Caliber home loans Spent 2 years trying to keep my home after my wife's death , it was like talking to a wall Oklahoma

 I have been corasponding with caliber home loans since the death of my wife from cancer, thay kept telling me thay couldn't work with me cuz I was not granted exsecutor of the estate . Law offices kept telling me that was crazy because my name was on the title , after 1 year thay sent me paper work to lower my payments , I filled them out and mailed them , after 30 days and no reply I called them , and to my surprise thay new nothing about it . By now thay started refusing payments. I have since moved out and let them foreclose , I'm out of money and can't afford any more league fees , I thought president Obama I acted a policy for destresed fanny may and Freddy Mack loans . Evidently not . Help me !