Rose Wholesale they sold me (and presumably everyong) garbage! Shenzhen Internet

I ordered three items from Rose Wholesale, without doing much research on the company. They took the money right away but the items didn't arrive for about a month. The recieved items looked absolutely nothing like the advertisements. Not sure if I can upload pictures, but I can show side by side that the ad pictured a gorgeous woven oversized sweater and what arrived was a rag full of holes. The dress I ordered had the stitching coming out in three different places. The third dress I ordered was just gigantic, bizarre, and ugly and did not look like the picture (although of the three, it was the closest).

When I attempted to follow the procedures as instructed by their web site, I was unable to upload pictures. Since 11/21 (over a month ago) I have been going back and forth with customer service. First they told me to upload a picture, then they offered a code to buy more stuff (that's the last thing I want), then they claimed I had to pay return shipping (which costs $40 and I have no reason to think they'll actually refund my money once they get the stuff!), then they claimed I have to pay a restocking fee. They keep reiterating that it will take too much of my time and money and I should give the items to my relatives (no one would want these items!).  

Because it took them so long to send the items relative to when they charged my card, my credit card company will probably not allow me to challenge this transaction. Since having this problem I have discovered that many people have had the same experience with this company (or, the items are never recieved at all). They know they are selling and sending garbage but they set it up so that it is near impossible for anyone to get a refund so people just give up and let them have their money.