Sergio Tupac Uzurin Sergio the Sociopath woman beater Buffalo New York

These postings are trash that I had nothing to do with. I want to congratulate you on making an a*s of yourself by flying on a false assumption. Anyone who is reading this crap is wasting their time. Remember, any jerk in the world can post anything they want with no proof and no justification. Don't believe everything you read on the internet.

Hello all, I have been having a good laugh at these false reports written about me by my ex-girlfriend, whose real name is Ariane Michelle Fulk (or Maryann, one of the pseudonyms she uses when introducing herself to people). Here is an example of one of these, which I found easier to laugh at. /Politicians/Sergio-Tupac-Uzurin/sergio-tupac-uzurin-do-not-tru-EC3P3.htm.

However now that this particularly scathing report is the #1 hit for my name on google, when I use my name in my business relationships, and as she and/or her friends have written one about my fraternity (http://www.ripoffreport.com/reports/0/387/RipOff0387118.htm) I feel I must retort.

Ariane was my crush throughout college (SUNY at Buffalo), and I had the pleasure of being her boyfriend last summer. However I knew since the moment I met her that she had clinical issues, some of which we could work around, some of which I knew would be more difficult. She is (as of the moment I last spoke to her, August 2008) emotional unstable in the extreme; consisting of powerful mood swings, and when we lived together it would not be unusual for her to express powerful love and hatred for me within the course of the day. She had mental difficulties (which I could sympathize with as I have Obsessive Compulsive Disorder which thankfully is in remission), and requires help to deal with certain tasks such as job hunting and checkbook balancing. She is also very depressed and has been on powerful medications since her youth, which was troubled.

All in all the Ariane I met was interesting with a dark side, someone worth talking to. As time progressed however, her outlook on life became bleaker and bleaker. Ariane graduated with an Art degree in a time and place (Buffalo) where that doesn't make it easy to have a job. She is a talented artist but like many people in these times has difficulty finding work, made the harder because of her emotional/mental issues. This hit her very hard and while we dated he was not as capable of feeling happy as she was when we met; which is a shame because she was experiencing a few breakthroughs with herself, finding new hobbies and almost becoming able to get off her temper-balancing medication.

The incidents she has been describing in her reports are written by her (possibly with the help of a friend as they are well written and I did not know her to be particularly good at writing, though i may be wrong), they are made into third person accounts. They are also false. Ariane is a cutter, I'm sorry baby that I let your secret out, but I should've called the authorities when I threatened too. While previous males in Ariane's life have most likely abused her physically and emotionally, I never once struck her. The only injuries she sustained were self-inflicted; either bruises from hitting herself on the wall or cuts from her razor which I had to hide on occasion. To be honest, I was the one that was often worried for my physical safety, and while we had some long fights, nothing that could come out of my mouth was as bad at what she hurled at me on a regular basis. Knowing that she has issues, I never took them to heart.

The point of this rebuttal is simply to state that they are false. The party she writes about in the post about my fraternity, which occured Memorial Day weekend 2008 (which has a clean record, compare our to any other org), contained no beatings of anykind, what did happen was that a shady individual unrelated to us went downstairs to use the bathroom and smoked with Ariane, and stole something of hers. Had there been an incident of beating, there would be literally dozens of witnesses. The conditions of the house she describes above, while not perfect, are exaggerated, and while I could have done more to clean my dishes, conditions were as good or better than the houses which Ariane had lived in previous, which I had visited during my undergraduate years. And of course the things she describes me doing to her did not happen.

What you have done here is describe the CLASSIC "Battered Woman Syndrome."

You have aslo described EXTREME MACHISMO VALUES in some cultures, and sadly, some males in Mexican and sometimes Native American cultures engage in this behavior because they have seen their fathers do it to their mothers and they think that it is OK behavior. They don't know any better, they have never seen any better and so they continue THE CYCLE OF ABUSE.

I saw this happen in my own family both on the Native American and Mexican sides. Small rural villages in extremely lower socioeconomic levels --it is a WAY of lfe... I am fortunate that my ancestors were able to come to the USA where some have learned the hard way that it is NOT OK to exploit,torture and harm women in ANY respect. After all, this lady could be the mother of your children!

That said, you are commended for sticking by your friend throughout her days in hell with this woman hating, machismo thug. A REAL MAN DOES NOT HAVE TO BEAT A WOMAN AND ABUSE HIS FAMILY. HE also provides for them financially and does the best he can to protect them.

I am surprised that your friend did not go to the courthouse and look up his arrest records to be found in the Criminal Records section --that is PUBLIC RECORDS which means anyone from the public is entitled to see who was arrested and for what and ultimately CONVICTED!

She should have also have asked around about how this guy was raised and known something about the culture in which he was raised.

Sometimes it is worth it to hire a private investigator to find out these things if you do not have a male relative who can ask about him.

I am also wondering if he was a street gang member.

I hope someone filed charges on this CREEP!