Complaint Review: Rafael Guerrero - Garden Grove California
Rafael Guerrero Rafael Guerrero, capricious, selfish, unkind, uncaring, unfeeling, acts sweet and loving then cuts you off abruptly!! Garden Grove California Garden Grove California
We've all been mistreated by others but Rafael Guerrero takes the cake!
We met on a dating app, began chatting, setup a luncheon date. We both stated we are not seeking a "hookup" but potentially a LTR. I picked him up because apparently at 19 years old he doesn't have enough ambition to have a drivers license or an automobile, this should have been the first red flag! We drove to an adjacent city for lunch reservations I planned.
I was a perfect chivalrous gentleman toward him, I held the door, held his chair, paid for lunch, opened the car door, etc. We had what I felt was a great conversation though somewhat superficial or perfunctory but that's to be expected when you don't know someone yet. Not knowing how Rafael felt I asked him after lunch if he'd like to return home or continue the date elsewhere.
He stated he'd like to talk some more in the car for now. As soon as we were both seated in the car he reached over and started kissing me, wow! I couldn't have been more surprised. Now I knew how he felt about me and has clearly expressed interest!! He then asked to see "it". ummmm, let's go someplace more private.
Reminding him we are not looking for the aforementioned hookup we both previously agreed to, he confirmed. We ended up back at my house and he pushed to go all the way. I relented as I was highly attracted to him and he's demure personality.
As soon as we hooked up I felt his demeanor change. Asked him if he wanted to hang out awhile he said he should be heading home. I drove him home, it was awkward as I didn't know what to say. I was bummed because I know he wasn't feeling the same as he did prior to him pushing for a hookup.
I told him if he needs time to process everything that would be ok with me and I was hoping to see him again and again. I dropped him off, no hug, barely a "bye". When I arrived back home after dropping him off he text me saying he thought he was ready for a relationship but is not and not even sure if he is gay blah blah blah.
I replied immediately to SLOW DOWN, don't make any rash decisions and if he needs a few days or weeks to think about it I would be ok because I felt we had a strong connection. The 2nd or 3rd text he blocked me, I didn't even get to express how I feel.
I contacted him on the app we met on, deleted. I messaged him on Instagram, he blocked me. I messaged him on Facebook, he blocked or deleted. I messaged him on whatsapp because I HAD SOMETHING TO SAY!!! He blocked me.
I messaged him from a texting app on a spoofed number, he blocked me. NO REPLY JUST BLOCK BLOCK BLOCK! WTF, you would think I abused him, mistreated him, lied or cheated!! I was EXTREMELY butthurt.
I donwloaded a 2nd number to text him from, this time I gave him an ultimatum, you answer me or I am coming to your apartment and I will talk to anyone who answers the door. He IMMEDIATELY called me, he was being a complete jerk. I told him I want 10 minutes in person and if he still feels the same I will never contact him again, he refused and began insulting me.
I'm thinking to myself you're a nobody, zero accolades or accomplishments in life and you are insulting me!?? Then he said I "kept" talking about my ex's, ummm, no, you asked me my dating relationship history and I told you I have had 3 long term relationships, I was merely sharing so you would know where I am coming from and to establish the fact that I have been in several long term relationships and I was not the one who ended them!!!
I repeatedly asked why, why are you treating me this way. He had a plethora of flimsy excuses. I asked him to please just wait and ponder this over the next couple of weeks, don't be so rash!! After 3 hours of bickering he began being nice, I was taken aback but it was also refreshing. He claimed he would unblock me from texts because I said it really bothered me. He did, temporarily at least.
A week and a half later I text him briefly to share a potential life changing accomplishment I've been working on for years is coming to fruition (partially because he inquired on the previous phone call). No response, no "congratulations", no "that's great", N O T H I N G! Just classless I text him again 10 days or so later, he said he's still not ready to talk, "leave me alone". WOW, what exactly did I do again besides give it to you???
About a month later, he calls me on a Saturday night, I was happy to hear from him, I thought. He proceeds to tell me "I've been thinking about it and I've asked myself 'would I be ok if I never see you again?' and I would be fine". WOWWWWWWWWWWWWWW I laid into him and told him what I thought!
I text him later telling him I had given it some thought and it probably took courage to call and tell me that even though It was not what I wanted to hear. No response so I called. He didn't answer he did call back 10 minutes later with an attitude saying " WHAT, WHAT DO YOU WANT?"
This guy is one of the most capricious two faced lying misleading a-holes I've ever dated, and I've met a lot of jerks! Your problem Rafael Guerrero is you don't know what's out there, you have no idea what a great catch I am!
Like I said on the phone your parents clearly didn't teach you how to treat other human beings and they must be beaming with pride!! He thought I was being vindictive making pejorative comments about his mother because she had passed, I would never be so cruel. Just like I would never mislead someone the way you did me then block them like a 10 year old girl, grow up jerk!
I was willing to overlook all this and provide a second chance, but guess what people HE BLOCKED ME AGAIN!!! Why you ask? Because I believed him, I believed his lie he wasn't looking for a hookup but a LTR, I believed he and I had a strong connection because the way he treated me prior.
We have all dated people where it didn't work out, or not been compatible and that's fine but that's not what occurred here, I was INTENTIONALLY misled and lied to, I let my guard down then was treated with malevolence, hostility and anger when I was hurt and attempted to seek closure.
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