ocwen loan servicing LLC They are attempting to take my home !! CAN SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ! west palm beach, Florida

I was layed off in november 2010 , I called ocwen to see if there was anything they could do for me .I could only contact someone in Bangor India who said ther was a program to modify my mortgage . I sat on the phone for an hour while " we " filled out the application , going through our monthly expenses . After it was completed , my representative from India , told me I didn't make enough money to recieve help ! He told me I had to have a positive balance of money after all bills were paid at the end of the month in order to recieve help . I responded by saying " if I had extra money at the end of the month , then I wouldn't need help . "  To which , he hung up .
After a few weeks we recieved a letter in the mail stating that they were now going to start paying our property taxes ( which are only $1100 a year ) and our payment was goin up about $250 per month ! We have been fighting with them all winter , and now we recived a letter from them around the first of Feb 2011 , saying we had to pay nearly $3000 by Feb , 20th , 2011 to stop forclosure . We got our incom taxes back and put money with it and sent them the money on Feb 12th , and today , the 18th of Feb 2011 , we recieved notice they were forclosing on our house ! I contacted their attorney ,  in Bloomfield Hills Mi , and explained the situation to no avail . Now they want me to fill out the  " loan remodification " again , the one I had already filled out to begin with . The one I don't qualify for because I don't have " extra money " at the end of the month !
We do not want to loose our home we have been in it for 25 years . My grandfather and his siblings were actually born in this house ! We don't know what to do . The only thng Ocwen will say is that I need to get a better job .