Laura McClure, Ellie McClure Proceed with Caution Atlanta Internet

This is crazy! I met Laura (A.K.A. Rachel) from a posting she placed on seeking arrangement. It all makes sense now because she was telling me some off the wall stories. When I was discussing my lunch date with Laura my buddy told me he was also talking to her and gave him a totally different story about her situation. I decided to Google her name and started reading. I hope all the men in Atlanta are made aware of this woman and every other sociopath that uses men. Until the laws change woman are always going to abuse the legal system. Get use to it!

I would recommend you read Dating a Sociopath to learn more about your situation. My experience spans many years with female sociopaths and I would agree with Magamuff that you did the right thing getting the message out on Laura McClure. If what you explained is true, Laura McClure has all the characteristics of a female sociopath. Female sociopaths are known to use sex as a tool to lure their man, they will play a victim to their past, they will always look for a rescuer (someone to pay their way), and offer her male counterpart a bright an amazing future. Are you listening? You are upset and hurt, and Laura is probably making you the bitter ex and should get over it. I agree that Laura McClure is a nightmare! I will go further and say she is a train wreck waiting to happen and you should be thrilled you won’t be on that train when it crashes. I would recommend you seek a support group so you realize you were in a relationship with a female sociopath.

 I am so very sorry to hear of your experience with Laura McClure. I too was struck by a female Sociopath and every word you written resonate strongly with me. Yes, it can feel like the most vicious attack in your entire life. I lost my home, financial security, my friends, everything thanks to this woman. I understand completely how bad you feel. You were very cruelly violated! I bet you feel your very soul has been ripped to shreds don't you? You're angry and you have every right to be. The drama and chaos she wreaked has broken you! The good news is that you can and will recover from this. I have a very good friend I made in recovery and she has helped me so much.

Her name is Paula and she wrote a book Escaping the Boy and she has her own blog 'IDENTIFYING a NARCISSISTIC SOCIOPATH' and it's for anyone to share their stories of their own experiences with Female Sociopaths and it is where you will receive all the validation and support you need. Another good website is PSYCHOPATH FREE. They also have a book to download and this became my bible. Once I read it, it all finally fitted together and I was then able to start healing. I am also creating my own blog 'Life, Interrupted: Personal Memoirs from Survivors of narcissistic abuse' which I hope to publish within the next few weeks. Please don't despair because you will get through this, I promise. If there's anything I can do to help, please let me know!

I want to thank you for posting your experience with Laura McClure and I have emailed you my name and contact information. I am posting this comment to apologize to you on being with her while she was still living with you. I wasn't informed by Laura that she was in a relationship and she actually told me she hasn't been in a relationship for awhile. It is terrible that she was issued a Temporary Protective Order and literally stole all your possessions. If your case ever goes to court her lawyer is going to claim she is insane. Because a professional thief doesn't completely clean out your home. This is something a insane psychotic person does!
  
 

First, you must understand the Characteristics of Female Sociopaths. How many female sociopaths are there? According to Robert Hare, he believes that about 1% of the population fits the profile of a female psychopath. However, there are some things to keep in mind here. When most people think of 'sociopath' they typically think 'male' and 'serial killer'. They do not generally think of women psychopaths. This can lead to a situation where they are dealing with a psychopath in their life but do not realize who they are dealing with. Add to this the fact female sociopaths have been called chameleons for their ability to blend into society and it adds to the difficulty in counting them. That’s what I believe happen with your situation with Laura McClure of Atlanta, Georgia.

Female sociopaths show up in society unlike males. It’s much more usual to be money or power related, which I believe happened in your situation with Laura McClure. The reason I am saying that is the fact what you mentioned her never having employment, being a prostitute, having Ronald Smith an attorney from Beverly Hills who was 40 years older provide for her, and the fact she is reaching out for another man to provide for her and fall into her fake world. Some female sociopaths demonstrate antisocial behavior as children and as adolescents. These behavior issues are on the grounds of lying, stealing, and truancy, not close to family, drug abuse, and impulse decisions. Some therapists believe that there is such a disregard for society among them that a sociopath that has not broken the law just hasn't been found out yet! Based on your writings it appears Laura McClure who grew up in Strathmore, California then moved to Los Angeles, and now lives in Atlanta, Georgia must have had these tendencies at an early stage in her life.

Now the socialized sociopaths are the ones that are so difficult to count! Despite their sociopath symptoms, they manage to integrate themselves into society to varying degrees. Is this sounding familiar? Everything from solitary lives where they live on the money they make from crimes for which they are not caught, to getting married, settling down and having children. It's interesting to read or listen to the stories of some of these female sociopaths. You can read more stories at decision-making-confidence (.com). Typically, they realize as children that they are different in some way. They think differently and make different decisions. Then they begin to understand that they are not so 'affected' by emotions. It's seems that it's common for them to think that this is because they are smarter than those around them. They begin from an early age to look for clues to recognize the emotions that others are actually having. They learn to mimic the emotions so as not to stand out, or to please others. They learn to create relationships that are beneficial for them. Does this sound familiar in your situation with Laura McClure of Atlanta, Georgia?

Female sociopaths have all the symptoms of sociopaths. The lying, the parasitic lifestyle, the need for excitement and the desire to control. It's possible that there are many female sociopaths who live, for all intents and purposes, what looks like a normal life from the outside. They are content to just blend in and do what "normal" people do. Others however, want more. More money, more power, more control, more excitement. And they get themselves into trouble because of the impulsivity or the failure to control their emotions, or the irresponsibility. Is this starting to sound a lot like Laura McClure of Atlanta? One of the ways this shows up is in problems in their relationship and marriage. In true sociopath style, they attract a man, create an intimate relationship, influence his decision making and get married. It's common for them to isolate the man from his friends and family to varying degrees. They can be very domineering and controlling, using sex as a means to manipulate. The man may suffer verbal abuse, psychological abuse, emotional abuse and even physical abuse. You really need to be careful about Laura McClure who is from Strathmore, California and lives in Atlanta, Georgia.

So you had a bad experience? In family matters where the police or the courts involved, they have no difficulty in lying, inventing stories and doing whatever is necessary to get what they want. They can play the victim role very well, as most sociopaths do, and will use society's preferences towards women and mothers to their advantage. Some female sociopaths simply go from one relationship to another. They use their sociopathic charm, good looks and female wiles to create a relationship, take what they want and then disappear, leaving a trail of brokenhearted and confused men behind them. Men who are somewhat poorer after the experience! This is definitely sounding like Laura McClure of Atlanta, Georgia.

“She will choose you, charm you with her words, and control you with this presence. She will delight you with her wit and her plans. She will show you a good time, but you will always get the bill. She will smile and deceive you, and she will scare you with her eyes. And when she is through with you, and she will be through with you, she will desert you and take with her your innocence and your pride. You will be left much sadder but not a lot wiser, and for a long time you will wonder what you did wrong. From an essay signed”, "A psychopath in prison".

We normally think women are empathic and nurturing and don't expect to see cold-hearted, uncaring, callous behaviors in women. We don't consider that they could be more devious, manipulative, destructive, vindictive and downright nasty than their male counterparts. But just ask any man who has been a victim of female sociopaths...! You are no different than they are and the best way is doing exactly what you have done, which is getting the word out to the public on Laura McClure of Atlanta, Georgia.

Believe it or not, you did the right thing. This will sound terribly unprofessional but you did the right thing by reporting her. You saved thousands of men from losing money, time and their hearts. I realize this woman is more than just a con artist, she's a DANGEROUS THREAT TO "MEN-KIND." She hussles men. Multiple men, simultaneously. 

I have worked in many jobs -psychic advisor (where basically I was a relationship strategist) and marriage coach, private relationship counselor, etc. My site is psychichelena (dot com) And believe me, I have seen a lot of horrible people in my time! But NONE compare to this horrible woman!! SHE IS A NIGHTMARE to anyone she comes in contact with. 

She is A SOCIOPATH. Meaning, she has NO empathy for others -including the men she's conned/hurt. That said, contratulations. Because it seems you saved yourself -she has the ability to feel no empathy or remorse for doing deranged things such as murdering for life insurance. No joke. Sociopaths - there are literally hundreds of support groups for people who find themselves in or discover they have been in a relationship with a sociopath, so you might want to check that out. Not that you need support per se, you seem to be doing well. But these con artists with the gift of gab ruin good people like you. Stay strong. :)