Supercentenarian Research Foundation (SRF) Stan PrimmerStanley R. PrimmerDoros Platika, M.D.Dave Gobel, Elliot Bergman, Ph.D. Robert Cockr Stan Primmer stalking and harassing young girl LAUDERHILL Florida

It was I that broke up with her and she had her own place on March 1st, so if she had contatcted you on April 10th and said she regretted not being with you, what was stopping her on April 10th? And what does "with you" mean? Was she referring to being with you at Panera Bread where you were writing her checks to spend on me? Use that PHD brain. And why would she tell me you were 90? I can see if she were sneaking around with a 35 yr old the need to tell me he was 90 so I'd not suspect any cheating, but what's the sexually active difference between 77 and 90? Nothing. Makes no sence. I treated her like a queen and adored her. Our age difference and personalities were just uncompatable, there was no abuse and she never feared for her safety. I think you must know that she was just (if anything you say is true) lying quite pathalogically to us both. I lived with her for well over a year, and you claim to have taken her out 3 times... I think I know her a little better than you, but obviously only she knows what and why she was up to whatever she was up to. 

everything written was true as it was being relayed to me in real time by her. According to you she told you she had no boyfriend when you met and when she got home from that same meeting she told me of the 90 yr she met that asked her to lunch and she asked if I'd mind. I didn't mind. When she returned from that initial lunch (and she denied having ever met with you again) she couldn't stop telling me about what a pig you were. Why she would tell all these stories is beyond me. She even managed to copy me on emails sent to you that asked you to leave her alone and that your behavior was inappropriate. She showed me texts from you as they came in and I recall one in particular where you said you were outside waiting for her by her car, she caled me immidiatly and asked me to come get her and to drive her and the baby to school the next day becuase she feared you were stalking her. All true. Funny but she spolied me on my birthday end of Nov and when I aksed her where she got all the money from, she said she got $400 back from student loans. Funny too is her not having the money to eat to explain her weight loss... that's the same story she gave me whe I met her and only later discovered that money had nothing to do with her weight. She has other issues surrounding weight, has nothing to do with money. She had plenty of money when she lived with me and was dropping hundreds at Whole Foods each week, she was never hungry unless she chose to be. I'm sorry she spent your $400 to spoil me with Spider-Man lamps and other collectable statues on my birthday. Seems we've both been lied to over and over and I'll not pay to have her lies retracted. I don't regret any of it, it was a good lesson and I did learn a lot from having lived with her for alomst a year and half. Thanks to her, my life is so much better now. It was a good experience for me and I have grown as a person. 

The following from http://www.ripoffreport.com/r/Supercentenarian-Research-Foundation-SRF/LAUDERHILL-Florida-33319/Supercentenarian-Research-Foundation-SRF-Stan-PrimmerStanley-R-PrimmerDoros-Platika-M-1092318 was posted anonymously by Jake Steingart who lives at 9450 SW 8^th St., Apt. 5  in Boca Raton, FL.  Note that his report has nothing to do with the Supercentenarian Research Foundation but is only a false personal accusation against me.  I have never harassed or stalked Jake Steingart’s ex-girlfriend, Lauren.  All of my contacts with her were in accord with the highest ethical standards.  All of Jake’s accusations are totally false.  The Ripoff Report Terms of Service state that “You will NOT post on ROR any defamatory or illegal material . . .”  The posting by Jake was defamatory and is therefore contrary to the Ripoff Report Terms of Service.  I added the text below in square brackets [] in red to an exact copy of his original complaint.  Lauren has reviewed my rebuttal and agrees with all of my statements.

An officer and director of Supercentenarian Research Foundation (SRF), Stanley R. Primmer is “stalking” [Lie: I have never stalked anyone.] a girl 70 years younger [Innacurate] than he… and it’s getting creepier and potentially dangerous  http://www.supercentenarian-research-foundation.org/organization.htm

He lives in Lauderhill @ 3410 HEATHER TER UNIT 3 LAUDERHILL FL 33319 Stanley (age 90 [Innacurate:  I was 77], but spunky) met my girlfriend, Lauren (age 23) [My understanding was that she did not have a boyfriend at that time, only an ex-boyfriend.] at a meeting to discuss Alzheimer research about 3 months ago.

Long story short, Stan invited Lauren to lunch to discuss science and was an absolute pig that immediately asked about her sex life [Lie: I did not ask her about her sex life.], offered her a ride in his new sports car, was disappointed she didn’t wear a skirt and offered to take her shopping for a dress [Lie: I said nothing about her attire and didn’t offer to take her shopping.  Later before 2 of our dates she bought new dresses because she wanted to and without my even suggesting that she buy them.], offered her a room in his home, money, [Wrong: I didn’t offer her a room or money at that time. Later I did when she was trying to escape from Jake.  During our second luncheon date I gave her a check for $400 so she could by food and pay other expenses.  Her weight had dropped from about 110 lbs to 84 lbs because she didn’t have enough money to buy food for herself and her baby.  I was very concerned for her because she was starving.  During the approximately 3 months of our relationship she was desperate to get away from Jake.  At one time she said, “Can’t wait to leave here! :)”  On another occasion she said, “Btw my ex has been harassing me lately.”  When I told her my offer for a condo was accepted, she responded, “Ok :) yay!”] etc. [continued below]....

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..... and every time Lauren asked to stick to science, Stan found a way to be a pig [Lie:  A few minutes after our lunch date Lauren sent me the following text message that is still in my iPhone:  “I had a good time. Thank you very much for the food and conversation! :)”]. Since then, even though Lauren has asked repeatedly for him to stop contacting her [Lie: she never asked me to stop contacting her.], Stan has harassed her continuously via phone calls, email, text messages [Lie: I never harassed her; our extensive communication was all consensual.]  He has also managed to find her Father’s home address [Misleading: she gave me her father’s address and phone number so I could pick her up there for some of our dates.] and called there and left 14 voice mails about how they should be together [Lie: I called her father on Sat. night, Oct. 19, 2013, because I was afraid Jake might be holding her against her will.  Her father returned my call and told me that she was safe.  Before he assured me of her safety, I called the police and asked them to see if she was safe.  After her father called me, I informed the police that she was OK, but they had already visited Jake.], and yesterday (Oct 15th) while Lauren was picking her baby up from daycare, she received a text while inside the school, from Stan that read, “I am outside waiting for you by your car” [I arrived unannounced at her baby’s school because I hadn’t heard from her for a couple of days, and I was very concerned for her safety.  I had sent a text message that morning asking if I could meet her at her baby’s school, but she didn’t reply.  I also needed to get her signature on a home owner’s association application for her and her baby to live in a condo I was buying.  She willingly signed the document.  I sent her the message Jake quoted above as a courtesy so she wouldn’t be surprised to see me when she came out of the school.  The only reason I knew that her baby was enrolled in that school was because she had told me.  The only reason I knew when she would be there to pick him up was because she had told me what her schedule was.  Obviously I could not have been stalking her when she had told me the name and location of the school and what her schedule was to pick up her baby.  Two days later on Oct.17, 2013, she sent me a copy of her Social Security card to include with the home owner’s association application.].  We have called the police (about a week ago today) and the officer even called Stan and asked him to knock it off [Lie: the police did not contact me until Oct. 21, 2013.  Lauren called me Fri. morning, Oct. 18, 2013, and told me that Jake told her he was going to ask a police friend of his to visit me and tell me to knock it off.  At no time did the police visit me.  He also told her he would slash my tires.]. After the COP’s call, we didn’t hear from Stan until that creepy message about his being outside waiting for Lauren.

NOTE: The Palm Beach Sheriff that took the report last week laughed at us and actually suggested we take Stan up on his offers for money and said we could have a great Christmas.

Obviously the Police are not going to offer much help. [Lauren has informed me that the police merely filed an information report, not a police report.  Clearly the officer did not take Jake’s accusations seriously.]  How do we get rid of this creep? You might also be interested to know that his foundation is under investigation for improperly using fund money… maybe it’s going to buy homes and cars for young girls? [I have never used foundation money for my personal expenses or use.  In fact I have donated to the foundation and have paid some of the foundation expenses out of my own pocket.  I can provide witnesses and documentation for these facts.]

Supercentenarian Research Foundation (SRF) 3410 HEATHER TER UNIT 3 LAUDERHILL FL 33319

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On Oct 21st, Lauren and I contacted the Police again and this time the COP called Stan while we listened in and Stan told the COP that he'd been dating Lauren for 3 months, he also told the COP about 3 different dates they'd gone on that according to Lauren, never occurred. In fact, I keep a diary and the dates and times Stan claims to have been with Lauren, she was in fact with me [Lie: I have pictures of Lauren and some pictures of us together on 3 of our dates.  I also have receipts for dinners and a concert I took her to.  I don’t have pictures from our first date, but the LPN who took care of her baby at my place while we went to dinner is a witness.  Her father is also a witness to the fact that I picked her up for 3 dates at his home in West Palm Beach.  It also would make no sense for me to buy a condo that she and her baby could live in, and that she would have packed her car with her things to move to a place I arranged for her if we had never dated.  The officer was extremely irresponsible in letting Jake hear what I told him.  Knowing that Lauren and I had been dating put her at considerable risk.  Therefore, she had to lie to him to protect herself.].  Lauren and I finally think we've managed to stop Stan from harassing her. The week of 20th revealed some new info. According to Lauren who agreed to meet with Stan at a Panera Bread in West Boca, he told her that he in fact bought her a condo [Lie: I bought the condo as an investment in anticipation of it increasing in value.], and used his Daughter's trust fund money  to do so [Lie: I didn’t use my daughter’s trust fund and didn’t tell Lauren that I had.]. He also told Lauren her new condo, that she can live in rent free [Lie: I offered to let her and her baby live in the condo at a low rent if she would cover my expenses, such as home owner’s association dues and taxes.], would not be ready until Nov 8th 2013. In the interim and until the condo is closed on and ready to move into, Stan invited Lauren to live with him in his home in Lauderhill [She could not accept that offer for legal reasons in connection with her divorce.  Instead I arranged for her to stay with a very nice lady for 3 weeks until the condo was ready.]. Stan also offered Lauren her own room, but (in his usual pig fashion) also suggested that Lauren might be more comfortable in his king size water bed [Lie: I don’t have a king size water bed.], he aslo told her she'd learn to love him.

While at Panera, Lauren asked Stan why he lied to the COP about having been dating her [Lie: I did not lie to the cop, and Jake knows that I didn’t.  Before Lauren and I met at Panera, she confronted Jake and told him that she would be leaving him, and told him why she would.  He cried and accepted the blame for the failure of their relationship.  The following is an exact quote from a text message she sent me on Wed. Oct. 23, 2013 that is still in my iPhone: “I decided that instead of just disappearing to engage in straightforward dialogue, which I never do. I told him that I wanted to leave and listed the many reasons why. I expected for him to blow up but he didn’t. Instead he started to cry and told me that he knows he ruined his chances with me and that he respects that I want to leave. He said he wants to change but he knows he’s given me empty promises before and that I probably don’t believe he will and admit that he might not ever change. He said he’s not going to follow me or bother me. He said he wishes he treated me better and knows I only stayed so long because of reserved/mixed feelings and fear. He said he won’t be spiteful towards me because he realizes for the first time that it’s his fault. I’m starting to pack some things now. I didn’t tell him where or when I was going, but made it clear that I was and that there is no more chances for him. Guess he didn’t take his steroids today. I’ve never seen him respond so calmly.”], and he said he lied because he was concerned that if he told the COP the truth, he'd have been arrested for the stalking that we accused him of [Lie: when Jake posted this addition to his original complaint, he knew that I neither stalked or harassed Lauren.  He knew that our entire relationship was consensual.]. I found Stan in the parking lot of Lauren and I's apartmnent and I sopke with Stan [As Jake well knows, he found me in the parking lot of his apartment because shortly before that Lauren had moved all of her things out of his apartment and put them in her car to move out.  She didn’t have room for her baby’s high chair, so she asked me to put it in my car.  While I was at lunch, she sent me a text message that said, “Stan, I’m sorry but I’ve changed my mind. I’ve decided that I’d rather be with Jake. I’m sorry if you lose your deposit. I am still in love with Jake and I just can’t do this.” I then returned to Jake’s apartment parking lot where I spoke first with Lauren, then with Jake, and then with both of them.  All of Lauren’s things had been removed from her car.  I removed her baby’s high chair from my car and gave it back to them.  Lauren was very apologetic.  Jake “seemed” like a decent guy who was determined to go straight because keeping Lauren was very important to him.  He acknowledged his fault in their relationship.  He said that he had seen a doctor and was taking medicine to bring his testosterone levels significantly down.  Lauren had told me before that he was taking steroids which she thought contributed to his spells of anger.  I was extremely disappointed, but I left without making any further fuss.  This entire encounter demonstrates Jake’s duplicity in subsequently posting his lies on Nov. 3, 2013.  I attempted no contact with Lauren nor engaged in any type of communication with her after Oct 24, 2013 until she sent me an Email on April 10, 2014.]... he's a very confused person and I told him I felt bad for him. He also told Lauern at Panera that he'd been looking for a girl like Lauren all his life. As he's 90 [77] and she's 23, I'd say he was doing something wrong, and continues to do it wrong. As of today, Oct 27th, Lauren has finally managed to figure out to use call blocking (prior to that she changed her phone number), and we hope to be done with Stan Primmer for good. 

[In summary please note these facts:

1. Jake acknowledged that he knew I was purchasing a condo to give Lauren and her baby a place to live.

2. He knew that Lauren had removed all her things from his apartment and loaded them into her car in order to move out.

3. He knew that her baby’s highchair was in my car.

4. He knew that only at the last minute Lauren changed her mind and decided to stay with him.

5. Jake was the one who removed Lauren’s things from her car and put them back into his apartment.

These facts prove that on November 3, 2013, Jake knew that I had not stalked or harassed Lauren and that his libelous accusations were false.]

[Lauren informed me on April 10, 2014 that she still has the same phone number and Email address.  In that Email she said, “I can never forgive myself nor him for destroying the relationship I had with you. I was so happy with you, and yet I went back to the same abuses I already knew deep down I would continue to endure.”  She also said, “I think about you all the time. Thank you for all the good times you showed me, the genuine care you had for my son, and for being so willing to accept me as a part of your life. I can't possibly apologise enough for what I know I have done.“  She signed the Email, “With love, Lauren.”  The subject line of the Email was “You were absolutely right.”  She had broken up with him, and is now living on her own.  I have a new girlfriend and am not seeking to renew my relationship with Lauren.]

[I am willing to submit this matter to arbitration if Jake will pay half of the $2,000 arbitration fee.  If he were simply to retract his false accusations, arbitration would not be necessary.]

On Oct 21st, Lauren and I contacted the Police again and this time the COP called Stan while we listened in and Stan told the COP that he'd been dating Lauren for 3 months, he also told the COP about 3 different dates they'd gone on that according to Lauren, never occurred. In fact, I keep a diary and the dates and times Stan claims to have been with Lauren, she was in fact with me.  Lauren and I finally think we've managed to stop Stan from harassing her. The week of 20th revealed some new info. According to Lauren who agreed to meet with Stan at a Panera Bread in West Boca, he told her that he in fact bought her a condo, and used his Daughter's trust fund money to do so. He also told Lauren her new condo, that she can live in rent free, would not be ready until Nov 8th 2013. In the interim and until the condo is closed on and ready to move into, Stan invited Lauren to live with him in his home in Lauderhill. Stan also offered Lauren her own room, but (in his usual pig fashion) also suggested that Lauren might be more comfortable in his king size water bed, he aslo told her she'd learn to love him.

While at Panera, Lauren asked Stan why he lied to the COP about having been dating her, and he said he lied because he was concerned that if he told the COP the truth, he'd have been arrested for the stalking that we accused him of. I found Stan in the parking lot of Lauren and I's apartmnent and I sopke with Stan... he's a very confused person and I told him I felt bad for him. He also told Lauern at Panera that he'd been looking for a girl like Lauren all his life. As he's 90 and she's 23, I'd say he was doing something wrong, and continues to do it wrong. As of today, Oct 27th, Lauren has finally managed to figure out to use call blocking (prior to that she changed her phone number), and we hope to be done with Stan Primmer for good.