Nicolas Alan Augugliaro Dead Beat Dad In The Military And Refuses To Support His Daughter,Tells Her To Go On Welfare Fort Hood Texas

Ok... first off, there are 56,400 results on Google if you search the term 'Military Deadbeat Dads.'

Second of all, the sheep protect the herd. I went to the military.com forum boards to ask for help in dealing with my deadbeat dad. All these guys did was cloud the issue with regards to questions about my moral character for having had a baby with a man I wasn't married to. They implied I was a tramp and that I was stupid because I got involved with the wrong guy, etc.

So do not expect the military to help.

Also, don't count on child support enforcement either.

Let me tell you the story.

I was married. We split up. It was the most amicable marital break up anyone has ever seen. I've never had a bad word to say about him, nor he about me. We were just 'friends' and not 'lovers', so we parted as friends too.

We were together for NINE years. We built up quite a lot of assets and we didn't want to rush liquidating our assets in a firesale for a divorce. So we put the divorce on hold while we secured our assets.

Then I met Michael Santerre. The love of my life. And he wanted a baby.
We had a baby. Not knowing that the state would not allow MIKE to claim his own son just because I was married to someone else.

In two years, Mike and his brother had robbed me blind, destroyed the business that Mike and I started, and ruined my credit when Mike didn't make the payments on our equipment as he was supposed to do since he kept all the money that it brought in and I never saw a dime of it come into the household.

I asked him to get a JOB.
He went out for 3 hours
Retruned home
Told me he was going to join the National Guard

But he would have to get his GED and it would be MONTHS before he even left for Boot Camp.

No one is going to give you a job now.

Great strategy, huh?

In November of 2007, when were penniless. couldn't pay our electric bill, and facing foreclosure, he walked out. Leaving me with the 22 month old, and 2 months pregnant with the 2nd.

For 6 months, he lived comfortably with Mommy (refusing to get a JOB or do DAY LABOR to help with ANY support) while my son and I flopped from friend to friend and relative to relative, sleeping on people's floors. No one would hire a pregnant woman, so no job for me. When my son and I had to go to a SHELTER, and I told him that, he called ME a piece of s**t.

Oh yeah, I went to Child Support Enforcement to file for support.

Here's the article I posted on my "Financial Help For Single Mom's" Blog

"Child Support Enforcement refused to even acknowledge the existence of the man who is in fact the biological father of the children. They wasted over a year 'waiting' on me to get a divorce that they advised me to get, without serving either of the men in question. Three separate free consultations with private attorney's advised me that the quickest course of action would be to serve both men at the same time, however, Child Support Enforcement summarily dismissed that option with a flippant 'We don't do that' response.

Since Novermber of 2007, I have been trying to get my children's biological father served with papers for paternity and child support. To add insult to injury, he is in the Florida U.S. Army National Guard Reserves. The military is supposed to be the one place that "Deadbeat Dad's" can't hide, right? Wrong.

After a year and a half of getting the 'divorce' per the 'legal advice' I was given by my local Child Support Enforcement Office in Port Richey, Florida, and getting the 'correct' wording in it too, the time has come to serve the Deadbeat Dad. According to Child Support Enforcement's Customer Service line, they contacted his "Sargeant" on May 4,2009 for an address for service.

As of May 19,2009, the "Sargeant" had not returned their phone call. However, on May 14, 2009, the Deadbeat Dad himself called Child Support Enforcement to inform them that he would be going to Iraq the next week. It seems he cannot be served while he is overseas.

On May 20, 2009, the update I got from the Florida Department of Revenue, who oversees Child Support Enforcement, states that he may not in fact be leaving for Iraq for yet another week, giving us time to serve him, and has finally produced an address too.

On May 19, I started calling the DOR when CSE informed me that they 'tried' to serve him but could not get 'confirmation' from the post office that he lives at the address provided to them and the "Sargeant" had not called back to confirm his address either. When I called DOR, I was furious. He has a driver's license, serve him at whatever address is on it. If he claims he never 'got the summons' that's too bad, just as it is with anyone else who gets a summons to appear in court.

This has finally resulted in some action, and I should get another update tomorrow. Meanwhile, I will now explore the "Miliatary Protecting Deadbeat Dads" problem that I have seen during this circus of a simple child support case.


I'm sorry to tell you this my friend, but you will not get any help from CSE, or the Military.

There are loopholes in the SSCRA (The Military Act that protectes their rights,) but in Florida, the 'attorney' (remember, not YOUR ATTORNEY, DOR and CSE's Attorney) isn't contracted to exploit the loopholes.

And you sure as Hell can't trust an attorney even if you CAN afford one.

Even HERE on the INTERNET, I have not been able to find any case law regarding the matter at all, let alone, ones that were argued successfully for the Custodial Parent.

Go to your local county law library, and ask the librarian to help you research the case to see if you can find case law to support yours. You can also try to find a Military Law Library where you can look up similar cases to find case law to state in your own.

Then, file your own suit, and argue yourself.

Now that my "Military Deadbeat Dad" has been SERVED and the 'filing fees' have been paid for by the state, I WILL be at EVERY HEARING, and I will argue if the attorney doesn't! And if I can fire him without having to restart the case, by God, I will fire him right in front of the judge, and begin representing myself to MAKE A CASE.

And if that doesn't work, plan B. I'll update AFTER it's been executed. His brother, Richard J Santerre's, ex wife has a report about HIM on Rip Off Report and the current floozy wife reads it, so I dont' want to tip my hand.

Good luck. And if you need help, just private message me on this board if you can or reply to the thread.

What you need to do is go to the agency who is in charge of child support enforment and file a case with them. Once you get a court order for child support, then you need to contact your ex husbands commanding officer and fax a copy of this order to him. The miliitary does NOT tell soldiers/sailors to not pay their support. They can only enforce it when it is a court order. Until then they can not make him be a responsible dad and take care of his child. So again get the court order and then fax a copy to his commanding officer. Trust me once you do this you will see results asap. I have been through this before and found out that this is the best way to get results.

there is no doubt that what you say is true. my exhusbands commander -when he was in korea-protected him like their most precious element and he was banging all sorts of hookers there, a military employee and other soldiers. they said adultery was fine and whether i could make house payments or not wasnt their problem. we had a joint bank account and he kept withdrawing to pay for the hookers. my job at the time paid me 10dls an hour. he wouldnt sign the divorce papers and i know JAG doesnt solve family matters where a child is involved.

what you need to look at is as to whether or not he is claiming that he is in fact paying this child support, he might be using your son to get extra money even though you cant get it. if the b*****d retires out of the military your child is entitled to money but the va will take the money out themselves, they wont deal with him.

go thru the food stamp or welfare office and draw welfare and believe me, when you put in the application that he isnt paying you support-they will look for him and get it out of his check, in fact when you file they will assist you with that matter. the state will help but somebody will pay and that somebody will be your jackass of an exhusband.

for future refrence, be careful what a guy tells you to bamboozle you, most military guys will tell you that they are nice and they are "in the middle of a divorce" with a mean exwife and what this means is that they have done to others what they hav done to you. also see how he treats those around him, cats, dogs, other family. does he drink a lot, does he have lots of pictures and tropheys about him but nothing or none else. this will indicate a narcisisistic personality and you cant work with that. you danmn near have to be a criminal profiler to deal with this jerks, not just military but with a lot of men.

good luck and i hope your problem is solved pretty soon. remember that you can take paternal right away after one year of not paying child support. as soon as your kid understands make sure to let him know that his father isnt willing to pay crap because lots of times the men try to steal your kid when they are older and then they get you!!!! for the child support and you cant tell the court that he didnt pay you before---they will garnish...my ex did it to me.

also, on the bright side-karma did get my ex and so can it get yours... my ex husband has sexual related problems and lost an eye.

No you are not wrong in asuming that JAG and the military legal office are one in the same.......and no.....when it comes to civil matters they will not and can not help you out.......the reason the legal office was able to assist you is because you and your husband were stationed in Germany therefore falling under a whole other set of circumstances. If you are deployed overseas they will help you because there is no other assistance you can obtain. Another thing is.......with him moving and deploying so much.....it is very difficult to get him served and then when he can be there is always the issue of which state has jurisdiction because I live in Georgia now and he resides in Texas.....but thanks for the information.....I just wish it were that simple.

That's funny when I was living in Germany (with my husband) my ex filed a motion in court to lower his amount of child support payments. (which was fine by me he has had 2 more children since mine and they and the 2 he had before mine, needed it more.) But I got a supeona (yes, in Germany) that I had to appear in court. I set up an appointment with legal, went to it and the lawyer not only drafted a letter explaining why I could not make it to court on said date for me. But she also wrote an email to my ex's lawyer about the no more child support and my ex signing over his rights so that my husband could adopt my child.

Or maybe as a military wife I'm confused and thinking that JAG and the legal office are the same thing. If they aren't maybe you should try the legal office instead of JAG. You will probably get all of the help you need (including the fact that he does NOT have to be there for the child support proceedings it's just in his best interest to be there.) and more.

Good luck!

Ok first off......if u knew anything about JAG then u would know that they cant and wont help u out where civil matters are conerned......so you should probably try looking into that as I already have. As far as the provost marshall goes they can only enforce what court orders are already existing and in place which have not happened yet because I have been going back and fourth to court for 8 years now and he keeps changing addresses and going overseas making it hard to pull him into court.

Ok first off......if u knew anything about JAG then u would know that they cant and wont help u out where civil matters are conerned......so you should probably try looking into that as I already have. As far as the provost marshall goes they can only enforce what court orders are already existing and in place which have not happened yet because I have been going back and fourth to court for 8 years now and he keeps changing addresses and going overseas making it hard to pull him into court.

Ok first off......if u knew anything about JAG then u would know that they cant and wont help u out where civil matters are conerned......so you should probably try looking into that as I already have. As far as the provost marshall goes they can only enforce what court orders are already existing and in place which have not happened yet because I have been going back and fourth to court for 8 years now and he keeps changing addresses and going overseas making it hard to pull him into court.

Ok first off......if u knew anything about JAG then u would know that they cant and wont help u out where civil matters are conerned......so you should probably try looking into that as I already have. As far as the provost marshall goes they can only enforce what court orders are already existing and in place which have not happened yet because I have been going back and fourth to court for 8 years now and he keeps changing addresses and going overseas making it hard to pull him into court.

If your statement is true you need to contact the base provost marshal and file your complaint to him or the Judge Advocant and they will persue your complaint and through him in the brig.The Government will not tolerate non support beings it is a federal offense for criminal non support and does carry a hefty fine and prison sentence (FELONY)

If your statement is true you need to contact the base provost marshal and file your complaint to him or the Judge Advocant and they will persue your complaint and through him in the brig.The Government will not tolerate non support beings it is a federal offense for criminal non support and does carry a hefty fine and prison sentence (FELONY)

If your statement is true you need to contact the base provost marshal and file your complaint to him or the Judge Advocant and they will persue your complaint and through him in the brig.The Government will not tolerate non support beings it is a federal offense for criminal non support and does carry a hefty fine and prison sentence (FELONY)

If your statement is true you need to contact the base provost marshal and file your complaint to him or the Judge Advocant and they will persue your complaint and through him in the brig.The Government will not tolerate non support beings it is a federal offense for criminal non support and does carry a hefty fine and prison sentence (FELONY)