Match.com BUYER BEWARE! Virginia, Internet

"committed to paying the 119.95 for 6 months"

That's correct, you committed yourself to a contract.

"They said I could have called to get a free trial but no where on the website does it say that!"

On the match.com web site:
Frequently Asked Questions
Receiving a Free Trial
A free trial is a great way to test out our subscription benefits while you're thinking about purchasing a subscription. It allows you to use subscriber-only benefits for free, for a few days.

Match.com Terms of Use Agreement
If you terminate your subscription, your subscription will remain active until the end of your then-current subscription period (that is, the subscription period through which you had paid prior to your termination).

Clearly not a rip off.

I met my wife (seven years married now) on Match.com.  Of course I had a job and no kids to support. 

I am sorry that you are  having a problem with match.com, but what you are explaining is not a rip-off.  You signed up for a six month service to get a guarantee, and you did use and received some interest from the site. 

Despite the fact that you only used it for a couple of days, you did in fact use it.  They have kept they end of the bargain at that point.  You sound like you are having buyers remorse, which would not necessarily be a cause for refunding money.

The 3-day cancellation term you mentioned, in most states would only apply if a seller contacted you outside of their business.  If they came to your door or called you on the phone, you would probably have a cause of action, but in this case you contacted them.  That would negate any 3-day cancellation.

As for using money that could have been used for utilities or groceries for you daughter, well unfortunately that is where you should have been more careful with your money.  It is not the fault of a business where you got the money, but rather a conscious decision on your part.  If that had been the consideration, you should not have obligated the money.

I suggest that since you have paid for a six-month service that you use it as much as possible.  Just make sure they are aware, through their cancellation policy and procedures, that you do not want it renewed automatically. 

Also be very careful with the people they match you with, make sure you screen them carefully before going out, that you meet them at a location away from your home, and that you meet them for lunch before committing to any night time date.

I wish you well and hope things work out for you.  However, this is not a rip-off.