for a little while would be you and Michael. Don't have to a rocket scientist to figure that out. Dummy!

"I spent the entire time we lived together in Redmond trying to rationalize and piece it together. All the while I had him telling me he loved me and then turning around hours later and putting me down. It was very confusing for me to say the least." With all your lies so far, this is all confusing me and anyone else who is reading this garbage. If he was putting you down, what crane did he rent to lift you up? Maybe he stole one from the Port of Tacoma and brought it back home with him. Yeah, that's it. Didn't notice the big giant machine in the front yard with the heavy duty cables hanging from the big giant hook did you? Maybe he gave you a few Tylenol PM's so you wouldn't notice it.

"Michael and I were always fighting and they had escalated to that of a violent nature. Sometimes he attacked me and sometimes I attacked him." As you stated earlier, "I am NOT a fighter. I don't like violence." So you admit you attacked him.. again with your lies.

"I grew up in an unloving, physically abusive household, so physical fights of any kind make me nervous but he invoked such fits of rage inside me at times." I know you stated on your site that you are thankful for such a loving and honest family. If it wasn't for them, you wouldn't know where to turn to. Now in your made up story, you are stating you came from an unloving, physically abusive household. Let me guess, you ate everything in the house to make your parents made and fight cause they were always hungry. Maybe you sucked them dry of money and food. They worked hard to bring money in their bank, to pay their bills, put food on their table and then you come along and eat everything is sight so they are left with crumbs. Nice going jack monkey!

"He would say the cruelest things like every time you eat a Big Mac you piss me off. He called me stupid and countless other names and told me many times he thought my daughter was stupid and would never be able to hold a job because she was so slow." and and and and... use a comma for punctuation sakes! Everytime you eat a Big Mac, it just doesn't stop at one. You eat the whole Value Meal Menu. No wonder why you pissed him off. I would to, but thank GOD I am not. As for your daughter being slow, maybe she was just getting adjusted to the NEW area like she has many times before. It takes time to adjust and isn't done over night. Amanda, you are stupid. So Michael was right about that.

"I do not know if you have ever known what becomes of a broken spirit." Are you a Native American Indian now? Me, Wild River. You, Fat Moose with missing Mack truck forehead.

"I wanted to kill myself and contemplated it on several occasions. There was a point when I was driving down 40th Street past the Microsoft campus down the hill toward our house that I contemplated driving straight instead of turning onto our street and driving my car into Lake Sammamish to kill myself. I remember going back to the house and sitting in my parked car feeling like a failure because I didnt drive myself into the lake.? For someone to put someone down to accuse them of thoughts of suicide, you should talk a big game. For someone like you to state this in the open only makes you need mental attention and FAST. Should have followed through with your plans. At least there would have been motive to do so.

"He had broken me down so bad that after I got out I realized something very significant, he talked to me the same way my Dad did." So when did the loving family take place as you state on yor site you are so proud of? Really confused now...

"One fight in particular between Michael and I, I grabbed the lamp, yanked if from the table so hard that I pulled the cord from the wall. Yelling at Michael, I lifted the lamp over my head and threw it at him." Now now Amanda. Who has anger issues? Not me. Can we all say "AMANDA"? Mental case on you already. Quick call the pity police on Amanda. "I'm not a violent or angry person." I can't stop laughing at you on this one. Someone is a psycho...AMANDA!

"I do not have it in me to physically hurt another person, I just dont." So which is it.. you did throw it at him or you didn't? But you did.

"She asked me, in front of him, for a lock on her door. I told her that if a child asks for a lock on their door it leads a parent to believe they are up to no good." Yeah, she wants to keep your fat butt OUT of her life.

"My daughter didnt have many friends in Redmond and the ones she did have were the bad ones. So, she spent a great deal of time with me and Michael." Wait a minute here Speedy. If your daughter didn't have many friends, but the ones she did have were "bad" ones, then as a parent you ALLOWED this to happen. She spent a great deal of time with YOU and Michael.. then how could any of this secret business happen? If you are trying to tell the world your story, they better drink a case of Bud Light first and then read it like how you typed it with a case of Bud Light.

"Poor kid never really had a chance to get out of the house" Maybe if the lock on the bedroom door she could have ran away to some place safe and away from YOU.

"On a Friday night, my daughter came into my room. Michael and I were lying in bed talking. I saw her look over my head at Michael and I turned around to look at him." I bet you two were just talking. Maybe Michael was doing a 'reach around and around'.

"She said, Mom, I am gay." Maybe that was the BIG secret she was holding back from you. DUH!

"Why was Michael having those kinds of conversations with my daughter? THAT IS MY JOB!" Your JOB? Did you get paid for services being a gay counselor? Do you have extensive knowledge and background in gay rights? It isn't your job. Being a parent is your job. Maybe she felt comfortable talking to Michael since he knows Rosie Palmer and Harrietta Hanna better then you know Energizer and Duracell.

Then there is a paragraph about you demanding information on why your daughter wanted to talk to Michael alone about something. You demanded to know, but after she shut you down cold, you let it go. Then you made things worse by confronting Michael about why he was in your daughter's journal. What business is it of yours? What gives you the right to pry on other peoples information that they wish to have kept from you? Stalker is what you are...

"We had been living in Redmond 3.5 months now and in the middle of December 2005, I received a call from my daughters father. He and I have always had a good rapport with one another, so it was not out of character for either of us to call each other to catch up." Wow, only 3 1/2 months already. Felt much longer than that. It took me 5 months just to understand what you were rambling about. I should bill you for therapy and alcohol. Everyone should..
Now the father steps into the picture or story. You can't seem to get along with anyone can you? But it's not out of character for you two to call each other and catch up? This is called ACTING!

"We had always been so open with her that asking us to explain just did not add up." Huh? 1+1=2

"Her dad has known me since I was 17 years old, he knows me pretty well" Does he know you KILLED someone while drinking and driving? IF so, why didn't he demand you go to jail and serve a life sentence like everyone else that kills someone while drinking and driving? How long were you married to this guy? Probably NOT even married to this guy. One night stand is just that.

"A few days after Christmas of 2005, Michael and I had another fight. I kicked him out and after a few days of worrying I didnt know anyone and could not make it on my own, Michael and I talked about our relationship and what, if anything, we had to develop from." WOW! Another fight. But I though you were not the fighting kind of person? After you kicked him out, you let him back in. You are a victim of your own creation. You worried about your accuser? You really are stupid and to this day, you are the same stupid person.

"After the New Year though, my daughter seemed to get worse. She knew about the apartment I went and saw and obviously it was affecting her that we didnt leave. She was talking even less than she was since we first moved to Washington, she was barely eating and she looked very sad
and unloved." If you wanted to leave right away, when you saw the first apartment, you could have left that moment. You didn't. You MADE your daughter feel worse and look worse. YOU caused it yourself. Your daughter was talking to you less and less? But I thought she was opening up to you a month before? Then you state since your move to Washington. Stories don't mesh together here lady. If she was barely eating, then doctors can help. If she looked very sad and unloved, that is all caused by you.

"My daughter asked if she could go to therapy, I made an appointment right away. The appointment was the first week of February 2006." From New Year's Day you waited to seek help until the first week of February? And you call yourself an advocate of sexual abuse crimes that is helping others.

"She went for 2 weeks and after meeting her therapist, I agreed with my daughter, this particular therapist was not going to help my daughter, at all. She wasnt very professional and my daughter didnt like her." How do you know what works and what doesn't? Are you a doctor or therapist? Do you have a medical or even a degree in Psychology? In your site, you claim that you will take a child to a therapist to get treatment. How do you know what will be right for that child and the parents of that child? You are not a professional or even educated in any field of study.

"I had finally had enough of the fighting and abusive behavior, I kicked Michael out February 12th, 2006" So was this during the first 2 weeks of therapy or was this after the 2 weeks of therapy? Your dates are all over the place.

"When I was at the school I looked the counselor in the eye and told her to tell me what she thought was going on. I think I needed someone to tell me because I couldnt come to terms with it on my own." And you claim you know what is best for any child? You just admitted you can't think for yourself and need someone else to tell you.

"I told myself that my daughter would have told me if something was going on because of all of the talks we had when she was younger and honestly, I really believed she would have." But she DID tell you and you STILL denied what she told you. You let it go in one ear and out the other. This is what you STILL do to other people when it comes to their thoughts and concerns. You DON'T LISTEN!

"After the meeting I had to get back to work." Wow, we all know where your priorities are when it comes to your daughter and sexual abuse.
"When I got there, my boss called me into his office. I knew I was being let go. I did not blame them for firing me; I was never present when I was at work. I found it incredibly difficult to concentrate and most of the time I sat at my desk crying trying to sort out my life. When I wasnt at work not doing my job, work sent me all over the country." So which is it.. you were drugged with an over the counter Tylenol PM, you were all over the country, or you sat at a desk? You STILL can't hold a job down today. Most work places, all over the country, offer assistance. Didn't you think about checking into that? Oh wait, you have only been there for 3 1/2 months or was it 5 months now, or has it been a month... everyone is confused now more than ever. You can't seem to plot a story straight. You are rambling and boring. If anyone gets what you are saying paragraph by paragraph, they must be drugged with Tylenol PM or drunk on Bud Light.

"Without any income, we would not be able to survive and if I went back to work, I could not take the time to get her back on track. He had to move back in. I called Michael and asked him to meet me at the house. When he got there, I told him that he would be moving back in, that my daughter has never been like this before and now I will always be home and with my daughter." Wait a slimy second here, YOU went to look at an apartment to move out. Now you are saying he moved out. Then you and your daughter stayed at the house. Now you want him to move back in or are you two moving back in?

"After a day or so, before he moved back in, I made a bold decision that was going to change my daughters life. I told him I was moving back to Chicago. April 1st 2006 we were back in Chicago. We lasted with him in Washington for 7 months." So what happen in the month of March or the rest of February 2006? It took that long for you to move back in or Michael to move back in?

"My daughter was behaving the same way she was in Washington." So there was NO change after you two moved 800+ miles away from Washington. So the move didn't change your daughter's life? That was your choice and could have gotten help in Washington. What a waste of time.

"It took only 6 weeks after we left for my daughter to reveal the abuse she had suffered" For someone who can "read" people, sure didn't "read" her own daughter. But she TOLD you what was going on. YOU neglected to let your mind wrap around what you were told. It's your own fault for not listening.

"it is so important to establish a healthy relationship with your childrens friends. They wind up knowing your child better than you do." Way to go there Amanda. Make pedophiles more aware of who to get now. Keep your kids close, but keep your kids friends even closer. You are sick!

"I do believe I went clinically insane for a while. I was never diagnosed but if you ask my Mom and daughter they will concur with this self assessment." Another statement that you are clinically insane and really need mental help. Hey, just stating what you wrote word for word.

"I told my mother I was in no condition to look for work and interview. She told me that she could not support me forever but to take the time I needed to help her grand-daughter." So when did you start unemployment? How much money did you get while on unemployment? Did you know you just committed fraud and theft from the State of Illinois? I hope you have enough money to pay all that back and the jail time to serve.

"I was obsessed with the case; I called Seattle frequently. I morphed into the mother" Now you become a mother or a parent? You 'morphed'? What are you a caterpillar?

"I dictated everything with the case, I was the bully. I was going to make sure that the King County justice system did not let my daughter down and let him walk away." You really know the Justice System don't you. You are a bully, self-centered and admitted to FRAUD! Just stating EXACTLY what you wrote.

"I took on the case and my child went on with her life. If there was something pressing she had to know, I told her. Otherwise she went on with life and didnt have to worry about the case what-so-ever." So your daughter was doing much better since she told you AGAIN about what happened? You took this task on yourself and didn't let the court or 'King County justice system' do what they had to do and INVESTIGATE. You planned out your whole life around this. Your daughter was doing much better and handling the issue on her own. You did NOTHING to help her and her self esteem. Way to think of yourself and not her. Your mother should be so proud of you to be milking her for everything they own just for your own personal vendetta.

"for someone like myself who never EVER let a man help her do anything for her. He was basically my b***h, running errands, doing dishes, cleaning the house and going to the grocery store." You said it right here. He was your 'b***h'. You made him into the person YOU wanted him to be. So being a man wasn't go enough for you. You had to make him into a woman. So I guess you are the d**e in the relationship?

"I wish I would have paid attention to the first time he came to my house in Phoenix, he gave me the creeps." So which is it.. you were living in Chicago, Redmond, Phoenix, New Orleans, or Florida? But since you stated you moved BACK to Chicago, you must have lived in Chicago before Phoenix and then Redmond, then back to Chicago. Now you state on Rip-Off that you moved to Florida after Redmond with nothing. You can't tell a simply truth in your whole story, can you?

"I am a sexual abuse survivor so I am very skeptical of people as it is." So with that being said, who was YOUR abuser? Didn't mention that. Being skeptical... when did that play with Michael or did it at all?

"With him, I tried to tell myself not to be so judgmental. He made me uncomfortable" and this was BEFORE you moved to Redmond,WA? YOU put your own daughter at risk and should be held accountable for it. Hey just stating what you are stating back at you.

"she was having the unimaginable done to her, in her own house." It's NOT unimaginable if it already happened to you. Duh!!!!

"He took her to a concert, got back stage passes and was the fun adult to her. He found a way to relate to her as the non parent and for my daughter, it worked. Its basic psychology in my case, because what teenager, even if they are close to their parents, doesnt love people who agree with them?" Basic psychology? Are you an expert in that field? Do you have a degree in that field? Do you know more than the average person about psychology? You don't even have a college education, so how can you state it's 'basic psychology'? Go back to school you drop out!

"I had no way of knowing he could display any of the signs initially. But I am here to tell you, there are signs." There are aliens, as I am told. Do I believe them, sure why not. I makes this country colorful or freaks and weirdos. Until one comes from their mother ship to zap you away, then I don't believe.

"I knew people like him existed, I lived through it myself, but I didnt know what signs to look for." If you went through it yourself, then you would know the signs and what to expect. What a stupid idiot you are.

"I was alone in Washington, I was alone when I moved back to Chicago and I continued to be alone through the whole process until sentencing. Nobody came to my house to help me when I was losing my mind, nobody." Again you admit you need mental help. As for being alone, what happen to the friends you had when you were in high school? Oh yeah, they caught on to your fraud and scam ways of crying wolf. So they all DUMPED your fat butt to the curb. See how crying wolf to many times doesn't help in the end? You still don't get it do you?

"with the blessing of God" You don't believe in God. You never did and never will. When was the last time you went to a church to listen to prayer? NEVER! You go for death and weddings. That's all. You don't want to hear about it from others either. You tell them to shut up about it. So stop with the 'GOD' talk cause you DON'T BELIEVE!

"I have a good unit of friends around me now" No you don't. They all dropped you like taking a dump in the toilet. They all caught you red handed in your charity scam. You have NOBODY!

"I will forever be untrusting and suspicious." Yes you are forever untrusting!

"She is doing amazing; she is in college studying to be a child psychologist." Maybe she can shrink you and commit you to an insane asylum.

"As for me, I have formed a charity: The Innocent Children Foundation. My charity takes preventative measures to combat the issue by sharing our stories to raise awareness. I stress the importance that parents assume the full responsibility of knowing who pedophiles are, how they operate, who they target and having this discussion with their children on a regular basis." FRAUD charity! Get it straight. Preventative measures? Chastity belts, duct tape, child tracker devices implanted in their arms... what preventative measures?

"After a child reveals the sexual abuse they have endured we work with the childs therapist determining which of the programs I have formed will aid in their recovery." What are more knowledgeable then a psychologist pr psychiatrist now? Where is your degree in Human Studies, Psychology, Psychiatry, Medical Evaluations? You don't have any. You need mental help for yourself first.

"sign petitions that will aid in altering the laws that make like much too easy for sex offenders." Did you even proof read what you write? From this exact statement, you didn't. Go back to school and learn to proof read. Since this is PUBLISHED material, you really look like a child writing a story. Complete FICTIONAL!

"On my website there is a tab called Resource Center which has a plethora of educational material." If there is a 'plethora' of material on your so-called site, then why should anyone contact you for educational help? Dumbass!

"Though I do not suggest a parent who goes through this to do the same, but because of who I am and how I bounced back: I went to therapy for 6 months and opted not to spend years sitting in a therapists office talking about the feelings associated with surviving the ordeal in Seattle." You are stating you are 'Super Woman now and NOBODY else can endure the struggles you went through? What about all the people before you? Are you calling them out? You spent 6 months in therapy and felt it wasn't for you. So what you are doing is sending people to therapy so you can do what now... nothing? Talking in therapy about how this all started up to the current time is all about how a therapist can help. You are a waste of space, time, and air. You REALLY need a therapist.

"I am a person driven by results so I knew I could do a greater service to the public educating all of you and developing my charity. If I educate you and help kids who are suffering, I am doing a greater service to my community than sitting in a closed office." Results? Then why didn't you get results in Redmond,WA? You failed. You would rather educate people than to help them? Trust me, we ALL would rather see you behind bars in a 4x6 cell with NO access to the outside world!

"then were with me without so much as a shower or to even wash your hands." So what are you saying here?

"Suicide crossed my mind several times; I barely survived the journey I had to take to write this." So do it already! God, please help Amanda in her quest. For someone who says I 'publicly' announced my suicide attempts and then can't pin point any proof of it.. sure has a skeleton in her closet when she states "I NEVER thought of suicide and it sickens me deeply". Oh you have memory issues don't you? Schizophrenic complex is what you have dumbass.

"In the end, I just wanted to be my daughters mother again; like I was before you came in and pulled us apart." If you didn't spread your legs apart, he wouldn't still be in the picture. YOU alone allowed him to come into the picture. YOU allowed ALL this to happen. YOU alone are the one who should be held accountable for your daughter's issue. Think about it.

"I flew here today to assure Michael is incarcerated for a minimum of 24 months" That is how much your daughter is worth to you? Wow, talk about putting a price tag on your own kid.


In Summary, you caused your own problems and you allowed Michael into your life. After being a sexual victim yourself, you knew what the signs were and are. Now you set up a charity to 'help' other people that don't need or want your help. Cause all they are going to do is speak to a therapist anyways. What good can you do that they can't? Nothing! You are a FRAUD and just want peoples money to support your FRAUD habits. You don't want to work, don't want to further educate yourself, Falsely claiming you know more about human beings and psychology then a licensed psychologist. You committed fraud by filing a false unemployment application when you didn't have a job and were NOT even looking for one. You claim your parents were violent and unloving, but yet you state your parents are loving. Which is it? You have more stories the a skyscraper. Al Capone looks like an honest and law abiding citizen compared to you.
You SHOULD be ashamed of yourself. Using your daughter's past as a way of income for yourself. That is just plain stupid and NOT a parent. I hope "GOD" has a place for you and it won't be heaven.  Further more, for someone to tell people that suicide was NEVER in your thoughts, should reread what you wrote in your fictional story line. I do happen to have a heart for your daughter and wish her well on her recovery, but since she is doing 'amazing and studying child psychology', she seems to be doing way better then her fraudulent mother is. At least she will have the education to back up her theory. 

For the people who do read this post, Amanda enjoys commenting on posts and avoiding questions pertaining to her so-called not-for-pocket charity. She enjoys scamming people out of money, stealing from friends homes, wearing diapers, random drunkenness, ripping people off, putting her self in the position as a doctor of psychology (even though she doesn't have a degree in anything), committing fraud and short walks off long piers. For a good time, call someone else.

Amanda also enjoys pointing the finger in other peoples direction. Making non-sense words up. She prides herself on making herself the center of attention (even though she can't afford it). Sticking people with her high bar tabs. Taking money from children. Claiming she is someone even though she really isn't. Her biggest asset is lying to everyone (even her self). Besides her back side being big enough to wipe out a country, she still thinks she is beautiful inside and out. Thank GOD nobody wants to see the inside of her since nobody can stand to see the outside of her.

Am I being mean and cold-hearted? Yes I am. Why? Cause I can. Do I have problems with mental instability? Nope. I have just about everything under control. Have I made mistakes in my life? Yes I have. It's called learning.

This posting or forum is about letting the public know about fraud and scammers. We here decided to call Amanda and her fraud charity out and to provide proof that she and her so-called charity are operating withing the Charity Law spectrum. She has YET to provide proof and assurance of the proclaimed. YET she enjoys thinking of down grading people on here who would like to make public her fraudulent ways. Amanda has stated in this forum many times that she is NOT coming back to this site and forum to comment or reply. YET she still enjoys coming back to comment and down grade the people who would like to know the facts of her wrong doings. YET she still insists she has done nothing wrong and plays her childish ways upon us all. Fact is, what she is selling... nobody's buying anymore. The people who know her or once knew her, have parted ways with her and wished she would just move away or just simply go away. YET she stands her ground and tries to scam more innocent people out of money and claim it is ALL going to help innocent children.

According the the state law of Illinois and Federal law pertaining to Charities and Not-for-pocket charities... they must ALL post on a website financial records and make ALL bank transactions public knowledge since day one. Amanda has yet to provide ANY records of anything. This in case, shows she is breaking the state and Federal laws. She claims she is at the mercy of her web developer. YET she has NOT replaced that developer nor has she attempted to correct her own website to state this information. Amanda does NOT have an income of any kind EXCEPT taking money from a charity that she claims she is not taking from. She also claims she is entitled to an 80/20 income. Meaning she gets 80% of the money collected for "administration fees and her own personal salary". The 20 % goes to alcohol and diaper funding. She enjoys taking long flights to Washington to constantly harass an ex-lover who decided to have nothing to do with her. Sad fact if that is he chose Amanda's daughter who was a minor at the time. Shame shame on that guy.

Amanda claims she is a lover and not a fighter. Since she isn't a lover to anyone but a personal toy, I guess she must fight with her words of discontent to people who seek the truth. YET she isn't giving anyone the truth. A lie covers another lie with her. She also likes to threaten to sue people for just knowing her. If you don't agree with her, she will sue you. If you turn your back against her, she will sue you.

Amanda likes to make up stories to make her sound and look good. Fact is, there isn't enough dope in the world that everyone can take to make her sound and look good.

I WILL give her credit where it is due. Only problem, I can't find where I could give her credit. A thought is just that. Amanda put something that happen to her daughter to a thought and used it to her own personal advantage. Does her daughter benefit from this scam? No. Does Amanda benefit from this scam? Oh you better believe it. That is how she is living, WITH YOUR MONEY! Amanda is just ticked off at one person who violated her daughter, which is what I would be feeling as well. Only issue, Amanda wasn't the one victimized, it was her daughter. Amanda feels the hurt and pain as if she was the one. Problem I see, she wasn't the one.

Again, am I cold-hearted? Yes. In my life I had my ups and downs, and I am not talking about sex. When I was struggling, I didn't ask people for money... people offered it to me. It was up to me to either accept it or refuse it. Often I refused it unless they placed it someplace for me to find later. That is the kind of person I am. I have given to the homeless, given to the hungry, given to shelters, given to children, helped people rebuild their homes after they lost them because Mother Nature wanted them relocated. I have provided FREE services to them and to many within many states. I am not perfect, but I DO NOT SCAM PEOPLE! Amanda wants to point the finger at me to show how childish she really is. I allow it cause she has the mentality of a 5 year old and attention span of a 2 year old. I have helped the elderly, but never knew an elderly person of 41 years old who wears a diaper for NO MEDICAL reason what so ever. I have helped countless people on the side of the road either for vehicle repairs or because of a terrible accident. I was publicize numerous times in the county and local paper for helping and directing traffic so the emergency crews can attend the wounded. I have put aside my personal endeavors for those people who really needed the medical attention. I have seen a head cracked wide open and their brain full of blood because of an automobile accident. Most recently, I have witnessed a persons body sliced in half from a highway guard rail accident (wasn't something to write home about). I have seen a person burned from being electrocuted. I have seen hands and fingers cut off because of power equipment failures or operator errors. I have gone through my own emergencies as well. I have done personal dental work on my own teeth in extreme situations. 

Again, people don't fear me cause they see the real person inside me. I might have a mean and hard exterior, but when I want, I will show my other side to those people who actually are greatful. Amanda has NOT been greatful to any of her friends that have tried to help her do the right thing. Instead she gets drunk, gets behind the wheel and drives into a moving vehicle killing HER passenger. Lately, she likes to take her full diaper off and dump it in a garbage can NOT closed. Anyone who has a baby rolls the diaper up and closes it so the SMELL doesn't flow throughout the whole house. I guess Amanda needs someone to show her how it is done.

Another fact is Amanda never went on to further her education. She tried at nursing, but I guess stealing diapers was more her style. On the other hand, she has found a career at scamming and fraud. I don't know what school gave her a degree in that field. Even prisoners get an better education while in jail.
As for me, after high school I went on to become an ASE mechanic. Hey Amanda... ASE means: Automotive Service Excellence. If I was as dumb as you say I am, how could I PASS THE COURSE? Instead of a 14 weeks course I finished it in 8 weeks. Then I went on to get my Associates degree in Business Management. Took me 8 months to achieve it. Most people it takes 2 years. Um Amanda, it took me less than a year to get a 2 year degree. If I was so dumb, how could I have done that? After achieving my Associates degree, I went further on to my Bachelors degree in Criminal Science/Criminal Justice. Yes Amanda, that is 2 different degrees. Both require 4 years of education. I took them both and finished them both at the same time in 2 years. Hmmm, if my math was correct... that would be 8 years to take and finish both of them and I finished them BOTH in just 2 years TOGETHER. I guess I am still as dumb as you say I am then. You are right, I should have used up the 8 years to party like you and still not get a degree. I chose the other side of the pool and study to get further in life and my education.

So what am I doing now might you ask? I have my own business and also enrolled in my Masters degree in Forensic Science. Amanda, do you know what that is? IT'S A SCIENTIST THAT STUDIES HOW CRIMES ARE DONE AND TO FIND EVIDENCE TO CATCH THE CRIMINAL! I guess I can't be as dumb as you say I am cause I HAVE AN EDUCATION!

I really wish you would just shut the heck up, close down your fraud charity and move away. You think you have your grounds covered, you really don't. When you applied for a charity permit, you became an instant open book. The public can look into anything about you. You have to be made public. The more you hide things, the more a fraud you are. Better read the handbook about what you are supposed to do and throw away the handbook on what NOT to do.

Just for the record on here, Amanda... I pick my friends. The ones I pick, are here to stay. I don't have to buy them, lie to them, use them, abuse them. I help them, they help me. That's what friends do. Most of the time, I don't even need to ask.. they already know.

I remember when someone was so gung h*o about getting a tattoo. Once that tattoo gun was ready for you, you sat down and said "H**l to the NO" in such a high voice that anyone could hear your big mouth a block away. The rest of the people sat down, some to get their first tattoo, and quietly received one. You got so freaked out, you left. You ran out the door with a beer in your hand and drank it all and then another one, and another one. What was it you were going to get again? A name in Japanese writing? You couldn't even get a dot tattoo. Just the sound made you scream for more beer. That is the kind of person you are. Coward! You talk a big game, but in reality, you are a coward. When it comes to talk, that is all you are. Talk is cheap. Actions speak louder than words. So put your actions to use and show the PUBLIC THE PROOF! If you can't, then shut up! We are all tired of your mouth running. It's like diarrhea of the mouth with you.  You're one big joke. Prove US all wrong and publicly SHOW the proof for all these years. The one major problem with you showing the proof.. YOU CAN'T! Cause there isn't any to show.

So if you don't mind, you are clogging up my blog. So leave. Don't come back here until you can provide proof. We don't want to here your stupidity and outrageous lies everytime you get a reply bug up your rear. Just leave well enough alone and go to Florida so you can scam the elderly out of their Social Security benefits. You and Obama have something major in common. Both are liars, frauds, and like to take money and show nothing for it. Just stay out of here. You don't have any business being here to try and defend yourself. It's not working for you. Go lie in Florida. I hear Washington is looking for you. They have a 4x6 cell waiting for you all warmed up. At least you will get fed, and you can read in the library as much as you want.

Thank you Amanda for posting what you are. Glad you finally found a doctor to diagnose what your problem is. As for me and what you think I am... doesn't bother me.

You still avoid the obvious questions in these postings. You still haven't come to terms with what you are dealing with or even who you are dealing with.

You haven't denied anything, but state many things that don't pertain to the real question, "YOU and your false charity".  It's obviously clear to me and everyone else that reads this post, you are a fraud and liar. You can't keep a straight thought. You don't know right from wrong. You have no basis of your actions toward others. You really can't come to terms with the rest of the world. You lost all your close friends, even killed one.

All you can do is sound and act like a doctor who has NO medical experience diagnosing people. You are researching what psychosis people are instead of handling your own affairs. You constantly lie about who you are. You have stated numerous times in these postings that you are NOT coming back on here to post or reply back, but you do. YOU are addicted to me and can't resist to comment back. You have some sort of infatuation about me. I bet you fantasize about me when you are sleeping or even when you are awake. As long as I don't know about it, I guess that is your choice.

Word of advise, if you don't mind me putting my 2 cents in.. QUIT DRINKING! Call Dr. Finestein about your diaper wearing problem. Check yourself into a mental hospital and SEEK HELP! I bet with the right medications they can make you see and feel who you really are.

Amanda is just one big jealous freak that needs mental help and a big slap of reality.

Let's weigh out the differences:
Me: I am furthering my education and learning in LAW.
Amanda: Furthering her career as unemployed. Scamming innocent people and having a fraudulent charity.

Me: I have my own LEGIT business.
Amanda: Has her own Fraud Charity that is Not-For-Pocket Charity.

Me: I have a family and kids.
Amanda: Has a daughter, not married, no money, is a drunk, wears diapers at age 41 because she doesn't know how to use the toilet the right way. (The toilet is NOT for washing your self or your hair. Swirlies were from grade school, not adult status.)

Me: I work for a living
Amanda: Steals, cons, scams for a living

Me: I earn my money
Amanda: Rips off the charity to make a living

See there are MAJOR differences between us. I have a brain and use it well. You don't have a brain. If you did, you wouldn't be in this problem to begin with.

End of story and discussion. GO GET A REAL JOB AMANDA!

Dan Graiber is:


Schizophrenia

Schizophrenia is a complex mental disorder that makes it difficult to:


Tell the difference between real and unreal experiences

Think logically

Have normal emotional responses,

Behave normally in social situations


Causes, incidence, and risk factors
Schizophrenia is a complex illness. Mental health experts are not sure what causes it. However, genetic factors appear to play a role.


Certain environmental events may trigger schizophrenia in people who are genetically at risk for it.


Symptoms
Schizophrenia symptoms usually develop slowly over months or years. Sometimes you may have many symptoms, and at other times you may only have a few.People with any type of schizophrenia may have difficulty keeping friends and working. They may also have problems with anxiety, depression, and suicidal thoughts or behaviors. At first, you may have the following symptoms:


Irritable or tense feeling

Difficulty sleeping

Difficulty concentrating
As the illness continues, problems with thinking, emotions and behavior develop, including:


Lack of emotion (flat affect)

Strongly held beliefs that are not based in reality (delusions) -

Hearing or seeing things that are not there (hallucinations)

Problems paying attention

Thoughts "jump" between unrelated topics ( loose associations)

Bizarre behaviors

Social isolation
Symptoms can vary, depending on the type of schizophrenia you have.
Paranoid schizophrenia symptoms may include:


Anxious

Angry or argumentative

False believes that others are trying to harm you or your loved ones.
Disorganized schizophrenia symptoms may include:


Problems with thinking and expressing ideas clearly

Childlike behavior

Showing little emotion
Catatonic schizophrenia symptoms may include:


Lack of activity

Muscles and posture may be rigid

Grimaces or other odd expressions on the face

Does not respond much to other people

IS a better lay than Amanda.  Facts are Facts.

Hey Amanda, I found inner peace and it is solely directed to you. You think I am only focused on you and obsessed with
you. HA! You are the farthest thing from my mind. You constantly coming back here and commenting just shows you are a liar. You said numerous times, you don't want to come back to this site and you are NOT posting anything on here anymore. You can't refuse to. You are obsessed with me and Dan. You have a sick mind and just to let you know, I really don't
enjoy your lies and tantrums that you claim. As for me kicking and screaming about you... HA! I would rather cut off my middle finger and cry about that cause I can't stick it up and direct it at you. That would be bad on my part. As for your lectures and stories... they are boring and nonfactual. If you have connections to people who report back to you about what anyone says about you, you and those people must still be locked in a childhood mentality. In the current real world of TODAY, we say things in the open and express our thoughts. If you want me to talk behind your back, I can do that as well. But I would rather
let you hear it from me first. I don't need to hide or falsify information. I say what I need to and state it as such.

You don't seem to get it still.

You are at fault and many others, besides myself and Dan E. have caught you on it and proven it. You want to run your not for pocket charity that way you want, that is fine with everyone. Just involve people who donate money and items then turn around and show nothing of proof what was actually accepted and what was done with it. It's a simple math. I guess you didn't like math as a child and still don't. As for your Psyc 101 course... better retake that course cause many things have changed
as the days of the month go by. If anyone should know anything about Psych info is ME. When you get an education past a GED, let me know as well. I am way past that point in my life and have further educated myself to have a Masters degree. You can't ever say you have one for anything but Basket Weaving or Fraud and Scamming. On that degree, I applaud you. It still doesn't get you off the hook.



As for my time on here and to seek your endeavors out, I am only on this process when I need to. I have much more going on. This is 1 of many things I do. As for my work, that is none of your business since my work ethic and habits are of no concern to you or anyone for that matter. My family and I are doing very well, thank you.

I would rather be obsessed with a person who is loyal, trusting, honest,caring and has a working brain in their head. Which none of those qualities you have or will ever have. Maybe you should use some of that donation money to buy a brain and maybe you can figure things out for yourself. Wouldn't that be a change of pace for you? You can achieve so much more and so much more. But that will never happen. Not while you are still around here.

See you on July 31st!

Of all the agencies I have spoken to and met with the commonality is that they are all impressed with what I have created because this Charity and its programs did not exist prior to me creating it. 

What Dan Graiber and Dan Eppolito do is - speak in half truths.  They take the fact ICF organized for the family to get beds and then turn the story around to suit their needs. They have done this throughout the long trail of slander on this site. Dan and Dan appear to be obsessed with me and my organization for reasons unknown to me.  If I may so suggest to said individuals, you may want to read some business books on Charities and how they operate and what is and is not acceptable business practices. It will help you understand things better because I see you do not quite yet get it.

Charities are allowed to allocate a percentage of the money they raise and use it for salary; ICF is an 80/20 Charity and we are set up as such with the Internal Revenue Service. IRS rules simply state that nonprofit CEOs should receive 'reasonable compensation.' Just like the for-profit sector, salaries at nonprofits differ based on the part of the country in which the entity is located. In addition to that, my salary will be calculated based on the operating budget and then re-evaluated as needed.  Have I been paid a salary?  No.  Will I receive a salary at some point, yes.  Leading a charity is one thing but I FOUNDED Innocent Children Foundation AND I LEAD IT.  Dan and Dan, you could never understand the amount of work and time it has taken to get this Charity off the ground but aside from the small group of nay-sayers you have - I have a legion of people who understand the process and not only commend me for my efforts but are grateful I am here to help children at their facilities. They enjoy working with me and appreciate what I have done and will do.
As for suggesting that people GAVE ME the school supplies, well that is absolutely ridiculous. I have receipts for those purchases.

Talking about what my thoughts and opinions on sex are is utterly appalling and vile. You have no idea the men I may or may not be talking to.  You have no idea if I am or am not in a relationship with a man and you would posses ZERO knowledge of not only my life, my Charity but you most certainly have NO CLUE about what my sexual activities are and I think the fact you commented on them is atrocious.  To discuss something like that is deplorable but you make it very easy for people to see your sinister side and that you cannot be trusted or believed. Normal people do not talk that way but you, you have no qualms with slandering a person who never hurt you. You dont care about the children I help you dont want sexually abused children to get the help they need and why that is I have no earthly idea.

Your campaign to destroy ICF and myself will never get off the ground because I have done nothing wrong.  Neither you nor your slanderous lies will ever stop me from helping children and/or following through with my business plans and I think you should just come to terms with the fact you will not stop me from helping these kids.  I have MANY projects in the pipeline to combat child sex assault as well as help the battered children heal and I wont let the repeated attacks from you and your diminutive army of 10 stall the development of ICF.

As for the comment: The charity don't have it own account and she will not post any of the money or where it all has gone.

While I had to read it a few times to determine what you meant since I was caught off guard by the childlike sentence structure, the Charity DOES have an account and I have been working with my web designer to get the annual report uploaded.  He has been subjected to your continued harassment and I think he needs a few days to decompress from all of your repeated attacks. Fact: He wants nothing to do with you and despite never answering your emails - you keep contacting him. Fact: That is harassment.

Fact: A lot of people tell me the things you say.  Fact: They are disgusted by each of you and have told me not to waste my time responding to any of your outlandish claims however, if you are going to talk about me I am GOING to set the record straight.  Fact: I said it before and I will say it again, I have done nothing wrong - I have nothing to hide and as I sit and shake my head at your eccentric slanderous comments toward me I feel very sorry for both of you because in the end you two will have to come to terms with losing this wasted battle against me and my commendable organization.

In regards to the pictures on the website I have been working on altering the look of the website for some time now - long before you harassed me and my web designer. What we have now is battered children and I prefer images of happy and healthy children on the website.  I want to be clear on that because I have waivers from both parents and am allowed to use the photos but since I am going for a different look different photos are essential. Change is acceptable and critical at times, especially with the program cuts I made and the direction we are now going in - the photos on the website no longer work for us.

I find it unusual that you are telling another to grow up. All of your posts are packed with anger, name calling, slander, false accusations and pure fiction. You even attacked my daughter, someone of whom you do not know and never met. You talked about me someone you do not know anything about and my daughters offender, again someone of whom you do not know and never met. I may say many things about her offender but one thing I know for certain is that person would never EVER associate with the likes of you and your friends. If there is anyone that needs to act his age it would be the people who created this page (and many other sites that I am aware of). You lurk and post with such frequency it leaves little room for debate to wonder what you actually have going on in your lives besides have your every single thought consumed of me. Fact: You seem to have nothing of any significance to engage in but to consistently obsess over me.  Fact: Mature adults dont talk OR act the way you do.  

Fact: My friends, the plethora of them that are around the world, and clients I assist know who I am and what I am made of.  Fact: How you feel about me and your wild accusations of me and my acts are laughable at best. Fact: You may get 10 people to listen to you and what you say but in the end, lack of knowledge is what keeps them from reaching out to me personally as I have welcomed countless times.

The reality of the situation is a not-for-profit is no different than any other NFP or FP out there.  Every single business in the world is subject to public opinion and Fact: Anyone can post whatever they want on this site (and countless others) without any proof of wrong doing. Fact: You have no base for your claims.  You are ranting and raving utter nonsense and please - dont think for a moment people dont see through your lies. People who talk the way you do, do so because they lack the rationale of anything else to say.  People who speak of others in a harsh tongue do so because they project outward how they feel about themselves, its basic Psych 101. I accept that not everyone will like the way I do things - that is just business - and I most certainly do not take anything you say personally - I know the truth and wont have any trouble proving ICF and I are legitimate.

As for coming to DeKalb I told you I would introduce you to the staff where ICF assists kids since you seem to be under some wild illusion that I have not helped any children.  Its not my problem you dont want to see the proof and prefer to post on this page because you have no real desire to be proven wrong you just want to kick and scream about me. You dont like me well, I dont like you either. Anything that comes out of your mouth is nothing more than irrational tirades tirades you have been displaying for many years on countless other persons it is just that I am your present obsession.

Bottom line all this is, is a means in which you can still have contact with me.  You love to fight with other people, you have made that part of your lifestyle, its who you are and who you will always be and everyone knows this about you. I notice when I dont visit the site and/or post you get more angry that I didnt leave a message and then you repeat prior posts of total fiction and then dream up more stories to fuel your nonsense.  I think you should let me go; I made it clear last year I wanted nothing to do with you.  I know its difficult when someone tells you they dont want to be your friend but I would have hoped you would have come to terms with it by now.
Obsession by definition is:

obsession
1. The state of being obsessed with someone or something.
2. An idea or thought that continually preoccupies or intrudes on a person's mind
 
Harass by definition is:

harass
1. To irritate or torment persistently.
2. To wear out; exhaust.
3. To impede and exhaust (an enemy) by repeated attacks or raids
 
You both fit the bill on the above to a T.

I know this post is going to anger you to know end but thats only because you know I am right - otherwise, you would stop posting.  Fact: You are both obsessed and you cannot stop thinking of me.  Fact: You want to talk about me and speak your fantasy stories to the few people who read this garbage in an effort to focus SOLELY ON ME. Fact: You love it when I respond because it provides you with the opportunity where you can focus SOLELY ON ME. Fact: I hope you can find some peace in your hearts; all that anger is not good for your health.

Amanda gets everything donated to her. She pays for
nothing that she claims goes to the children, or so-called, children she
helps. She helps herself to the money. She has NO INCOME except the
donations that come in from unsuspecting people. That is why everyone
has to share this with other people. The more people that know, the far
better off people will be aware of frauds like Amanda.

Amanda is one sick individual. She thinks dogs mating, or trying to, is
gross and she vomits at the sight of it. Ummm, let's see..... it's
called Animal instinct. They do it cause they can and that is what is in
their habit. People have sex right? Amanda doesn't. Amanda is grossed
at the sight and sound or anything relating to sex. I don't know of
anyone on this planet that would screw a person while wearing a diaper.
Do you? Who would want to be with someone that is 41 years old that
can't use the bathroom? Does anyone want to have a relationship with
someone who doesn't use the bathroom on a normal basis, besides going in
a diaper for no medical reason? I certainly don't.

Amanda backs into other peoples cars, damages them and doesn't tell them
about it. But her car sure shows the proof. Is this the kind of person
the public wants to be HONEST with them about where their money is going
or how it is being used? I certainly don't. The Government rips every
tax payer off already. Families are going hungry, going homeless,
medical attention is cut, clothing on their backs are in shreds. I would
rather give money to people who NEED it rather than trust Amanda with a
penny of MY money and claim it's going to children. I would rather give
it to a homeless person when I know the money is going to booze. I know
that. With Amanda and her fraud charity, NOBODY knows where any money
is going to and how it is being used. Nothing is posted, as pertaining
to the LAW. NOTHING is documented, as pertaining to the LAW. She states a
few times that ANYONE is more than willing to see the proof IF they are
nice about asking and drive all the way out to DeKalb. Umm, why should
anyone drive to DeKalb for anything just to see more made up lies? I
work hard for my money to put gas in my vehicle. I work hard to put food
on my table to feed my family. I work hard to keep a roof over my head.
What does Amanda do? The million dollar question of the blog... What
does Amanda do with all the donations? Simple answer... Spend it on
herself.



Spread the word and the site. Let the public get complete knowledge of
her fraud and scamming ways. Let them see for themselves that Amanda
rips people off and has NOTHING to show for it in return. "I am at the
mercy of my web developer. He doesn't reply back to me." I suggest she
fine a new developer and start posting past, present and future earnings
and spending. Amanda is already in the investigation hot seat. Taking
money from a friends fund raiser that was supposed to help pay for
medical bills? Who does this kind of thing? Amanda, that's who!



I hope God has mercy on you Amanda. I hope he puts you in a place where
you can't do any harm to anyone again. I hear Alaska needs help raising
funds to save the Earth, the whales, and the oil drilling. Maybe you can
raising lots of money and then pocket it so nobody gets the help again.
After Illinois, what state will you be cheating on next? Washington?
Florida? Louisiana? Texas? Seems no state wants you around. Maybe South
America would have you. Hey, try Cuba. I hear they are still trying to
find ways to smuggle cocaine into the United States. You can help them
with your diaper. They are also building submarines to aid in that
adventure. You don't need a sub, you wear one. Cavity search before you
get on a plane? Heck no. Nobody would touch that body even the TSA would
let you slither through. There isn't a changing table that Koala makes
big enough to support you. Are you still bottle fed? Oh that's right,
Bud Light bottle feeds you. Grow the heck up. You need help and there
isn't anyone around to help you. I bet Michael North is jumping on the
"Ban Amanda" band wagon. What he did was wrong in so many ways. What you
are doing wrong is just as painful. You are raping US! You are raping
the children that could benefit from those donations. You are the thief,
liar, cheat, cold-hearted, scammer, fraud, worthless pile of whale
droppings in the bottom of the ocean. The Titanic has more glory than
you every will. AND she sank on her maiden voyage. Just give up already.
Move a great distance away. Don't open shop ever again. We all know the
truth behind you and nobody is enjoying the full diaper view of your
waste. Grow up!

You all are getting way passed the point here.We all are trying to close down this charity. We all want the lies about this charity to get her shut down so she can't spend any more money. People have given her the beds she didn't buy them. People gave her school supplies she didn't buy them. The charity don't have it own account and she will not post any of the money or where it all has gone. Just her own spending on her shelf. She did get unemployment and now it has stopped how is spending money every weekend or all week for food? If she wants to drink let her till she can't walk (we all have seen this). If she wants to fall off her chair and knock over friends to the ground and could have hurt them badly let her. Stop the BS and get it shut down and have pay for what she has done.

To clarify the night in question a little clearer. I was in Elk Grove that evening and was hoping to pick up my GT mountain bike from the house in question. I had a smoke with the person in question and chatted for 3 mins, walked a block away, only to realize that "oops! I forgot to grab my bike!" Then upon coming back, I was cut off at the pass by you and as I can recall, you pushed me, grabbed my phone out of my hands as I threatened you to call the police on you, you threw my phone, which smashed into a million pieces by the way, then you squeezed my temples with such force, thus putting fingernail marks on both sides of my temple.
(I have pictures to prove this) then all of a sudden the Police show up. Subsequently, I didn't ever get my GT mountain bike back that evening as I had intended to begin with. You had a vendetta against me the 2nd or 3rd time I met you because I hinted at your use of the funds. You were out to get me ever since.. Again, I don't hold grudges, nor do I hate. I hope you are doing well, and are making the most of your God given time. Bless. 
D.E.

After reading Amanda's reply to Eppolito's comment, I am crying (no, I don't have the guilt trip to cry).

As for making an appointment to see receipts that should be public view? I don't need to make an appointment to see them and waste my gas to drive out to DeKalb. Are you going to give me money for gas? Nope, you don't have it or will you just take it out of the charity money.

As for your parents health.. they have been ill for some time now. Can't put the blame or guilt trip on anyone for that.

As for the slander and claims everyone has made against you... show me in OUR 1st Amendment Rights where we can not publicly state your lies and thievery? Our Amendment rights are there for a reason.

 I suggest you submit those so-called money receipts to show how much money comes in and how much goes out. That IS supposed to be posted on your charity website as instructed.

Fearing me and/or Eppolito? You are just plain NUTS! Oh by the way, I imposed negative energy out to you when ever I can, which is most of the time. You only channel positive energy in good ways... I can't stop laughing you stupid ignorant fudge monkey.

On another note, hows the house your living in? Foreclosed yet? Hmmmm, better check that status on when you have to be out by. Where you going to go? Can't come back to Elk Grove Village at your normal hangout cause NOBODY WANTS YOU HERE!

As for my kids, they are shy and quiet aren't they? I taught them to stay away from back stabbing losers like yourself. They know trouble when they see it. That is why they come to me for help. They are certainly not afraid of me and neither is my wife or anyone else that is around me. People that truly know me, know I do what I say and protect the ones that I love. As for you... none of us Elk Grove folks want you around nor do we need you in any of our lives.

Until you shut down this fraud charity and move out of this state, we WON'T LEAVE THIS MATTER ALONE.

Hey jack monkey, Des Plaines is not me cause everytime I log into this site, my info comes up. So if you think it's me, then you are sadly wrong. It's not my wife either. Keep thinking stupid moron.

"If I have to come back on here to clarify myself, I will since you like to hide behind a computer". Well Amanda "Jack Monkey" Parisi, I am not afraid of you or your monkey business. When I hear your voice, I want to clean my ears and play loud music. Your voice is like nails on a black board. Very annoying.

As the state and federal guidelines have publicly posted about not-for-profit charities, YOU MUST post financials and expenses. Look it up stupid. As for what you think of me and describe me, thank you. I take everything you say like dirt under my shoes. Easily wiped off. You don't impress me and you don't impress anyone else. WE ALL know you are a scammer, thief, mentally disturbed, and obviously a compulsive liar. You don't pull an income from the charity? Oh but you do make your 20%, but pull an income from the charity. You sound like a broken record that needs to be thrown away. "I used my unemployment benefits to start the charity". You stated earlier that YOU NEVER RECEIVED UNEMPLOYMENT. Again with the lies. If anyone should read the previous posts, it should be YOU. You have no idea what you are saying anymore. You lie about a lie.

"I haven't done anything wrong". Ummm, do you hear yourself? Probably not cause donors money is on the forefront of your mind and coming up with new ways of scamming and committing more fraud. Keep up the good work Amanda "Jack Monkey" Parisi.

Hey, by the way, have your so-called volunteers stop calling me asking me for a donation. As I told them over and over again, I will NOT donate any money or goods to you or your charity as the charity is a fraud. Enjoy your rally on the 31st. I hope you go out with a bang!

I didn't read much of your lengthy post, no offense.  I saw the closing and while I question your sincerity I like to see the best in people and I hope that you meant what you said about being done with attacking me. 

I am not that whistleblower person.  I said it once and I will say one last time - I would self identify as opposed to posting anonymously or posing as someone else.  Your campaign against me that you and Graiber have facilitated really is sad.  All you two are doing is hurting sexually abused children and my ability to help them through their pain and that, more than anything, hurts more than the mean and untrue things you both you said about me and my organization.

I didn't accuse you or Graiber of child porn abuse.  I will say this, I have my opinions of both of you for the way you talked about me and most certainly how Graiber talked about my daughter and twisted her case and abuse. What she endured was horriffic and for someone like Graiber, who has children, to talk that way about a child is absolutely deplorable. I had my daughter read what he wrote as did her Father and they both said it was disgusting someone would talk that way about a child and their sexual abuse.

I can appreciate that you are offended by being called a pedophile and to then say "The false accusations need to stop now".  I have asked both of you and whomever else to stop slandering me and you refused.  You said lie after lie about me and even said when the court thing was over you were going to come gunning for me.  Now you want to put and end to all this, something you started - suddenly you have miraculously released all anger you had for me and now want to put it in the past?  I can forgive you for things but I will never forget and I will always be in fear of you and what you may or may not do - Graiber too.  Do you think it's funny that I am afraid of both of you?  It's not funny.  Why would you want someone to fear you?  That's not a compliment, that's an insult of character.  People should not be afraid of you but I am and I willingly admit it - you and Graiber terrify me!  You have both threatend to harm me physically - of course I am afraid I am not the fighting kind.  You have made a career of terrorizing me for over a year now, the damage is done Eppolito.  You and Graiber cannot take back anything you said - you both made up lies about me and plastered them all over the internet.  So cruel of both of you to do to another human being. So, while I can somewhat sympathize with your wish for people to stop slandering you, forgive me for being more concerned with my safety, name and reputation and unconcerned with anything others say and accuse you or Graiber of being or doing.

As for Graiber, he has two kids that I know of, I don't know of another child and the two he has with his wife were sweet children.  Shy, quiet.... adorable.  I don't know enough about either of you to ever comment like the whistleblower has.  I don't know those things about either of you. 

All of this needs to stop.  It is affecting my health and even my Mother's health. My step dad even collapsed from the agony of what is being said about me.  You see, actions have a chain reaction and all these lies hurt my feelings but I know they are untrue and will be easily dismissed so I am not stressing over what is said.  However, I am deeply disturbed by the threats made against me.  I am deeply disturbed by how my daughter was discussed and I am deeply disturbed by the fact none of you seem to have any remorse for this deplorable behavior.  I would never do to you (or anyone else) what you have done to me.  I don't even think about or discuss any of you.  I moved on with my life and put out positive energy and I have no idea why there is such a fixation on me and what I do.  You don't like me?  That's your choice.  Do I care, not really.  I have countless friends all over the world.  It's childish and outlandish that grown adults would carry on this way.

If you think I am doing something wrong report me - let them do their research and that's it.  Carrying on and posting old photos of me and making up lies is just disgusting. I really don't have anything else to say.  If anyone wants to see documents call me and make an appointment otherwise be quiet.

Amanda, if you haven't worked in over 2 years, I am curious to know and continue to wonder how you support yourself if you have no income and ALL of the charity money goes to kid's who need it?

Response: I used my unemployment to get the Charity going and to live. 

You DO use the charity money to support yourself. Any idiot can figure that out! 

Response: To use your vernacular, an idiot falsely accuses and slanders so I guess you called yourself out on that one. I don't use the charity money to support myself BUT I am legally allowed to take 20% of the money raised for a salary but I have not as of yet. I have not had a salary yet but one day I will.

Mr. Daniel Graiber, a well respected individual amongst his peers and many others, was absolutely correct when he said those Easter baskets were donated.

Response: I can only assume Mr. Daniel Graiber posted this because when people talk about him they don't use words like well respected.  I have heard dead beat dad, nut job and psycho (to name a few) used when describing him, never once did I ever hear "well respected" and his name in the same sentence. I have my own opinions re: his personality and moral indignity but I am a lady and will keep those opinions to myself.   What easter baskets?  Who said anything about Easter baskets? I sure didn't.  Those baskets were for the family that went to Coco Keys. All items were purchased, nothing was donated and I have all the receipts. They are all worth more than $10.00. 

Or did the money go to plane tickets, makeovers, etc?

Response: (laughs) No.  I never used Charity money on a plane tickets or a makeover and I explained this earlier.  Try reading the posts in their entirety from now on. 

It has become very clear that something is amiss with you and your charity. I would like to see some itemized financial records that reflect where at least 500 dollars went. We know you made a lot more. We want PROOF that your charity is legit.

Response: Sure.  Call me so we can schedule a time for me to show you what you want to see. Would you like to come to DeKalb and meet the staff at the agency where I have helped children also because I would be more than willing to introduce you and then at that time show you receipts.  All you have to do is call me and schedule an appointment.

Sooner or later the proper authorities will ask the same thing. I heard that there are people working on exposing you. Someone has to!

Response: You say this like I am supposed to worry.  I fear nothing as I have done no wrong.  Authorities can ask me anything they want and I will answer and show them anything as I stated many times before - I HAVE NOTHING TO HIDE.  Not one agent or officer has contacted me or asked me to show them anything but if and when they do, they will state what I have stated countless times, everything is legit.

Now, people keep calling me to tell me about these posts and how I shouldn't listen because you are all crazy but now I feel strongly I have said everything I needed to say and responded to what I needed to respond to. It would be to your benefit to stop all the slander and reach out to me personally as I have extended the invitation many times. 

I don't want to have to come back here and explain but if I do it's only because you were too scared to contact me myself and made the choice to hide behind a computer.  You have my number, Graiber was kind enough to post it all over several sites and if you come to me in kindness I welcome the call.

Best,
Amanda K. Parisi

Amanda, if you haven't worked in over 2 years, I am curious to know and continue to wonder how you support yourself if you have no income and ALL of the charity money goes to kid's who need it?
To me, as well as MANY, MANY other people, it's a "No-Brainer."
You DO use the charity money to support yourself. Any idiot can figure that out! 
The price of gas is astronomical nowadays. How can you afford it?? Charity money? Hmmm, very strange.
Very shady. Mr. Daniel Graiber, a well respected individual amongst his peers and many others, was absolutely correct when he said those Easter baskets were donated. You didn't pay a red cent for those. Besides, they are worth 10 dollars or less. Do you mean to tell us that ALL of the thousands of dollars you have made from the charity went to Easter baskets?! Or did the money go to plane tickets, makeovers, etc? It has become very clear that something is amiss with you and your charity. I would like to see some itemized financial records that reflect where at least 500 dollars went. We know you made a lot more.
We want PROOF that your charity is legit. Having a 501c rating or whatever doesn't mean that is proof that all the money went to where it was supposed to. In fact, misusing funds WHILE you hold that 501c rating or whatever it is, is completely Illegal! Just a factual observation. Show us proof. That's all we ask. Is it too much to ask for? Sooner or later the proper authorities will ask the same thing. I heard that there are people working on exposing you. Someone has to!

To accuse myself and Dan Graiber of possessing "child-porn" is borderline illegal and slanderous.
Also statistics say that people who accuse other people of outlandish acts are guilty of that act themselves. 
Accusing someone of that is not only a personal attack, but a cause for concern. The false accusations need to stop now. I myself never took it that far with you and I would appreciate if you would reciprocate in kind.
There is no need to make those kind of false accusations against anyone. All of these posts are subject to review by the proper authorities.

You come here saying I continually harass you? That accusation couldn't be any further from the facts and the truth. In what way have I harassed you? Do I call you? Do I know where you live? I don't. 
I have no desire to. As for saying that I wasn't brought up "right" is ridiculous. What do you know about me? I hardly know you from Adam, and you seem to know a great deal about me. If anyone is being harassed, it is ME. I'm almost afraid of what you will do with all of this half-truth information. Also I wasn't charged with a "controlled substance" I had no substances on me, I did however have a dug-out box that was empty. The charge was "possession of paraphernalia." The night in question on when you pressed charges on me after you attacked me 1st, was a travesty of justice. Just like the Casey Anthony case. Our justice system needs an overhaul, or an enema, or both. I have no room in my heart for "hate". I WAS brought up right and lived in a well structured, loving environment. My father is an Ex-Marine and a was a Jazz musician playing the drums. He also can be heard on various Tv and radio commercials and had a Jazz show on WNUA several years ago. He is retired now. God bless him, he just beat Bladder Cancer in these past couple of weeks. No Chemo. They used a new treatment that injected the Tuberculosis germ into his bladder once a week for 4 weeks to kill the Cancer, and all of our Prayers were answered as he just found out last week after his biopsy that he is now Cancer-Free! My Mother is a strong and wonderful woman who is an entrepreneur. She has owned her own Research and Recruiting firm for the last 30 years. She is well to do and a very kind and loving woman and has gainfully employed my Sister Gia for the past 20 years. They run a very successful company and have multi-million dollar corporations as their clients. Companies such as Parson's Brinkerhoff, Sears Corporate. Various cities and towns that have needed help recruiting candidates to fill positions such as a Bridge Inspector. Structural Engineers. My sister is the best sister that one could ever have. She is a very kind person and has 2 awesome kid's who I am proud to call my Nephew and Niece. Janie who's 3 and Nathan who's 7. My nephew Nathan has Broad Spectrum Autism. Needless to say it is an everyday challenge for my Sister, sometimes I think she's Superwoman as it's hard to fathom how she juggles all of these tasks she has bestowed upon her. She and I are also an active volunteers for N.I.C.A.- The Northern Illinois Center for Autism. We have done many fundraisers for this necessary charity such as "Rock for Autism." 
Lake in the Hills Rib fest this past weekend I set up chairs and the booth that N.I.C.A. used to reach out to folks that have an Autistic child or know someone who does. Believe it or not, 1 in 110 children have Autism. A study at Yale University revealed that a shocking 1 in 38 children may have Autism. Many more have not been diagnosed yet and the numbers could be even greater. I as well as my Mother and Sister are also active volunteers for Little Brothers of the Poor, Friends of the Elderly. Just this past Easter we were assigned to pick up 3 older folks and take them to St. Michaels church in Chicago for an Easter brunch and take them back to their respective homes afterword. We also serve the meals to them. So often, many Senior Citizens have no living relatives. Or they have been shunned by their families and left to be alone. I strike up some great conversations with these wonderful people. It is a very rewarding feeling to know that you brightened up someone's day! :-) 
I have a wonderful career with a well respected Plumbing, Electrical and HVAC company. 
I have a degree in HVAC incidentally. Coming out of the Holiday Inn, I got tired of burning my arms on piping hot boiler units in the hotel. Cutting my fingers all the time. Constantly ruining countless dress pants that I had to wear. I decided to move back into the office and a desk job. I love it!
I make more than I did as an Engineer! I have been blessed with such a golden opportunity and I have already impressed them with my skills. I'm a d**n good CSR/Dispatcher! 

To wrap up this post I would like to say let's bury the hatchet, so to speak. As I said, there is no room for "hate" in my heart and I hate no one. It's unfortunate that we're all carrying on like this. the time has come to put in our final opinions, and leave this subject alone as well as go on with our lives in the way we do. I have been blessed and am reaching for the stars. I have an awesome son and he is my best friend. 
If you don't know peoples family, please don't subject them to ridicule. My Mother and Father were great parents, and I have many, many great memories of the "old days" and cherish those wonderful memories.
We did a lot of things and did a lot of traveling as a family for vacation. Kinda like the Griswolds! ;-)
Again, I don't hate you Amanda, and I wish you well as I don't wish any negativity upon you or anyone else for that matter. Let by-gones-be-by-gones for it is all Water under the Bridge now. Please consider that as the negative energies are not needed by you, myself or Dan Graiber. I am done with this now, and have to go to bed now because my alarms set for 6:16am. I apologize for any typo's that may or may not have occured! Lol -> Take care everyone. -> Peace. :-)

Amanda says "They aren't real." But then in the comment box she says "They are real". I am confused. Are they or aren't they? I can make those as well for my mother or for anyone for that matter. I would rather use items that would make people feel good for much more longer than a few minutes. Sugar rush is just a temporary fix. Anyone dumb enough can fix a child and make them feel good with sugar. Maybe try NOT using sugar items and a HOTEL! Hotels are the most common place for rape cases. That is also where hookers and prostitutes hang out. I guess Amanda knows more about hotels then anyone. She certainly doesn't use hotels for that same purpose though. Let me guess she uses hotels for rest, watching tv, taking a shower and downing a case of Bud Light. Nasty! Kids like stuffed animals, don't they? Why not change the sugar to a stuffed animal? Same FREE cost...

Hey, I bet the donors money is on the forefront of your mind. If it wasn't for that money, you certainly wouldn't be in this situation. Now would you????

Makes me wonder???

Proof is in the pictures as you stated!

Thank you "You are Wrong Amanda", whom ever you are. Very well said and to the point of what ALL these posts are about. Amanda STILL has NOT proven with PROOF that ANY funds coming in goes to the charity or expenses for any child or child's family.

On another note... Wouldn't the FIRST item to be tossed away after a rape in a bed would be the bed? Sleeping on that same bed for 2 years, as Amanda Parisi stated, is just gross and wrong.
Fact is that this case all started in Redmond, WA which is at the North-Western point of the USA. Then she states she moved with NOTHING from there and ended up in Florida in 2007. It took many years to get around 2,000 miles in a vehicle. Hard to believe. Then once in Florida in 2007, the bed was disposed of. Wouldn't you dispose of the bed back in Washington? I would or it would be a waste just to bring it all that distance. But why would you bring it KNOWING it was a "BAD" bed to begin with? Why would you want to bring it? If you were sleeping in hotels and the car all the way to Florida, why would you need a bed to bring? Just getting up and moving with NOTHING means just that, NOTHING!

From what Amanda has posted on her facebook page, she calls New Orleans, LA as "Home". Other known as "NOLA". Then she states Florida is "Home" and there is no place better than Florida. Let's look back on Amanda's past a little...
She was raised in Elk Grove Village, IL... from there she bounced around from state to state. Ended back in Illinois. Then she moved to Redmond, WA. A horrible situation happen there. She left there with nothing but the mattress that was a crime scene. Then found her way a few years later in Florida 2007. Then in New Orleans, LA then Tennessee, then Texas, then managed to come BACK to Illinois.
Now after this so-called "Reason to Ride- Promising Rachel" charity fraud raising scam ride on July 31, 2011 at Wild Fire Harley Davidson in Villa Park, IL... she plans on MOVING yet AGAIN to Florida with the money raised. Besides all that, she states here daughter was raised right and has a good head on her shoulders. She is moving out in a little while to live on her own. I take it she will be living in one of the 50 states, but probably in Illinois, or Florida, or New Orleans, or Texas, but certainly NOT Washington. I wish her well and best of luck. If Amanda taught her anything, I hope she forgets it all and learns the right way from experience and what OTHERS have done.

If you want to see what a LEGIT, LEGAL and ACTIVE Not-For-Profit Charity is like and how they run things and post things... check out: www.cachouston.org The Children's Assessment Center based out of Texas. Check their postings: www.charitynavigator.org/index.cfm?bay=search.summary&orgid=6589

They have what the state and Federal LAW REQUIRES. They even have a branch office in ILLINOIS! Now that is a respectful charity.
What does Amanda have? NOTHING! She does have a website and a few click links, but where's the financials? Where's the links for further info? The contacts on her website are outdated and those people DON'T WORK for or are even associated with Amanda and her fraud charity. Where's the update of contacts? Ummm, "I am still at the mercy of my wed designer". Bull Shnikes!

Before I donate to Amanda, I would rather give my wallet to a homeless person. At least I know the money will go to alcohol, maybe food, maybe a hotel room so he/she can take a shower, maybe for drugs... but at least I know where the money could possibly go to.

With donating to Amanda and her scandalous charity... NOBODY knows where a single penny has gone or will go. Are there any reports or records of a penny issued to anyone? NOPE.
Isn't it TRUE that most, if not ALL, items you give to people DONATED by people or stores? So where is the cost to you? There isn't any cost.

Amanda has NO proof that any money is going any place but her alcohol problem, her wallet, plane tickets to go away until the heat is off, fast food, her Child Porn site that she constantly monitors, and can't forget this one.. KEEPING THE FIGHT TO MICHAEL NORTH BACK IN REDMOND, WA.

Her main focus is to slaughter Michael North and his family. Amanda's only goal is to make a living off other people for showing of NOTHING! Leave Michael alone. Leave the State of Illinois. Stop scamming. Stop DRINKING! Stop with the LIES! Most importantly, move to another country.  

OK Amanda, you want to play your games...then here we go.

1. The battery charge you tried to get from Eppolito was pleaded on a lesser charge, not because you are a good person, but because everyone you called in as a witness did not prove your side of the story. You made up lies that no one was able to corroborate.

2. Next, according to previous posts about this Kim Mermitt person. I don't know her, but from what I gather, she is just a by choice single mother that cannot commit to any job and is on IL public aid for her kids that she continually has but cannot support on her own. Unless she was sexually abused and is a child or her children are/were sexually abused, you charity has no responsibility to help her.

Here is the reason I am saying this. I am well versed in all of these individuals showing concern against the fraudulent practices of your charity. I was sexually abused by three (3) men as a child. And as I was too afraid to come forward as a child, I recently did now as an adult. To any child who is sexually abused when the abuser is known to the child or is a figure of authority to the child and threatens the child, which normally occurs, especially when the abuse is repeated over and over, that child is horrified for their lives and possibly others in their family. That is why victims of child abuse do not come forward. These victims are also ashamed, belittled, and in some way they are used as pieces of garbage. They feel worthless. Now the individual that I told of my abuse had gone to you for help or referrals of some kind and YOU flat out told this person that MY charity does not help adults or families of victims. There were witnesses. Now, when children are sexually abused, aren't the families affected by this horrible crime as well? If you have done your research and as YOU stated in a previous rebuttal that you yourself was recovering or have recovered from your own abuse, would know this.

3. As far as you stating that you distanced yourself from both Dans, and the friends you associated with when they started informing the public of your scams, that is a flat out lie. Isn't the ex-girlfriend of one of the Dan's supposedly one of your best friends? Were you not just told not less than a month ago to get out of her house and you were no longer welcome there? Every time there was a party or a get together, either at a bar or elsewhere, you did not pay your own way. I personally saw this. You offered to pay for a said friends party. When you only gave a tiny amount of supplies, you stated that you couldn't get anymore because there was no more money on the charities credit card. Now if that isn't a misuse of charity funds. You were purchasing supplies for a friend's party that was not affiliated or given donations or needed help from your charity for your own personal use. And the time you stayed at the said friend's house yet again and ate their food when you were told that food was meant for their meal the next day. You offered to replenish that food when you were called on it and went to Jewel and Mcdonald's with the charity card to replenish the items. When you returned with said items and was called on not getting the same items, did you not stated that there was not enough money on the charity card to purchase the same items?

Now from what I have seen on this page, you are completely misusing the charity funds for personal use.

4. As far as volunteering, no one that has been involved with you from the start-up of this charity agreed to do any work free of charge. I was there on several occasions when you stating the people helping out on these events were going to get paid for their time and services and you told them after the fact that you were not going to pay them. Oh, and by the way, all of the photos that are on your ICF web site are not and were not taken by the person you have listed as your photographer. That in itself is copyright fraud.

5. You were not asked to provide names of individuals that you have helped in this charity as that is against the law. You were asked to prove that the money donated to the charity is actually going to the charity and not your pockets. The information you provided in the previous posts, we can find anywhere. It does not prove that you have helped others. It just proves that you have a sort of plan to help others. It seems that the people commenting on this site are giving many examples of how you are committing fraud with the charity and its funds. It seems that you would want to clear your name and the dignity of this charity by providing what is asked. All that is asked is required by the State of Illinois, where you are claiming your charity is from. It seems as if you should follow the law and provide what is required.

6. My personal oppinion regarding your vehicular manslaughter case that you were directly involved in....if your drinking and driving caused the very horrible accident, as you say, don't you think that you would do right by this incident and stay away from alcohol and all that is involved in alcohol? All of your fundraisers that you have had or are planning revolve around some form of drinking at a bar and your bike rally involves individuals drinking and driving.

Don't you know that anyone who is involved in starting a charity or providing services of this kind will make themselves a public figure. This means that people can rip apart your past and current history to prove that you are a fraud.

After Amanda has repeatedly stated on this site and these posts, "I will NOT reply or comment back. I have better things to do." Well, she lied again and again. She keeps coming back like a bad cold. She can't resist to comment back nor can she stay AWAY.

It's funny that she has a lot to say about Eppolito and his issues, but yet has she ONCE answered any of the questions or problems with her? NOPE! She likes to point the finger in the other direction and state other people are the problem and not her. If Amanda has so many insecure problems, then why doesn't she go to therapy? Simple, she would be institutionalized.

Fact: Amanda wasn't raped in her bed, her daughter was raped in her own bed (as stated in the court report).
Problem: Why would Amanda be upset to sleep in her OWN bed, but did sleep in the bed for 2 years before replacing it?
Answer: Self worthlessness and pity party took place.

Fact: Amanda filed FALSE battery charges against Eppolito.
Problem: Amanda thinks the World revolves around her.
Answer:  Amanda couldn't just let things go. Amanda has to be the center of
attention. If anyone took that spotlight away, she would cause a
situation.

Fact: Amanda pays her own way (as she just stated)
Problem: With what money?
Answer: She has no job, no income. The money comes from those "Administrative fees"

Fact: Volunteers are UNPAID people who donate their time to help.
Problem: Begging friends to help and promise to pay them for certain services is NOT volunteering.
Answer: FREE beer was her answer to everything. Amanda didn't pay for a single drop of gas to ride in a car from Elk Grove Village to Saint Charles and to do all 5 stops of that rally in 2010. She told people were to go, what to do, and demanded everything. She never gave anyone who came out a single bit of gratification or a thank you.

Fact: Photographers and videographers get paid for their time and work.
Problem: $25 doesn't pay the cost of gas, editing time, or CD copying.
Answer: Amanda refuses to pay the required amount that was owed. She demanded the pictures and videos be edited to HER liking and not what the actual picture or video was. She also submitted pictures and videos as SHE owned them. I have the copyright on all that. Including the pictures she still posts on her fraud charity website. She can't take pictures on her own nor can she use a camera as you can clearly see by the crap photos she took of garbage items.

Fact: Amanda spends money of candy and sugar items more than healthy items and comfort things.
Problem: Sugar high kids, waste of money spending, and dental bills to follow.
Answer: Amanda is a pedophile herself. Luring kids into having a great time with candy and hotel trips. Makes you feel safe doesn't it?

As for Amanda NOT being friends with either Dan... she had to be friends with both of them inorder to have them help her. As for her removing herself from both Dan's friendship? They both saw the truth in Amanda and dismissed her. Not the other way around. As for Amanda stating she dropped Eppolito and his ex-girlfriend... Even when Eppolito was out of the circle, she was still REALLY REALLY good friends with his ex. Amanda stayed at Eppolito's ex's house just as many times as a homeless person would stay. Amanda rarely went to her own home. Amanda has stated many times, sober and drunk, she doesn't want to go live with her parents cause she can't drink or smoke in or around the house. Heck, it's her parents house and NOT hers. They have rules. You want to live there, abide by those rules. It's a roof over your head, food (and must be plenty of it) on the table, and running water to TAKE A BATH IN!

In Amanda's listing of what the CHARITY states it does is just that. It's NOT what SHE actually does. I can state I make fudge brownies all day for the neighborhood and just give them away. I can also state I repair vehicles FREE of charge for EVERYONE. Problem is, I don't. I bake and cook, but not FREE for the neighborhood. Gas isn't FREE and neither is baking goods. I will fix someone's vehicle, but most times at a price.

Administration fees? What Administration actually goes on? I can gather a dozen pens, pencils, many pads of paper, anywhere. Internet service? Library is FREE! Amanda doesn't have any web design experience. Even if she did, she would know the basics which is good enough to post things on her own website when ever she needed to or by law, had to. She still hasn't. As for phone charges, drop the cell phone, get a 1-800 number and there you go. Simple task solved and you don't have to pay cell phone charges. Go back to not being mobile and calling people. God knows you killed one person drinking and driving, we don't need another accident texting while driving and you take a lesser plea cause you are hurting inside. Bull shnikes!

You claim you help children and families in DEKALB, what about in Cook County area? Oh yeah, that's right, you don't have a license to do anything in Cook County. What area do you collect funds or donations from? Oh yeah, COOK and DUPAGE COUNTIES! Any licenses there? NOPE! What is your address for the charity? Ummmm, let me take a stab at this one... ELK GROVE VILLAGE which happens to be a POBOX in COOK COUNTY. Batting 0 now aren't you?

Hey, news flash Amanda. Anyone who knows me and/or read my facebook posts knows part of my life in the past 3 years. Yes I posted about me using my grill to smoke out my neighbors after they refused to pick up their dogs poop off my patio. Yes I did state I was going to put pine cones in my grill and make life really difficult for those same people who lived upstairs from me. Is there a problem with that? You call me insane and unstable. I call myself inventive.

As for my marital problems, you don't have room to talk. Everyone goes through ups and downs in a marriage. Sometimes its good to ask outside sources for advise or help. Hey, that is what you are supposed to be doing with these so-called kids you don't help. Getting outside resources to help them. I just do it for FREE and publicly.

As for other people being scared of me... the only person scared of me is you. Everyone else embraces me and not just family, friends as well.

Hey news flash Amanda... Comcast screwed my life up. After being electrocuted by 1,600 volts 20 feet up a utility pole while servicing a customer is not fun. The ER told my wife that they could only put me on life support for 48 hours and they didn't think I would make it after that. She was asked to sign a power of attorney so they could pull the plug on me. I had chest burns, nerve damage to my arm, 2 heart valve surgeries, 2 artery vein head surgeries, months and months of psycho therapy, over a year of night-terrors, many months of depression, many forms of pain medication to take on an hourly basis. This went on for over 5 months and an additional 3 months re-cooping at home. It was my wife and kids and close friends that stayed by my side and kept me alert. They also made sure I knew who they were and what they meant in my life. I don't need to play the pity card like you do. I should have died, but I didn't. I didn't ask for a single penny from people to help with my struggling bills. By the way, jack monkey, I didn't get paid a penny while in the hospital or while I was home recovering. I still don't and that is why I do what I can and when I want. I charge people what I feel is right and is honest. If what you state about me is all you got, you don't have "chidich" (what ever that is supposed to mean. D**n baby talk to me) LOSER!

You... you can't answer a single question or post a single statement without bringing Eppolito or myself into your lies and pity card playing. Nobody cares about the rest of us. The PEOPLE are questioning YOU and your FRAUD of a charity. You have cried wolf way to many times. Have you ever heard the story about the kid who cried wolf too many times? If not, look it up on your donor paid internet service. Spend some time reading it WORD FOR WORD. That is you in that story and not the wolf part.

By the way, thanks for removing my facebook page about you and your scamming. I will just make another and another and another. I have many ways of getting through. Facebook is not the only place to submit a page. By the way, I OWN the ad that is circulating through facebook. I PAY for it with my OWN money. Oh, where I get my money from is none of your d**n business. I am not the one being questioned in this forum. YOU ARE!

 

Let me guess, you are going to say I staged these photos.  They aren't real.

They are real.

Slandering my name and the Charity name is disgusting.  Talking about my daughter and twisting her case to a lie you feel suits you best is disgusting.  Stating that I have never helped kids is disgusting. Stating that I line my pockets with the money I raise is also equally as disgusting.


My Charity started out like most do, as an idea.  I turned that idea into a means to positively alter the lives of others with the dream of touching the lives of many. The 1st year was a trial and error - you find what works and what doesnt and you evolve with the changing needs of your organization.  Everything I do and every thought I make is for the positive impact on the organization. I have found that I prefer to utilize student interns for most of the work because 1) They need and apperciate the experience 2) It is cost effective to use interns as opposed to paid persons and 3) Community involvement is one of our core values.

My Charity was created in honor of my daughter and what she had to endure. My brand new mattress that my boyfriend and I slept on after he came into my life became a crime scene after he violated my daughter, as did all my furniture. Unable to work and even get out of bed and work while dealing with the ordeal I slept on that crime scene for 2 years.  While there were many reasons and contributing factors to the start up of the Charity, the mattress finally pushed me to start the Charity. I know first hand what it is like to sleep on a bed with such horrific memories and I wanted to change that for the innocent children. I replaced my mattress when I lived in Florida 2007 and now with the donations from the money we raise I am able to purchase new beds for children who are sleeping on what is a haunting memory for them. 

That is just ONE thing Innocent Children Foundation does. We do many things for not only the child but in some cases their family.  We do not have plethora of money at our disposal and state funding has halted for everyone in many states which is why the fundraisers are so important.
In 2010 BEFORE we had the 501(c)(3) status we utilized many people to aid in donating their time for philanthropic purposes.  Some of the people on this page were thrilled to assist but in the end, some of those people have tried to strong arm money out of the Charity to line their pockets and in the end I have had to deal with slander. The defintion of a volunteer is: A person who freely offers to take part in an enterprise or undertake a task. Verb: Freely offer to do something.
But, I guess volunteer means one thing to most and another to a select few.

As I push forward with the donors money at the forefront of my mind - I will utilize student interns.  Its a way I am able to assure more money is spent on the children and their needs.  In 2010 we spent just over $3,000 on administrative expenses. I reached out to a student to develop the website and then when he graduated I had to pay someone to do the work. While I have web design experience my skills are outdated in that regard and paying someone to do the work was required if I wanted to get the job done.  That figure also includes phone, internet, paper, ink and office items like pens, folders etc.  We are no different than any other not-for-profit organization that relies on donations to operate. Administrative expenses are part of the standard expense and not out of the ordinary.

Here is a brief summary listing a few things we were able to do for a family of 6.
          Paid for the childs therapy.
          Purchased the kids their back packs and school supplies.
          Purchased every wish list item each teacher needed for the classroom.
          Paid for bowling and pizza.
          Obtained pool passes for the entire family.
          2-day water park passes, adjoining rooms for one night, dinner, in room movie, video game cards, breakfast in the morning even their servers tip! We included a gift for each child and for the parent; a family frame to capture the event & we filled their room w/goodies!
While the family appreciated everything we were able to do for them, after their Coco Keys stay they told their therapist how much fun they had and how wonderful it was.
Monet we raised helped make a positive impact on their lives and we thank you!

Here is a brief summary listing a few things we were able to do for a family of 4.
         Had 2 beds delivered to their home.
         We purchased a $100.00 Walmart gift card for the family, items for Christmas, distributed blankets that were donated for their new beds, as well as purchase toiletries and snacks.
         We also provided advocacy services by consulting with the clients Attorney to help the client better understand the court process and their case.
         I took my adult daughter to meet the family. My daughter told them she didnt want to go to therapy but that she is so thankful she did because her life would not be where it is now. In the end, we were able to inspire the family because my daughter is proof that if you deal with it in therapy you will live a happy and fulfilled life afterwards.
Both families were very appreciative of everything we did for them.  The look in their eyes as they thanked me was so sincere, which makes doing what I do that much more rewarding.
 
Proving that I helped families is not an issue. Due to HIPPA regulations http://www.hhs.gov/ocr/privacy/  I cannot release the names of our clients or their photos and to suggest as much is absoultely silly. Sex abuse is not like cancer where many people dont mind putting their face to the problem. Child sex abuse leaves the victim with much shame and while I overcame my sexual abuse and dont mind being a face to the problem, most people dont share in my sentiment.  They prefer nobody ever know what they have endured and the fact I am being asked to show their faces leaves me sick inside. If you want to know if I have helped children stop making up lies and contact DeKalb Youth Service Bureau in DeKalb, Illinois.  They can attest that I have helped children at their facility. Its the same place who wrote a testimonial and its on the website but do these people who slander me call and verify?  No. They opt to make up lies and slander my name and the Charity name on here for no reason. 

Unlike the person who posted about both of these people who seems to know an awful lot about them, I was the one who chose to stop talking to both Dan and Dan not reverse. We were NEVER friends. I met them from a mutual aquaintance and THAT person was their friend, not me. Both of these 2 wanted to help & Dan Eppolito said he would get me information by a certain date, didnt and then when I asked him for the information the work he sent was not able to be used.  I had to do the work myself, which is fine.  Dan Eppolito began to stalk and harrass his ex-girlfriend and once he did that I pulled away from him AND her. I could see that he had addicitive tendencies and people like that make me nevous and uneasy. Its not Eppolitos fault he is the way he is, he is a product of how he was raised and permitted to act. However, I knew he needed help and I pulled away because I am not a therapist and cannot help people in that way. I began to hear stories about Eppolito and became even more ner vous. However, things escelated to a ridiculous level when he would show up at parties when he was NOT invited and told to leave and refuse to do so.  The person he hit was the homeowner who had asked him to leave many times. Dan Epplotio also keyd that persons car and he has court in a month for that charge criminal damage to property.  As for the Battery against me, his ex woke me up to help her because he would not leave. The cops were called and everytime they showed up he would run away. She woke me up again and asked me to help her and when I went outside I told Dan Eppolito to leave.  When he didnt I took his phone and through it over the fence and told him again to leave which is when he charged me and took me down to the floor. He was arrested Battery and in possession of a controlled substance. If you dont believe me, call Rolling Meadows court and ask they will tell you Eppoltio has a lengthy criminal resume, one of which I am sure you would be very disgusted by.  I allowed Eppolito to plea to a lesser charge of disorderly conduct and subsequently was granted a restraining order against Eppolito that is still in effect today. Dan Eppolito begged and pleaded with his ex girlfriend (who read me every text and email he sent her) for me to please drop the charges - that he just wanted to laugh with me again and be friends.  I told her what I will now tell you, I had no interest in dropping the charges OR being friends with him and for that choice I am continually harrassed by Eppolito.  I never rang up a bar tab and walked out or stiffed a person with the bill, EVER.  He must be confusing me with his exs best friend who commonly does and is known for that. I also do NOT do drugs nor did I ever try to sell either one of these people or anyone else cocaine.  I have a strict NO DRUG policy and always will.  I dont date or hang around people who do drugs, its not my thing.  I also never EVER said bikers were stupid and would pay my tab. I dont talk about people like that for 1 but 2) I always pay my own way and that is one thing I am known for paying my own way every single time.

Dan Graiber took photos for me at 2 events and he volunteered to take photos. I had enough of his excessive angry posts targeted at Comcast, his neighbors and continually posting about his marital problems - I sent him a private message and asked him why he couldnt work things out with his neighbor as opposed to lighting the grill and blowing smoke up in the middle of the night or throw dog feces at his door.  Graiber told me he refused to talk to his neighbor.  I also told him that he may want to refrain from using FB as his therapist and posting his overabundance of problems on the site because many people are talking about how uncomfortable they make him. After that correspondence I told him I had to delete him from FB because I could not read his posts anymore as they upset me greatly. Fact: I am one person in the long line of many who have had to suffer the wrath of Dan Graiber and I will not be the last, I am sure. Everything he has said about me has zero merit.  Like I said, they got my name, my daughters name and her offenders name correct but beyond that they fed you a slew of slander.

You believe who you want to believe but I have all my backup.

THE "WHISTLE-BLOWER" IS KIM MARMITT. THE DOUCE-QUEEN HERSELF! HOW MANY KID'S NOW IS IT? 3? WITH 3 DIFFERENT FATHERS? LOOKS LIKE THE LOSER IS YOU. YOU HAVE NO RIGHT COMING ON HERE DEFENDING A CON ARTIST. YOU ARE JUST AS GUILTY AS HER, AND JUST AS UGLY. YOU HAVE ALWAYS BEEN A BIG-MOUTH EVER SINCE GRADE SCHOOL. LOOKS LIKE MY TAX MONEY IS GOING TO YOU AND YOUR WIC BENEFITS. YOU DEFINITELY HAVE NO ROOM TO TALK AND HAVE AN IQ OF 90 IF YOUR LUCKY. YOU ACCUSE MY FRIEND DAN OF BEING A DRUG ADDICT? AREN'T YOU THE ONE THAT USED TO SELL COKE? I REMEMBER THOSE DAYS, YOU LIVED IN SCHAUMBURG, IN SQUALOR NONE THE LESS. DON'T TALK ABOUT INTELLIGENCE OF MY FRIENDS. I WILL THINK CIRCLES AROUND YOU YOU DISGUSTING PIG OF A WOMAN. TOO BAD THEY RAISED FUNDS FOR YOU, YOU SHOULDA RUN OUTTA MONEY AND KICKED THE BUCKET BUT WE ALL COULDN'T BE SO LUCKY COULD WE. KEEP YOUR BIG MOUTH SHUT FROM NOW ON AND QUIT HARASSING AND BEING RUDE TO MY FRIENDS. YOU ARE A FLUZIE, AND A SCROATY B I** C H !! ALWAYS HAVE BEEN SINCE I CAN REMEMBER. LOSER. FIND A FATHER FOR YOUR KID'S. THAT'S IF U CAN REMEMBER WHO U SLEPT AROUND WITH, s***k.

Amanda is a pirate. Look up pirate in the dictionary and see her picture. That is if Amanda even has one. Hey Amanda, it's a book that has lots of pages in it that has WORDS that describe what those words mean. Just in case you didn't know. A Bible is a Holy book. It's normally found in churches. Which if you ever went into one it would probably crumble, the Holy Water would boil and the statues would turn around.

It's nice that you can try and defend yourself, but the fact still remains that you stole from the charity on a regular basis, you lied to everyone including your own family and close friends, you don't care about anyone but yourself, and you certainly did NOT deny killing your friend while drinking alcohol and  driving. All you and the small amount of naive followers that you might have, which haven't seen the truth yet, seem to only down play the facts. You and  your followers can only reply back with just plain lame comments. Which STILL avoid the main subject of you lying to EVERYONE including yourself.

We are simply stating the facts that has been gathered by many many people that have surrounded you, got to know you, and knows the workings that you have done. You lost most, if not ALL, your friends. As for myself and Eppolito, I can clearly state that we are not friendless, we are not scared or your threats, not worried about how you turn out, certainly not worried what happens to you, and most of all... WE ALL know the truth about you. We will publicly announce who and what you are to whomever we can reach. We will publicly post links and sites all over the internet and as many times as we possibly can. We will keep doing this until people get sick of seeing and hearing your name and your so-called charity. We, meaning myself, the other Dan, family, friends, people whom you don't even know, relatives, motorcycle clubs all over the states, bars, motorcycle shops, the State office, the Federal office, courthouses, anywhere WE can. Flyers, posters, mailings, etc... You might be able to stop one of us, but you certainly can't stop the world.

You are done! Ruined! Gone! Loser Trash! I think Depends and Adult Diapers is ready to sponsor you now. Maybe you should go back to school and finish your nursing degree. But after they do a search for your name, they will see this and many other links with your name and how you handle people. You just might get a job farming and be safe about it. But knowing you, you would probably conjure up Farm Aid all over again just to prove you can scam a different type of person.

I was just looking at my floor and noticed an earwig. I thought of you, got up, stepped on it. Remarkable thing, it didn't go away. So I stepped on it some more and finally it's guts came out. I got a napkin, picked it up, sad I was sorry and tossed it away in the garbage. Why did I say sorry? It's be cause people don't like them, people want them gone from their lives and homes, people think they are really disgusting creatures. It's not the earwigs fault, but it made a choice to crawl on my floor. I made the choice to dispose of it. The point is, we all make choices in life. Some are great adventurous choices and others are hurtful not only to themselves but to others.

I have made some bad choices in my life, but I wouldn't change why I made them. I have made some really great choices in my live, and I wouldn't change them either. Then there are the choices I made where I asked myself, "What were you thinking?" or "If I made this choice, could Amanda K. Parisi use it against me?" The second choice has been the most recent choice I made. So I said, "Heck yeah! Let the fun times roll!"

You have the choice NOW to come clean, do what's right and confess to everyone. This will all stop and go away like it never happened if you do. That is all there is to it. Everyone will leave you alone, won't bother you anymore, or publicly announce any of your wrong doings. Simple? Yes it is.

Start doing what is right and make the right choice. Come on, just announce you were wrong and state what you did wrong. No more picking on either Dan's. No more picking on the friends you used to have. Nobody is coming to your rescue. Nobody is going to welcome you back with open arms. You have screwed so many people with this bogus charity. Putting peoples names down as employees without their permission. Telling people that you ARE helping people when in fact, you are only helping yourself. Bikers are not stupid. They are truckers, lawyers, judges, cops, firefighters, small business owners, corporation owners and CEO's. They are butchers, barbers/hair dressers, nurses and doctors, managers, blue and white collar workers. They all work hard for their money and when they feel they can donate a small amount of money to a charity worthwhile, you slither in and take it all. You show nothing in return. You give no tax exempt or receipt for their donation. You haven't posted any financials incoming or outgoing at all. You know for a fact you were supposed to post those numbers quarterly. You have yet to do so. You ARE breaking the State and Federal guidelines for a Non-Profit Charity status.

You think you are powerful by yourself... think again. It takes more than one person to rule a country. I have the support and back-up to run this to the fullest. I am NOT the only one who has access to the files and printouts. I am not the only one who has the account status's. I am not the only one who has access to ALL links and sites.

Sleep on it and think about all the harm you have done to not only your ex-friends, family members, donors, supporters, people that really trusted you, and also what you have turned into.

Whistleblower has no idea who I am. I have NEVER met whistleblower while in High School nor after High School. Maybe it was because I stayed away from trash and being a garbage picker. Or maybe it was simply cause I don't use drugs!

You and your follower keep bringing up the issue with Comsuck and me. Is there a point to it? Anyone who knows me, knew me before and after. They still know me.
You and your follower bring up the issue with my first daughter? Is there yet another point to it? Child molester or child porn? You really have to make up a story like that just to make yourself look more insane? Sure you do. You have nothing else factual to state. Simple fact for you both, IF I was a child molester in the USA, I would be publicly announced everywhere. I wouldn't be married and have kids. The state would constantly be checking on my kids for their well-being and safety.
Then you have to dig into my wife... that's low. Low even for Amanda to go. But, that is what she does best. Detour from the obvious situation and change the subject.
d****elord? That is as childish as "Chidich". What planet are you both from? I am from Earth. We speak ENGLISH here. We don't speak alien or gibberish. Maybe childish, but certainly not adult.
You both really need to further your education at a credited school that can teach you both English as the FIRST language. Do you understand what I am saying? No Habla? No speak any English? If you don't, then get the heck out of here.

Anyone who does NOT state their real name in ANY of these posts are just plain cowards. Biker, you don't have to cause you were only defending one person. Whistleblower that blows donkey nuts for a living, you are a flat out coward. You are worthless back then and still are. Once you see what your friend Amanda "the scammer and liar" Parisi has done to you and everyone else, then post comments on here. Until then, shut your trap. Obviously you have been allowing Amanda to eat you out of house and home. You have allowed her scamming ways to invade your life and your friends lives. You probably donated money to Amanda and didn't get a tax deduction for it. If you need that info, let me know. I will be more than happy to share the info you need to file for an adjustment to get that money back.

As for the comment that "People are scared of you and you have no friends". If you make that statement, you need to back it up. Until then, shut your trap. You have no say so in any of this.

So here it is. I guess the purpose of this page was to get answers on fraudulent misuse of funds. Although we have gotten a response from the sole proprietor of this scam operation, none of her response has pertained to the issue that was brought up to begin with. Instead, we get a personal slandering from someone who has no room to be critical of anyone. Anyone who kills their best friend while drinking and driving deserves a 2nd chance at redemption, providing they see why it happened in the 1st place and QUIT DRINKING. But instead we get someone who is liable to do the same thing again. Someone who didn't take her action's that fateful night seriously. She in turn has been an everyday drinker according to many people who were her friends, I have witnessed her crawling on the floor she was so inebriated. She lost all her friends due to the issue at hand here. It's been a long tedious thread with the intent to get answers, and to warn other of this vicious, fraudulent attack on the innocent and kind-hearted. Unfortunately, we won't get any proof or any pictures of the people that have been helped by this charity. There are none. Maybe one but I doubt it. Time to grow up, stop slandering people, and take responsibility for your life and what the legalities are if you don't have viable proof of spending charity on anyone other than yourself. I am here to back up the many people that that have helped this person if we want to call her that. She deceived us all, some of us longer than others. Finally everyone figured it out. She has no rebuttal to anything we say, only to steer the conversation into her own attacks when in reality she should be addressing the claims that have been made against her. What about the bar tab that you stuck a few people with?? The beds you pee'd in whilst drunk? The people you ordered around that got sick of it. The competition you tryed to play with everyone. You have nothing Amanda. YOU ARE A BIG LOSER. And there are many people that will attest to that!!! Now show us proof. Enough of the shenanigans.

Signed,

An Elk Grove Resident that witnessed Amanda do many things to offend a lot of people.

My phone has been ringing off the hook with people calling to tell me about these posts.  A) I have nothing to hide B) I did not make those posts you are accusing me of - I would self identify. Most importantly, I don't have the time to be on these pages nor do I care to be on these pages C) I don't know who made those posts and I don't really care, but they are pretty funny  D) I had NOTHING to do with Kim Marmitts fundraiser.  I went, donated 50/50 tickets and asked a few people then handed the tickets and money to someone else and I went home.  I was dog sitting for someone and could only stay for a little while.

Everything that is said is absolute horseshit.  I really wish all of you would grow the hell up and stop obsessing over me and what I do.  At this point I find it flattering your every thought is of me though your posts are really creepy and untrue.

As for Terry I have no idea what he does with his life and have NO reason to discuss him or anyone else.  I don't have time to sit around and talk about people like you all seem to do.

Love that post about me hitting someone and not liking the way they look or whatever that was.  Sheesh.  100% of what you said never came out of my mouth - but if you want to keep lying about me, go ahead.  I don't care.  As I said once and I will say again, I have nothing to hide.

Whoever posted obviously has their own strong opinions about people and they are more than allowed to excercise their 1st ammendment right.  Attacking a charity and its operation is part of the process, good thing for me - none of what is said gets to me. 

Have a good night.

To be quite frank, in England and the word favor was originally spelled favour you idiot. Look it up. You have Google. You never got out of high school, or maybe you did? But that was the extent of your education.
You did kill someone however drinking and driving. For you to talk your ridiculous trash about myself and Dan Graiber is being very contradictive. One would think that you would have learned your lesson from that horrific tragedy that YOU caused by YOUR recklessness and stupidity. You still drink everynight don't you. You and the Bud-Lights. Incidentally, that is a horrible choice of beer. I can only suggest that you seek the help of A.A. and the fellowship that it provides. Drunks like you need a 12 step program. When you are peeing in peoples childrens beds and on yourself. You have pulled down peoples shower curtains because you are too wasted to stand straight. Youve had to have people hold your hair for you as you repeatedly puked in someone's bathroom. You are a disgusting Sow. Who's the loser? You are. We all know that it's you posing as someone else. We are on to your game and we are winning. You are not only portraying yourself in a terrible light, you are putting unnecessary stress on the people that were there to help you before they all caught on to your game. I was an early one. I caught on to your scam from day one, and you have had your little personal vendetta against me ever since as everyone knows that. I started the rebellion to your Charity. I planted the seeds in some people's heads repeatedly to hammer it home that you cannot be trusted. From the day I met you that was the case.
It's time to shift your focus. Think about getting a real job. Stop scamming people. You have your Wildfire event coming up. Don't be surprised if there's a few folks there that will question the intentions of your charity and the misuse of the funds that were graciouslly given in good faith.
It is to my understanding that the Attorney General has been contacted on the "publics" behalf to investigate you. Apparently so has Wildfire. I can assure you that I have not taken any steps myself to have you investigated. There are PLENTY of other people that are working diligently on getting that process in motion. Please stop with the personal attacks. Anyone who reads this can see the difference between your posts and mine. 
You have no defense but to criticize us and all the people that turned you aside after seeing what you were all about. After sleeping and eating people out of house and home, on top of the charity that you have, which by the way, is your only means of financial support. We need to see documents of each and every one of the children or whomever got the funds that you took in at a couple of your events. Why is there no documents that can be verified? Because THERE ARE NONE! The jig is up, and it's time to get a life at 41, and take care of the child that so desperately needs a Mother that is there for her. Seems like you were in Elk Grove 6 out of 7 days of the week while your daughter is starving in DeKalb. But now you're back in DeKalb because the folks you were staying with in Elk Grove kicked you out of their homes. You live with Mommy. No bills to pay, no responsibilities, no job, a craving for beer, a losers lifestyle. They couldn't keep the refrigerator or the cabinets full enough when you were around. They finally figured you out after so many warnings and gossip that you were a mean b**ch.  Stop harassing me and my family. Think twice about doing any more events. There may be authorities there waiting to audit you. Or someone that refuses to give you a dime. Or they just might throw you out when you get there. They have been warned from what I have heard. The time has come to come to terms with your lawlessness.
Maybe if you go to A.A. meetings, they will be easy on you when you are charged with "Deceptive/Fraudulent Practices" Look it up. Do research like I did for you when you started your charity. Not even get a thank you. You are a greedy person that has used the wrong avenue to fulfill your financial needs. We will see what happens when it all unfolds. Until then, have a great day/evening. :-)  

I only have one thing to say in all of this chaos that I have been reading because word gets out.  I am a friend of Terry's and he would not like his name being tossed around bad or good.  Amanda or whatever you call your name "Whistleblower" I would suggest not to mention his name again.  Terry doesnt need women begging to sleep with him especially the person you are referring to because he has a very good friendship with this individual and  from what I read you dont understand the word "friendship" since it seems you have burned alot of your bridges.  If Terry ever bad mouthed this individual it would be very shocking because she is one person he talks highly about.  From my understanding Terry didn't care for you Amanda the day he met you but he tolerated you when you were around.  So unless you want a bunch of mad bikers knocking at your door I would suggest you stop using Terry's name.

Did you know that there was a fund raiser for a person named Kim Marmitt at Pop's Pizza in Elk Grove Village, Il last year and Amanda was head of collecting money. Ironically, she demanded 20% of ALL donations collected and a door fee for each person who came. She also demanded a cut off the total food and alcohol that was purchased that night as well. So not ALL the funds, as PROMISED, went to the fund raising for Kim Marmitt. So sad she stole from a person who really needed the money to get well and needed the medications to get well.
This is the type of person who cheated a so-called friend out of money and health. Little did Kim know, she was scammed and then was told, "this is what you made and ICF was behind it all". Yes Amanda Parisi was behind it all. Behind the theft, deception, and cheating from this so-called friend.
The money never was deposited into the ICF bank account which is public record at Bank 1 in EGV. Nothing is public record with Innocent Children Foundation. You need written permission on a Non-profit charity when the State and Federal Law require ANYONE to access the account records.
Sorry Kim Marmitt, you were scammed by YOUR friend.
Want proof, just goto the bank and ask for transaction records for that time frame of the fund raiser.

Ha! d****elords... there is only one person who uses this word.

I think it's funny that Amanda claims I have nothing better to do but reply and comment on this posting. She is obviously obsessed with me and this post. If I was so ugly, why do you have my pictures and then post them? If my looks make you so sick, why do you still have them on your computer? You are one fat funny w***e. Oh wait, whores have sex. You haven't gotten any since when? That's right, since the dinosaurs went extinct or was it before your daughter was born? Good humor paid a nasty price for unzipping your pants. At least I don't require batteries and I don't have to pay anyone to unzip my pants.

When are you going to get it through your thick stupid skull that stores a dead hamster and rusty wheel, that you are just plain dumb, a loser, self-centered, thief, cheater, false charity and scammer? I guess never cause the hamster is DEAD. Time to get a new one, but use your own money not the charity money. Oh wait, that is your money cause you keep stealing from it.

Hey Amanda, when are you going to learn that leaving your poop filled diapers in other peoples homes is NOT good friendship? Oh wait, you enjoy doing it cause you have NO COMMON courtesy. Brings me to another point, remember when you backed into someones driveway with your car and damaged your bumper and theirs? You said you didn't like the way they looked so you won't tell them. WOW! You really know how to judge a person by looks. You don't even own a mirror cause they all broke when you last looked into them, I guess.

You dress yourself like you are a prostitute on the prowl. Only problem is, prostitutes get paid for services. You don't even get paid or laid. I bet if some drunk and wearing blinders unzipped you, he/she would need safety goggles, hedge trimmers, a case of insecticide, animal traps, and probably a death will.

You have NO basis on any of your claims. You can't even claim the right amount on your taxes. You can't hold down a paying job. You are NOT respectful to ANYONE. You are NOT welcome in this state nor in this country. You have the IRS, IDES, States Attorney's Office, Illinois Charity Fraud Department all looking for you and they WILL find you. You call "BIKERS" "STUPID" and have no grounds to state a fact on it. I wish you well and a speedy recovery just so you can leave this state like a fart in the wind. POOF! Gone... Where's Amanda K. Parisi? Who cares and lets celebrate her leaving...
CHEERS! The day you leave, I will have a massive party. Oh wait, you can't come cause you won't be here. All the more reason to have a going away party or shall I call it, "SEE YA LIAR, CHEATER, SCAMMER and ICF"? Just do everyone a favor and go away. Leave everyone alone and leave this state for good. I have my 2nd Amendment right.

Ha, you are pathetic.  Whistleblower is not amanda.  I like watching you go crazy though so keep guessing you snaggle tooth, prescription addicted, scrawny, low budget, poor, weird looking piece of s**t.  Keep guessing.  The whole town knows your a piece of s**t so you should look outside your little box of potential suspects because your guess is WRONG! 

Hey Amanda, you said you were NOT going to be posting anymore comments on this site. Well, you lied just like you have lied to so many. This just proves our point. I hope you live another day. Sleep with one eye open. Have a nice night.
I wasn't fired from Comsuck, I was electrocuted. Hey fat sow, how about we put some voltage up your up and see how well you enjoy it. Oh wait, you like things going up there. That is why people are starting to miss things in their homes. You sit on their furniture, walk in their rooms, and POOF- things are gone. Go to a butcher and have him carve your butt off.
As for you being scared... YOU BETTER!
I can't wait to hear you left this place. I would personally through a party that would last 2 full days. BUT I bet it would everyone that YOU used to know, which is everyone you do know, would be battling me to through it first. Nobody wants you around. Don't you get that through your big fat butt or is your Bud Light and cocaine habit in the way to make you see clearly? Tough call on that one. I will have to go an extra large pizza and get back to you. Don't make this harder on yourself then what it actually is. All we want is for you to get some help. H**L NO! WE WANT YOU TO EITHER DIE OR MOVE YOUR FAT LAZY NO GOOD WASTE OF AIR OUT OF THIS STATE AND MOVE TO A SPECK OF SAND AND CALL IT AN ISLAND. WHERE NOBODY LIVES BUT YOU! THAT WAY YOU CAN'T CAUSE ANY TROUBLE OR HAVE FRIENDS. Don't worry, we will all think of you OFTEN while we are sitting on the toilet taking a mean green, building a log cabin with Lincoln logs, or just simply pissing on your grave. We will ALL be thinking of you when we here someone was killed, stabbed, shot, found homeless wearing a very large diaper, or disappeared. You will be in our thoughts and prayers.

I cannot stop laughing at both of you.  Do each of you have so little to do you in your lives that you lurk on pages and fight with people?  Everyone knows that is all you two like to do and how ironic you proved them right! You are both so predictable.
 
Dan Eppolito, it's FAVOR not FAVOUR.  So much for all that schooling and education, huh? Seems to me your schooling was subpar at best, if even that if since you cannot even spell a 5 letter word correctly.
As far as the name calling, I proved a point you uneducated low life. Wake up and smell the coffee, not the early morning aroma of your marijuanna. Everyone knows you do drugs Dan Eppolito, EVERYONE. You aren't fooling anyone, so get that through your tiny little brain.  What's left of it after all the years of drug use anyway.
I don't think it's a matter of opinion, EVERYONE is better than each of you. Look at you both, two morons who have nothing better to do that sit on a website where people can post anything they want and you post several times a day. Seems like two unemployed d****elords to me as opposed to two employed and contributing members of society! Two obsessed people who have nothing better to do than have every single thought of a person who cannot stand them and wants nothing to do with them. Get over it, move on. You are embarassing yourselves.
Hell no I won't say who I am because if I do you will put MY name on facebook and slander it as well. Why would I set myself up for that? Unlike you two, I am not dumb and your little threats of who I may be and what you may do if I don't tell you won't force me to tell you anything. Funny Dan Eppolito, you don't want to discuss Terry's van, how you stole it from him, got crack and then abandoned the van and all the contents were stolen?  You don't want to talk about that? FUNNY!  Why don't we.  Why don't we talk about that and all the other people you harrass and hurt. You pathetic loser, everyone sees through your BS, EVERYONE!
Dan Graiber you talked about suicide all your life you even tried when you were younger didn't you? That's the word around the campfire anyway. Deny what you want but everyone knows the truth and now anyone who comes here knows as well. All you have posted is nothing more than baseless rantings of two complete morons. Dan Graiber don't misuse the word EVERYONE when you said EVERYONE comes to you for help when they need it because everyone DOESN'T come to you for help, I sure as hell wouldn't. Maybe one person and the people in that house but who else does she have? She begs Terry to sleep with her and he talks behind her back all the time of course she calls you because you have nothing better to do and no real friends who ask you to their houses. It makes you feel needed when she calls you. When was the last time your family had you over? Or one of your neighbors? No wonder you got canned from Comcast they cannot stand you either. I wouldn't want you near me, my children or my things so I will never call you to help me ever. I wouldn't trust your ability to fix anything or trust your ears to provide any real listening to any problem I may have because you are selfish and vindictive and you need to be strapped to a bed and given lots of meds. You are crazy man, OUT OF YOUR MIND!! 
 
What about this Dan Graiber, I know who this is and I will not back down. OOOOOO I AM SOOO SCARED!
Why the cover up and not post your name? Obviously you are chicken and are meaningless to the rest of this world. I DON'T AGREE WITH YOUR BS LIES, I CALL YOU ON IT AND NOW I AM CHICKEN AND MEANINGLESS TO THE REST OF THE WORLD?  You both need help and I hope you get it.
You hide in shell of broken promises and faded rainbows.  YIKES. HOW LONG DID IT TAKE YOU TO MAKE THAT UP? IS THAT YOUR ATTEMPT AT POETRY? OR IS THAT FROM YOUR LITTLE LAND OF MAKE BELIEVE THAT YOU AND YOUR LITTLE BUDDY DAN EPPOLITO LIVE IN WITH YOUR DRUGS AND YOUR CHILD PORN?
 
I know you are both going to post many more times because you have nothing better to do with yourselves. I will get sick of responding because unlike the two of you I have better things to do with my time and focusing on each of you is not at the top of my list and guess what its not at the top of anyone else's list either!! Nobody cares what you have to say, NOBODY likes either of you.  NOBODY!

I would like to announce that we all have been deceived, yet AGAIN, by this monstrosity of a con-artist. 
It was brought to my attention that the REAL "whistleblower" here is, yep, you guessed it, Amanda, The owner of this fraudulent charity. It just goes to show how cunning and believable she is. Sorry honey, the jig is up on you now.. time to go on a diet and start paying back all of the kind people you have ripped off!

it could be someone with the initials R.R., Who by the way was a sub-par (at best) football player back in high-school. Back then, the Grens were the laughing stock of the league, and you were just one piece to that sinking ship. What an embarrassment! Now, as you have gotten older, the pounds have piled up I see. Try eating a little healthier. I can recommend broccoli, carrots, and whole-leaf spinach. Oatmeal is also filling and is low in fat and calories. Talk about me? HA! I'm in great shape and could repel a bullet off my abs they are rock-solid. That's a result of hard work and dedication to exercise. Try it sometime! Besides, I could run circles around you so it's a non-issue. Lol
Stop frequenting the fast-food "fat burger" drive-thru's. You're not getting any younger, but yet you're getting fatter. Just an observation. ;-)

Hey Whistleblower, I know who you are and let me state first off... you are no prize at a beauty contest. As for my looks before Comsuck... you didn't know me well enough at that time. After Comsuck... that is when you got to know me. Me use drugs... HA! Never did illegal drugs and never will. As for jobs in NC... I was trying to get something more solid BUT I was doing remodeling work. Little do you know. As for my first kid... you think I molested my daughter... bring on whale crap. I fought for my daughter since before she was born to be a parent. Yes I did have many run-ins with the law in that state as well. Only reason was cause the mother was preventing me from seeing my child as court ordered. Suicide? I was in a lot of pain and took to many pain pills cause nothing was working. I realized that I took to many and didn't let time and my body adjust to them. I was in so much pain that I couldn't take it anymore. Yes I do blame my teeth and a lot of other problems on my accident. There wasn't anything wrong with me before that happened. As for "Everyone" is scared of me... let them. But when they need help, who do they come to? Me, that's right. Everyone comes to me. I am not going to comment on Epploito's story, but he is the only one to do that. As for making comments about my wife, YOU need to go look into a mirror and not one from the circus. As for my looks... nobody said you had to look at me nor did you have to like me. That was your choice. As for the friends I have and how many... I pick my friends and those friends stay really close to me. I know a lot of people, but I only allow certain people into my life. As for my family... who's family isn't dis-functional? I know for a fact your family isn't getting the Noble Prize for family.
You state you are not taking sides... you already have taken a side. As for being childish... have you really thought about yourself lately? If not, put down the beer and sober up. Maybe you might be able to think a little better. Whistleblower... you just made a statement that you should have NEVER posted. I know who this is and I will not back down.
Why the cover up and not post your name? Obviously you are chicken and are meaningless to the rest of this world. You hide in shell of broken promises and faded rainbows. Once you see who the real Amanda Parisi is, then you will join the rest of the group who have seen her wrong doings first hand. These same people have been hurt, screwed and used by Amanda Parisi. I guess you haven't been screwed by her just yet. Just wait, your turn will come. She likes to back stab people just when your chips are down and you don't have a leg to pray on. Best of luck in your move and look forward to your posts on here soon. If you hate my face that much, why post pics of me? Have a fun day at the pool next time.

if this is someone with the initials M.P, (amanda's only friend), you are a fat piece of white trash, you always have been. Oh and you are a drug dealer as well. I heard all about that ecstasy that you have sold and poisoned people with. Didn't you sell coke too? Or was that your best friend? Go pop your hallucinogenic pills together and again, don't forget the bud-light! 

Name calling is for kid's? Seems like that was what your BOLD statement was whomever you are. Look's like you contradicted yourself. I find it pathetic that you can't name yourself and seem to have found a way onto my facebook page and downloaded a picture of me and God only know's what else..
Ok, Mr. Info, I will take a drug test anytime you have the guts to show up with one where ever you choose. The audacity of you to accuse me of "smoking crack on the boat" ? What boat are you referring to? You talk about Dan Graiber saying he says outlandish things? Where do you get your information? You have no clue what you're talking about obviously. Mr. "Unknown", you seem to think you know an awful lot about me. What you have learned about me you have heard from either an alcoholic, or a drug-addict. I merely posted on this site to expose a person who is committing FRAUD. And you my friend, have come here to make angled attacks. You have taken this to a personal level now. To put my son out there and slander me and my family and think you can get away with it is a mistake on your part. You want to attack my employment history? I have more schooling than you ever will, and paid a lot of money to get it. I come from a well respected Italian family of whom you know absolutely nothing about. Yes, I punched someone in the face after I was charged at by someone who was extremely intoxicated. I had the right to defend myself as I have many years of schooling and discipline to be able to do so. You know nothing about me except my name. We don't even know your name, and we won't because for some reason you are too afraid to expose yourself. I'd say you're more of a coward than anything. Don't you ever mention my precious Son again. You want to come on here and make personal attacks? This is the only forum that you could succeed at that. Saying that we would "want to have sex with kid's" just shows the sick minded person that YOU are. Normal people don't think that way and I take that personally. To say that we're upset that amanda won't be our friend is FAR from fact. I needn't state the kind of person she is. It has already been said here. I have a particular disliking for alcoholics, especially mean ones that think that they are better than everyone else when in reality they are worthless losers. Whoever u are, and I have an idea, you are a worthless loser as well. YOU are an alcoholic. You think we're skinny? Look at you, overweight, ugly, and pathetic. You'd probably expect me to say "come meet me somewhere where we can discuss this."I wouldn't waste my time on someone like you who talks about "sex with kid's".  God or Karma will sort you out, whichever comes first. Lord knows you probably have downloaded pictures of my son, God help you if you have. You're sick and twisted pervert. It's people like you are the reason people like us are vigilant. This has been another attempt to overshadow the real issue here. You and amanda are 2 peas in a pod or maybe one in the same... For you to actually like amanda, you'd have to either be a buffoon, or very gullible or extremely stupid. You are evil, mean spirited individuals who deserve every setback that comes your way. Hopefully you'll do everyone a favour and "go away". Go and live your miserable life with amanda. You 2 can have a a few bud-lights together!! Drunken Idiots.. - Gfy.

I am going to address these two moronic individuals.  First of all, Amanda wanted NOTHING to do with either one of you.  SHE distanced herself from BOTH of you and the people who introduced you to her because you were not the kind of company she wanted to keep.  The way you both act, THAT is why she wanted nothing to do with you, look, you made it clear how you are with these insane posts about her.  You both sound like crying little babies "Oh, Amanda won't be my friend so I am going to slander the hell out of her."  Grow up.  EVERYONE is laughing at both of you. 

And YOU Eppolito, have you really come so far in your loser lifestyle from the vile piece of trash you are who stole from a friend. You stole your friends van and left it downtown to get crack and then the van was stolen it was stripped.   You expect me to believe you are a changed person from that SAME person who had did THAT?  No.  You never apologized to Terry or paid him back for you auto theft and then the theft of materials. You smoked crack on the boat last summer!!! You are the SAME person you were then only slightly more sneaky than you were except I will say what I think about both of you, what EVERYONE knows and is too afraid to say because you are both so bat s*** crazy!  Amanda saw through both of your charades and saw both of you for the psychos you are and because she did you two can't take it. Grow up. Not everyone can be friends. The entire world gets that except you two obsessed sociopaths.  Amanda only associates with upstanding indviduals not pond sucking scum like you two. Your just bitter because you couldn't have her friendship. Amanda has not gotten in trouble with any law in other states, when will the repeated lying stop?  Neither of you know her at all or even met her child or even the loser who did indeed molest her daughter so you have no idea what you are talking about,  either of you. Do you know how silly you look?  People are laughing at both of you. 

Dan Graiber you did post all over your facebook that you wanted to kill yourself I SAW IT! I also saw the posts about the jobs you could not get and how mad you were blaming society and the government for the fact you couldn't get a job and how "unfair it was". You were always that way though, the person who blamed everyone else and never looked at yourself. Your entire family hates you and so does anyone who has ever lived near you. People think you are crazy and when you post on facebook people laugh at you and how stupid you look. They say they take EVERYTHING you say with a grain of salt because everything you say comes from an irrational frame of mind. People are so sick and tired of you blaming your craziness on your accident with comcast. You are a psycho, you have always been a psycho and YOU WILL ALWAYS BE a psycho. You have been talking about suicide for years and your wife has threatened to leave you thousands of times I don't know why she doesn't but shes probably too afraid to, look at how you act when someone doesn't want to be associated with you, you would obviously do the same to Becky.  You cried relentlessly on facebook how you couldn't find a job. You know why you couldn't find a job? Karma. Karma for all the pain you cause others and we are talking about  A LIFETIME of burning people, yes you Dan Graiber YOU. How about this one Dan Graiber, where is your oldest child? The mother took off with your child because they cannot stand you, because you are crazy. They even went into hiding because of how crazy you are!! The way you talk about a sexually abused child (amandas daughter) makes me wonder if you possibly molested YOUR daughter and have the same tendendices as amandas daughters offender. Only someone who did would talk the way you do. What's with the constant obsession with amanda. She has helped children and will continue to do so all this is is nothing more than your addictive personalities obsessing on amanda and its really unsetteling. Both of you grow the hell up, ok?

Dan Eppolito, you are no prize of a father. You could not support your son for years and your mom wound up doing most of the financial support of him. You also walked out on your Holiday Inn job then lied about your abilites to work at medina country club and once they realized you lied they canned you!!!! From there it was from one job to another so stop your lying. I know all parties involved, some better than others and all I have to say is this, Dan and Dan are out of their freaking minds. Amanda may have a past but she never tried to hide it. And ps guys, name calling is for little kids not guys who claim they are grown ups. And oh, this one was good: Amanda tried to sell you drugs. Now that is hysterical!  She doesn't do drugs but I love the "she tried to sell me some and I told her to get lost" you are both freakin nuts and OUT OF YOUR MINDS! She wouldn't do OR sell drugs. Maybe that is why both of you are so skinny and look emaciated and your skin looks like it is shrink wrapped to your bones because YOU ARE BOTH the druggies, both of you. 

Stop lurking on websites and try acting your age. Also, trying to push someone to kill themselves is absolutely disgusting!!!!  Suggesting and giving ways to do it is so mean which also just goes to show who you two really are.  Pathetic jealous losers who both probably want to have sex with kids.  Dan Eppolito, Epilady fagaloon by which most people refer to you by let us not forget your obsession with your past ex girlfriends and how you would show up at parties and lurk around the windows with a taser. Or how you punched a guy in the face and key'd his car just because he was friends with your ex then stood in front of his house all night screaming for him to come out because you were going to "kill him". You are crazy and how many times have the cops been called on you by people to get you the hell away from their homes. COUNTLESS!!!  I am not on one side or another but enough is enough. I had to say something because if something happens to amanda I want proof these two are crazy and hopefully she can get the protection she needs. Dan Graiber has had countless run ins with people AND THE LAW!!  Ask the several hundred people he is friends with on facebook (that dont even know him) about his facebook posts. 

Dan Graiber and Dan Epplotio cannot find friends on their own so they friend strangers on facebook, only losers do that. Dan and Dan have nasty reputations and the only reason people talk to them if they do at all is because they are afraid if they also disassociate themselves with him the way amanda did they will turn on them. How sad is that? Neither of these two have any real friends. They live to hurt others but amanda lives to help others, doesnt take a rocket scientist to see who the better person is here. She hasnt even said one mean thing about you two on here.

Glad I was able if not for her for myself, these two are disgusting. And in closing let me just say that the two of you are probably two of the most unattractive people I have ever seen so until you become God stop making comments about what you think amanda looks like. Dan Graiber you had a mouth full of snaggle teeth your entire life and with money saved from not paying child support for your first child  you got them redone.  Even with your teeth not looking mangled you are still a very ugly person on the outside so much so I cannot even look at your pictures you are so hideous but aside from your horrendous exterior your insides are pure evil and as ugly as your face. Dan Eppolito you are no prize either. You look like you are homeless most of the time and your clothes are as old as the beater car you drive which looks like its from the 70's. You both are in for a long battle with bad karma so do yourselves right and act your age. Dan Graiber stop spending time on here, get a job and fix your wife's teeth, lord knows they need a good fixing and Dan Eppolito, put the crack pipe down and stop stalking people. You're both trash.

The person here who REALLY has Demons to overcome is Amanda. I am in a tight knit group of friends that have mutual respect for one another. I've managed to have several close friends that I have maintained relationships with since grade school! Unlike Amanda. She has no true "best friend" she has snookered all of the people that reached out to lend her a helping hand. She bit the hand that fed her, so to speak. She should be ashamed of herself for verbally attacking me and Mr. Graiber to cover up her own inadequacies. She has made some outlandish accusations against us with no proof to back any of it up. Just like she has no proof that any of her charity money has made it to the Innocent Children that really need it. I was so gullible that I shared her FB page with about a hundred of my friends. After her FB Charity page was cancelled, due to fraudulent activity mind you, I apologised to all of those kind friends I had suggested, some even my own family members! I instructed all of those people to delete their name from her "like" list and listed all of the reasons why. It was a long process to go thru that list, but I felt morally obligated to right a wrong I had made by sharing a scandelous page with close friends and loved ones. Shame on you Amanda for all of the harm and disdain you have caused so many people here in Illinois. Instead of sleeping in your car, find a way to get gas money. Please, on behalf of at least a dozen people here in Illionis you have swindled, please get in that car and drive out of town. You are no longer welcome here. No one wants you in their home anymore. You cannot be trusted! Again, SHAME ON YOU!!! :-0

Dan, As with any person on the run, they need a good offense to try to defend themselves. To try and change the focus of the issue at hand. While we all have a mutual dislike for her, you have to give her some credit. At least she got to see some different cities along the way! She may be able to make amends with some of those people in other states. I will be honest. At the beginning of this charity, I too was cajoled into believing in it. Hell, I even helped make her some excel spread sheets with company profiles and how much they spent in charity donations! I thought that to be odd as she wanted to see which ones paid the most out to charities. Then gave me**because I was working 50 hours a week at the Holiday Inn, and couldn't put a whole lot of time into it and didn't have it done by her "deadline" I was never offered compensation. I was never even given a simple "thank-you". I guess sociopaths don't have those emotions that give them the ability to feel that they were helped, and acknowledge it in a rational manner. I did it out the kindness of my heart. I can't think of one time that she ever did me any favours. In fact all she did was start trouble, pull the wool over peoples eyes. Hold a couple of events where she reaped in a couple of thousand. (The figure isn't clear and I'm sure there is no record of it nor of where the donation money was allocated.)
All I know is that she did in fact get a makeover, and a "new set of outfits for a week" shortly after pocketing all of that money she took in. She claims I have "drug-problems". I'm pleased to say that I just passed a urine and a blood test for a high profile job. The audacity of her to make those false accusations. Accusations that were from someone that I haven't had contact with in 15 years. Someone with absolutely zero credibility and is a drug addict. All of that falseness aside, falseness that she has conjured up to distract the public from the real issue at hand and that is "Misuse of Charitable Donation funds" !!
I am ashamed of her for deceiving everyone and people that actually reached out to help her, and give her shelter when she had no place to sleep or go. I hope that soon the truth will be made public and the proper measures are taken to prevent this and other fake "charities", charities that are created for personal gain. GIve her credit Dan and everyone else, she has some intelligence in a way that she is very persuasive and cunning and gets people to "believe in her and her dream" Her dream is to make money. It's a fact she is unemployed, and hasn't had a job in 2+ years and couldn't hold on to one when she had that chance. I wish people like her would get help for their addictions, mainly alcohol, and try to get their life together for herself and her poor daughter. She does have the intelligence to make something of herself, let's just hope she doesn't end up getting busted for this scam she is pulling. I'm hoping Wildfire Harley cancels her event what with all of the info they have about her now. This thread was made to make the public aware to not give Amanda a hard earned nickel of your money. She is lazy, and unable to hold on to a career of employment. She is 40 years old if not 41 now. It's time to wake up and look in the mirror and think to yourslef , "what am I going to do with my life"? Maybe I can give u a little advice and that is GET A JOB! Mc'Donalds is hiring, and so is Wal-Mart! And the Subway in Schaumburg is hiring as well. It's time to get off your lazy butt, and EARN A LIVING instead of sponging off everyone else. You have burned all of your bridges here in Illinois. The only ones that still support you are ones that arent too bright and are susceptible to your conniving ways. It's time to get your life together without causing turmoil in everyone that you had as friends lives. Do it for your daughter. Make her proud to call you her Momma! You owe it to her!!!! Just like my son is very proud that I'm his Daddy! It's not too late to turn your life around. Have a blessed day. :-) 

Your heart goes out to me? What are you in, the Titanic movie? As for my 'mental instability', it is just fine and on the right track. As for you heard not long ago that I posted on FB that I wanted to kill myself... state who you heard that from to become some sort of truth cause I am alive and well. As for not finding a job in NC?... I was doing just fine. Suicide is what you should be looking into. If you need help with that, go find some of your so called 'friends' whom you hear things from who really don't know me well enough and let them help you with that task.

As for you believing in God, you don't believe in him and think people who pray to him is a waste of time. As for the 'unwanted malicious attacks' against you, you made your bed with nails in it, now you sleep in it. Or should you just go back to sleep in your car with it running with a hose connected from the tail pipe stuck in your mouth. That would be the best way for you to go.

As for the time on my hands, you have no idea what kind of time I really do have. I have the technology of being mobile. I am everywhere! I just might be in Villa Park and you won't even know I am there.

Eppolito and drug issues? Didn't you try selling him a bunch just to make some money about a year ago? I would know, I was offered the same stuff from you. When I told you to go stick it, you went to someone else to try and sell it to them. So sad you have to resort to selling drugs to make money. Maybe prostitution might be more up your career. Oh wait, you refuse to have any type of relationship cause you think a man's genitals are ugly and most guys would hurt your big fat butt. That is the only tight place besides your ears. Your mouth is big enough to stuff an extra large pizza in it and still have room for fries. Go on a diet before you topple over and become a turtle on it's shell. I would love to see that. I would even throw food at you just to watch you try and get it. Maybe even poke you with a cattle prod.

You can't resist to comment or be truthful. It's not in your nature. All you have done is lie, cheat, steal, con, make false promises, let children down, let your friends down, let your family down. Heck you certainly let the family of your friend you KILLED while drinking and driving. Now be a good little girl and go change your diaper cause I can smell it from here. Maybe go to McDonald's and eat everything on the value menu. Don't forget your Bud Light while there. It sucks to take up 2 seats on an airplane doesn't it? Have to pay double for them tickets, but you still only get one meal which really hurts you.

Amanda has lived in more places than crap itself. Aliases Ann M Garcia | Amanda Garcia ] Anna K. Garcia

Previous Locations Elk Grove Vlg, IL | Nashville, TN | Hanover Park, IL | Schaumburg, IL | Elk Grove
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I think spawning fish have less relocation than this piece of crap. She can't keep out of trouble or the courts in any state she has lived. Amanda is ALWAYS in trouble with the law and seems to attract flies where ever she puts her fat a**.

My heart goes out to Graiber - I worry about his mental instability.  I heard not long ago that he had posted on his FB that he wanted to kill himself because he could not find a job in NC.  I felt so bad for him, despite all the lies he said about me then and here I am now feeling sorry for him again.  Suicide is never the answer.

Life is tough and the road often gets rocky (lord I know about that right now with all the unwarranted malicious attacks against me) but it does get better.  I hope for Graiber, that it does indeed get better. I know it will for me.

Graiber must have a great deal of time on his hands to continually post lies about me.  Lies that really concern me.  I am frightened for what it must be like for him to have that mind of his that is so able to conjure up such unrealistic lies.   However, all that he has said is hurtful, obviously.  He has attacked my innocent daughter, made lie after lie about she and I both and then - tried to stop me from helping sexually abused children.  Sad, so very sad.

As for Eppolito, I thank him for not attacking my daughter the way Graiber did.  Well, he hasn't that I know of anyway.  Eppolito has long suffered with drug issues and I hope that he can come to terms with his demons as well because I want only good things for both of these people.  Most of all, I wish them to find peace in their hearts and to be happy.  It takes a lot out of a person to be consumed with such anger and rage and it is not good for their overall health.

I am not going to comment or read anymore on these sites.   I prefer to channel my energy back towards helping sexually abused children as opposed to defending laughable figments of their wild imaginations.

Amanda craps in her pants and wears diapers. This is supposed to be grown woman, but certainly can't handle herself or bodily functions. She needs to stop thinking she is helping people cause she certainly can't help herself.

Amanda freely gives her thoughts, but when you give your thoughts she doesn't want to hear them. She puts up her hand and tells you to talk to the hand, then in a childish voice she yells, "Chiddish".

This same person demands she be waited on hand and foot. Demands people to do everything for her. She is one lazy person who refuses to do anything herself.

Amanda has used the N.A.P.P. name since 2009 even though it was copyrighted and registered in the UK since 1975. Put food in a trough and watch her go crazy to eat it all. Put a bucket of Bud Light next to her with a straw and she will drink it. Go near her and she will threaten to kill you. Amanda also enjoys using the police department as her side arm to threaten and scare people. She has not self worth, no mannerism, no respect for other people, no remorse, and certainly not a lady by any means.

Is this the type of person YOU want to donate to? Is this the type of person YOU would trust with money? Would you even give a thought to this person who can't even manage herself let alone help sexually abused children? I wouldn't trust this person on the streets driving or in public. Amanda Parisi should be on 'America's BIGGEST Scammers and LOSERS'!

Um, yeah.

There are other people that this report has been forwarded to and you can expect that there will be a few more people that will voice their concerns here. Look at her eyes in the photo. That says it all!  She can't even keep them open! Can we say drunk and obliterated beyond coherentness?! I'd say so as apparently she urinates herself frequently because she's too drunk to stumble to the bathroom. Very Sad. You'd think she would have learned her lesson about the effects of heavy alcohol intake, especially after she killed her "best friend". You'd think that would have prompted her to seek help for her addiction. But instead, she's still going strong! She's even run up others people's bar-tabs without their permission because she didn't have the money to support the 18 beers and numerous shots that she drank that night. What a pathetic individual. A total "LOSER" !

Amanda is currently at the Motley Crue concert in Tinley park, IL. How did she get tickets to go if she doesn't have any money coming in? I bet she is drinking up a storm there as well. Maybe she will get behind the wheel and kill more people with her drunk driving ability. This time, they won't be friends but innocent people. Amanda can't handle the truth nor does she know the concept of what "Truth" really is. She lies about everything and cons people for money. Maybe she is accepting donations at the concert to fund her alcohol habit while there.

Amanda THINKS I don't have a job. I very much do. Yes I moved from N.Carolina back to Illinois recently but not cause I couldn't hold down a job. I have had my job since 1996 and it is still going. As for Amanda's cry for "I help who needs it" is rubbish. She doesn't help a single person, but her pocket. Illegal is illegal. As for her lack of brains, she killed a person because of her drunk driving. She killed a friend of hers to make matters worse. Amanda can't survive without a Bud Light in hand and screwing innocent people in the process. She has lost many friends within the past few weeks because of her lies and fraudulent ways. Everyone is sick of her and her stories. She is a little to late to come clean and provide proof that she is running a legal charity. Should have thought about that when she started this charity. Follow the rules set forth from the beginning and everything would have been legit. Amanda is begging for peoples forgiveness and see her side. She has no clue nor will she get one unless she buys one.

The rebuttal by the owner of this fraudulent charity obviously feels the need to defend herself against allegations that MANY of her friends, that became Ex-friends subsequently due to these people finding out the truth on where the money goes, and in general seeing the kind of spiteful, and full of hatred that this woman possesses. She claims that I can't hold a job? Sorry honey, I am an Engineer for a well respected hotel chain called the Holiday Inn. You may have heard of it. I have also gotten a degree in HVAC-R technologies from The Environmental Technical Institute. Ms. Parisi CANNOT hold a job. It has been proven by her track record at all of her former employers, and there are a LOT of them. I have been with the Holiday Inn now for 6 years. All of my credentials can be verified by contacting my HVAC-R school, or by contacting the International Hospitality Group, whom I work for exclusively. Ms. Parisi has no means of income, except for the thousands of dollars that were DONATED TO CHILDREN WHO NEED IT, which never made it to those children. I encourage as well as challenge you to ask Ms. Parisi to furnish some kind of list of people that have benefited from her charity besides herself. A list that can be readily verified. There is no doubt in my mind, nor a LOT of other former friends of hers minds that the money is being used improperly, thus there is an investigation being launched against her from a number of different agencies. The time has come for the "Innocent Children Foundation" and it's sole proprietor, Amanda K. Parisi to be put out of business for good. Her judement day is soon to come. To make the record clear, I have not done any of the footwork on proving the allegations against the  "Innocent Children Foundation" and it's sole proprietor. This is being done by many diligent people who have had enough of watching this fraudulent charity commit deception to many kind, charitable people. Let the facts be as they may. Because, sooner rather than later, we ALL will find out the truth, and we will ALL be there to watch this con-artist be put out of the scamming business.

The truth: My name is correct, my daughter's name is correct, the name of my Charity is correct and the name of her offender is correct.  The rest is lies.

My daughter was 14 and could not file as she was a minor.  She told me, she asked to go to the cops and we did.  We filed the report, the Detective did their work and her offender plead guilty.  You can look up the court case online, it isn't difficult to find. My daughter was brave and testified against him in court via a victim impact statement. I was very proud of her, it's not easy to confront your attacker.

I was being cyber stalked by the offender and I did what I had to do.  I flew to Seattle and passed out fliers.  The reason I did that was because Washington State does not put level 1 offenders online.  I was not sure if he was looking for my daughter or not and we were both worried he was.


The fact Dan Graiber would post this way about my daughter really gives you some idea what kind of person he really is.  He has a child he never sees and I can only assume that it is because he is so mentally unstable. 



I do live with my 80 year old parents.  Thankfully I have, it has provided me the opportunity to develop this Charity.  Developing a business is a lot of work and I would not have been able to devote the time to it the way I was and I thank my loving parents for that.

I do not get unemployment. I do not state I live in EG, my drivers license reflects my actual address.

I don't party like a rock star nor have I ever claimed to.  I don't use that verbiage. You will never hear me talk that way, ever.  I have never been to Lisa Madigan's office nor did I beg her for anything.  Dan Graiber once again proved how unintelligent he is because Lisa Madigan has nothing to do with the 501c3 process.

Some towns require a raffle permit and when we conduct a split the pot we acquire one.  The towns who won't allow organizations to have a raffle permit because they are not operating 5 years or more we don't go there.  I don't do anything illegal and NOBODY has busted me or talked to me. I never paid any fines either because I have not done anything wrong.

I am clear what my Charity does.  We help SEXUALLY abused children.  I have clients we have helped, Mr. Graiber has not met them is all.  I don't hand select, I have had meetings at agencies and we are working with those agencies.  THEY select the children, not me.  I select how we help but not who.

I don't pocket money.  I haven't even had a salary. Mr. Graiber could not even get the name of my event correct.  It is Promising Rachel which is a tribute to her because I promised her I would do whatever I could to stop this from happening and to help those already affected.

My daughter does live with me.  She moves out soon though.  I raised her right and she is responsible and ready to move out on her own.  My daughter will be volunteering at the event, she DOES support what I do.  Another lie from Graiber.

I did not rcv SEVERAL thousand in donations at the event.  I wish we did, we could have helped more children!  I am posting the documents in a few weeks, BEFORE the run.  I am at the mercy of my web developer but they will be posted.

I did not use money to fly to Washington.  A friend gave me a buddy pass and another friend bought my second flight out there.  

I have never owned a pair of Jimmy Choo's.  I prefer to be in flip flops every day - all day. I went to New Orleans with my refund last year on a buddy pass I purchased from my friend.

In 1993 my best friend was living with me from Texas.  I was a single Mom, going to school for Nursing and working a FT job. My Mom kicked my friend out and we drove around all night and yes we did drink.  I was 21 and she was 19.  There was a truck in front of me and I swerved to miss and we were in an accident.  My best friend died as a result.  I begged the Judge to send me to prison but he didn't. He said this was an accident I would have to live with and that was punishment enough.  I think of her everyday, have been to see her and I am in constant contact with her daughter who has no ill feelings toward me.  I love the little story Graiber concocted, more proof he is out of touch with reality. I had a public defender on that case.

I have not made any decisions on where I will be living but I would love to be in Florida, yes.  I have a plethora of friends who want to be part of this wonderful organization.

I never sent emails. I don't communicate with those people ON ANY LEVEL.  Any emails are made up much like this post was.  

Anyone who needs to talk to me may reach out to me personally.  I think Graiber and Eppolito and their followers have proved themselves untrustworthy.  

Graiber nor Eppolito can hold a job.  Graiber had to come back to Illinois because he could not make it in North Carolina.  I built something wonderful and because each of them lacks the sagacity to come up with such a concept OR possess the caring heart required to see this through, they are unemployed and attacking me because they are angry one day I WILL be paid for this business.  I cannot be held accountable for their misfortunes.  Nor can the children and families I help.

Best,
Amanda