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Complaint Review: Oklahoma County DHS - Oklahoma City Oklahoma

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  • Oklahoma County DHS 6305 N Classen Oklahoma City, Oklahoma U.S.A.

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Well for starters I will tell you that I married the wrong woman for me. When I met her she was going thru a dhs custody battle on her two kids, had an std that you could not get rid of (herpes) and in an abusive relationship. I fell in love with her for the wrong reasons and leads me to today. We were working on fixing our relationship when we had a car accident in oklahoma city being from georgia on a trip to find out she was pregnant.

During the time here in oklahoma city we were not allowed to travel because of our injuries and her pregnancy. In feb of 2005 we had a son named DeJuan Jr who was having some problems medically. The whole time of his stay at childrens hospital we had appointments of our own from the injuries in the car wreck. We were advised by the staff at the hospital that we should stay at the shelter in Oklahoma city to cut costs of motels that we were staying in. As childrens hospital was treating our son they would force us to make decisions on our sons health from only one doctor even if we asked for a second opinion on what to do about our sons health.

While I was looking for new options for our sons health care the hospital called dhs saying that we were not trying to take care of our sons health because we did not agree with all the treatments. One that we fought with the hospital about was feeding. They wanted to use a tube even if he was eating when it was not up to their standard. We were scolded by staff for feeding him in between their feeding times even if he showed signs of being hungry.

When they used the feeding tube on him we watched as his stomach would be so full that the fluid would come out of his mouth and nose almost choking him. At that point I wanted to do a hospital transfer. That evening I was approached by the hospital security was the rumor that I was kidnapping my son from the hospital. Later on I found out that if you bring a child to childrens hospital in oklhaoma that you are giving that hospital custody of your child giving the doctor the right to do what ever they want.

The next day we were visited by the state investigator for dhs. He asked for my information on my job and where we lived. I provided my moms address since we lost our home being in oklahoma. I also worked for my uncle with his trucking company before the accident while starting my own business also. When the officer left he informed us that our son was now in oklahoma custody for deprivation and not allowing medical treatment. He also informed us that we had a court date the next day to see if it was a lawful adjudication of our son. We got to court and the referee informed us that it was lawful without even asking us one question or asking if we had counsel.

Later we found out that one of the nurses had like the way our son looked and filed for guardianship the same day we were at court. We got our court date but was not allowed to see our son till that day. Every court date that I attended was met with ridicule for not providing for my son and they filed that we were not trying. We both got jobs in oklahoma city even against doctors orders, found a home, started the treatment plan that they said was needed.

After about two court hearings the documents for our case started to read wrong with false statements as well as new things that were not even apart of the case. We started to find out things about how to work the system to get our son back and they would change our caseworker. The current worker flat out told me that she does not believe that I should get my son back in front of my wife then would only talk to her about the case. One day she came to me crying saying that the case worker said that she should leave me if she wants to have a family.

During that time she became pregnant with our second son. The case worker told me that if we want to keep him out of the system that we should find a family member to take custody of him. Every family member we went to turned us away because oklahoma had police over at there homes and jobs saying that if they took in their family they would end up in jail. To add even more insult to the hurt, when katrina happened i was not allowed to house any family that had children at home, even my daughter that I have not seen since coming to oklahoma. The case worker then started to work on my wife saying that I did not care about my kids that is why I did nothing for family when the hurricane hit ( on a side note, my dad's dad lost his ssi check for almost two years when the state said he was dead but he was on the news as one of the people rescued on camera.) So we constantly questioned each other to the point that we started drifting apart.

I was trying to help her get the boys back even after she left me but I feel that the case worker who is an ex cop is telling her that she should make me look bad to the judge by getting me arrested on lies and even going around town using those lies. I have witnesses that have tried to show cause in court but the court room never hears a word of what is really going on. I have provided documents that are never seen, witnesses, and other people that have dealt with dhs in some form but it is not ever heard or seen.

Well today my wife is pregnant for a man in jail for molesting a child and the courts allowed her a vpo on lies but I can't get one on truth. She gets all the help in the world for getting the kids back and I get to hear that they will terminate my rights. I never had to fight this hard ever in my life and I did things most people have never accomplished like the first to score perfect on the ged test, got my cdl at 18 with a trucking job, scored perfect on the asvab for the military with the dream job in satellite communications, and to make even more things that I have done that was a fight was to own my own trucking company at the age of 21. Every lawyer I have talked with will not even try to help with my case or even give me any hope but I know that truth is supposed to prevail right?

Dejuan
Del City, Oklahoma
U.S.A.

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#5 General Comment

Stop lying

AUTHOR: Anon - (United States)

POSTED: Saturday, September 08, 2018

I am related to Tabitha Dorsey and please believe me when I say you can never believe anything she says. She has no problem lying and even ruining other people's lives if it will get her what she wants. What she fails to say here is that CPS took her two children in Augusta, GA because her oldest child was severly abused. That poor, beautiful little girl will be disabled for the rest of her life due to shaken baby syndrome. She is a liar and you should take anything she says with a grain of salt. If she says the sky is blue you had better go check. She cares about noone but Tabitha.

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Ex CPS Worker

AUTHOR: Skepticaloptimist - (U.S.A.)

POSTED: Friday, November 28, 2008

I was a CPS worker in Texas for ten years. I left in 2000 to pursue a career in sales after I was just about bankrupt - it pays so little. I assure you that although oft-cited, there is no system of bonuses in place for snatching children from families. In fact, CPS workers are overworked, underpaid, underappreciated, and have huge caseloads with far too many children to manage as it is. They don't want or need any more of yours. Abused and neglected children frequently have huge medical and psychological issues that make them difficult to adopt out and they are frequently older than the average easily adoptable child. There is a huge backlog of children waiting to be adopted in every state. Check it out. Its online, you don't have to take my word for it. In my honest opinion, caseworkers and supervisors often err in failing to protect children who SHOULD be removed from abusive homes and who are allowed to stay, or who are returned multiple times instead of just being adopted out to families who might care for them instead of abusing and neglecting them if the agency only intervened when the children were younger and at a more adoptable age, and with fewer problems and issues.

There ARE some workers who are lazy and for whom social work is just a job, or a paycheck. They should get out of the business. When I worked for CPS, I testified AGAINST the state, AGAINST the position of CPS, the agency I worked for, on two occasions. Because I believed that testifying against my conscience would have been tantamount to perjury. Just a hint though, the parents did NOT benefit from my honest testimony. I also closed down four or five foster homes during my tenure with the agency because I merely suspected that they might not be providing the highest standard of care that I expected for children, or because they may have failed to comply with a licensing standard. In my view, I didn't d**n well remove children from one home to place them in a substandard existence somewhere else. And if another worker did, SHAME ON THEM! Foster homes should be held to a much higher standard than other homes. In my view. And if that sounds harsh, well too bad.

And that camel dung about the agency being afraid to close homes due to lawsuits? I don't remember if I read that here or on another blog, but its completely bogus. People don't sue CPS that frequently, and I can think of only one or two successful cases, both justified and involving instances where the names of reporters were given out. And even if someone did sue, almost every employee carries legal insurance from the day they begin working for CPS. It costs about ten bucks a month. We're fairly aware that the agency wouldn't come to our rescue if we ever did happen to be named in a suit, so almost all of us carry a policy. We were never worried about lawsuits.

I was a single mother the entire time I worked for CPS, and I never neglected my own child, or left him home alone. I also managed to work my own way through college while pregnant and after having my son. So you can't complain to me about how tough it is or how it can't be done. I also never would have stayed with a man who abused me or my child. I don't respect men who abuse women or children, and I don't respect women who stay with men who do.

And yes. Some attornies suck. But whose fault is it that you've put yourselves in the position of having to deal with sucky attornies in the first place? And having to deal with CPS workers and complete service plans? And here you are complaining when really, it is the children who suffer in all of this regardless of the outcome. Regardless of whether or not they are eventually able to be returned to your care. Their lives are forever altered because of something over which they have no control. And that is the very sad truth.

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#3 Consumer Comment

And again Tabitha shows her stalking side

AUTHOR: Michelle - (U.S.A.)

POSTED: Thursday, November 27, 2008

I am the girl that the ex-wife mentioned in her rebuttal. I love Dejuan very much, and we are very happy together. So far myself and several other people that she had mentioned to me about how bad he treated her and other women tell me differently. she seems to be the liar here. And the person who stalks the other is her. She is crazy and needs to be locked up or on some really strong medications. He has never put hands on me. I lost the baby me and him were caring i believe because of the stress she was putting us through. She needs to quit trying to find us or stalking us. unless it has to do w/ divorce court. Which she says she filed for and there hasnt been any proof of that either. She is the biggest liar and i myself wish i would have known the whole truth before dealing w/ her.

I also know that she is not safe with children. And he is telling the truth that she had two other children taken away prior to them having children. so she is not what she says she is. shes an awful mother and person. SHE IS A DISGRACE TO ALL MOMS AND WOMEN!!!!!!

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#2 Consumer Suggestion

CPS CLASS ACTION LAWSUIT FOR STEALING OUR BABIES TO SELL

AUTHOR: Fightcps - (U.S.A.)

POSTED: Wednesday, October 29, 2008

CPS/DPSS CLASS ACTION LAWSUIT (RIVERSIDE, CA) FOR KIDNAPPING OUR CHILDREN WITHOUT CAUSE - We are organizing a class action lawsuit against the County of Riverside, the State of California, and all parties involved in unlawfully detaining and holding our children against our will, and without cause. We have documented the deep, imbedded corruption in the social services agencies in California. We have filed three lawsuits so far, and are looking for other families who have also been annihilated by this evil. Go to the link at www.Fightcps.com to join the fight to save our children.
TRUTH
CPS manufactures multiple nonexistent/fictitious abuse case scenarios to offset true statistical abuse case information.
CPS concurrently processes these children from foster care to Adoption, in order to obtain perverse monetary incentives in the form of bonuses.
CPS provides a market to neighboring agencies and the courts (Judges, psychologists, visitation monitors, court mandated behavioral class instructors, court appointed legal counsel, etc...), in order for them to financially benefit from the foster care/adoption system they themselves perpetuate.
CPS victimizes innocent financially challenged families, and draws them into a corrupt system to utilize their children as pawns for this corrupt child commerce.
CPS is utilized by family court officials and attorneys as an adverse tool to extricate children from one parent to the other, with reference to "parental alienation syndrome," where in truth, the CPS caseworkers are the ones initiating the alienation of these children from their own birth parents. Caseworkers are never allowed to testify in court under the cloak of "CPS Authority" due to possible misuse or conflict of interest related to right to privacy laws (Very convenient)
CPS utilizes unlawful & coercive measures to persuade vulnerable parents to submit to statements of nonexistent abuse, forcing desperate parents to "plea bargain" to a CPS fabricated crime, for the return of their children from foster care.
CPS fabricates false allegations and most of their "investigations" to purposely mislead or misdirect a case.
CPS intentionally fails to prosecute Parents accused of child abuse, since in the majority of cases, no initial crime has been committed. However, CPS continues to claim a crime has been committed, as THEY abuse/neglect the children.
CPS knowingly abandons children into the foster care system, conscious that some individuals in these homes physically and/or sexually abuse those in their "protective" custody. CPS ignores crimes committed in foster care through failure to investigate.
CPS fails to question these individuals for their abusive conduct, whereby, if it were a birth parent or not a foster care parent, these individuals would be prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law in criminal court.
CPS represents themselves in positive personas by ommitting, altering, and falsifying documents, so as to mislead the public and or government of their true actions as listed above. Thereby publicly grandstanding,displaying an inaccurate social martyrdom fo the well being of children.

The Police should determine if children need protection from their own parents, since child abuse is a Criminal offense.

"THE CLUB" PLAYERS IN THIS AREA

ALL THE FOLLOWING ARE GUILTY OF KNOWINGLY LYING IN THIS ABDUCTION OF OUR CHILD:

Dr. Shelley Susman = OB/GYN who knew mother had no drug history and confirmed her health, but allowed this abduction
MICHAEL BILES = NEWBORN BABY SNATCHER AT CPS - physically threatened mother and child with serious harm
Nurse Heather = DRMC Supervising Nurse, present at child abduction and backed up serious harm/threats to mother and child
Ms. Flores = DRMC records dept. superviser, stated we have NO access to our child's records or birth certificate [since CPS illigally abducted our newborn and adoptive parent's names are on birth certificate]
Valerie Bedore = Banning City CPS newborn baby abduction cohert, on 9/20/07admitted baby had negative meconium [no drugs in mother confirmed back to 16 weeks gestation pregnancy]
Karrene (Kay) Phillips = Banning City CPS baby abduction cohert, harrassed parents repeatedly at visitations
Ben Brandon = next CPS caseworker, threatened to stop visitations when he brought child late to visits, demanded Parents sign a "case plan" in attempt to prove innocent Parents guilty, when parents refused "case plan" threatened to stop visitations
Shawnee English = Moreno Valley CPS assistant who ripped newborn out of mother's arms at visitation when child was sick and parents were demanding medical attention; she refused medical treatement & parents had to call "911" to get help
Judge Christopher J. Sheldon = Juvenile Judge on Oasis Street in Indio, made mistaken rulings, refused Due Process to parents, refused Evidence and Facts in this case, finally recanted his rulings back to Jurisdiction Hearing, case transferred to Murrietta
Indio Juvenile Court Clerk = refused all submissions and legal filings from parents, refused to take amendments to case, refused to take any Evidence of parent's innocence to fight the wrongdoing by CPS, handed back all filings of Evidence by Parents
Modesto Rios = First attorney assigned to father by Judge Sheldon; Rios refused all calls and refused to communicate with father, refused all requests of father, failed to submit anything for defense of father, failed to state he had contact with father from the start of the case, admitted it finally in court as the transcripts prove = fired
David Weisen = First attorney assigned to mother by Judge Sheldon; Weisen refused all calls and refused to communicate with mother, failed to submit anything for defense of mother, failed to state he had contact with mother from the start of the case, admitted it finally in court as the transcripts prove = fired
Karen Cote = 2nd attorney assigned to father by Judge Sheldon; Cote stated that father could do nothing to help in this case, refused to submit anything for father, and stated father was to "do nothing"&"just wait" until Jurisdiction = fired [she refused to give father her email, refused to do her job, refused to work - last words to Mr. Whealton were "go F*** yourself and DIE!"]
Maria Soliz = 2nd attorney assigned to mother by Judge Sheldon; Soliz insisted on hair follicle test of mother, refused to give test, and then she refused to get hospital "sealed" records to disprove this misinterpretation.

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#1 Consumer Suggestion

DeJuan landry is not talling the whole story

AUTHOR: Tabitha Dorsey - (U.S.A.)

POSTED: Monday, October 20, 2008

I know for a fact DeJuan Landry is not telling the whole truth because I am his Ex-wife. He is saying that it is my fault that the state took the kids away but the reason the state took the kids is because he was very abusive. He tried to kill me on more than one occasion and the female he is with now even told me he strangled her. He is saying he married me for the wrong reason but he is the one who asked me to marry him about 3 weeks after we got together. Yes the hospital took the kids while i was in the hospital because of his demeanor. I have moved on with my life but he refuses to give me my divorce. After the state took our children he made me do things i did not really want to do. The state did tell me to stay with him if i wanted my kids back and then 12 days later he tried to kill me by strangling me. Then when he left the woman is got back with and she was scared to death of him me and my husband to be stayed with her for a few days. Then DeJuan tried to get me and my new man to break up by telling him his side of our relationship. Now he will not leave me and my new man alone. yes i did give him herpes but he knew about it before we even got together. He is the one who chose to take that risk so it is not my fault.

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